Best Male friend asking for BJ

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Hey girls, I was faced with a dillema some months back when my best male friend who went through rough divorce asked me to give him a BJ (no strings attached) because he needs a relief and is going through rough time moving on.

Was wondering if you would do it?

I'd tell him to hire a prostitute if he "needed relief". Thats not what friends are for. Well unless you think he's crazy hot and youve always wanted his dick in your mouth.

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LOL....thank you for nice response Seaside.......let's say extra hot....ex college football player..........:)

B careful!!! strings usually attached!

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Have you ever done it before?

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Id say he just would like a bj. you can get release by yourself. if you would do it anyway go for it. if you are doing it because you feel bad for him id say dont. most likely he might be trying to take advantage of the situation.

he'd cease to be a friend. immediately. forever.

the mere suggestion that as his female friend i might lend him emotional support by giving him a convenient place to drain his nuts? fuck that noise.

i suggest he'd call up his closest male friend with the same request.

he needs relief? does the guy being hot really make a difference? being attractive wouldn't influence my reaction one bit. fucking. ew. in fact, anyone propositioning so would instantly become repulsive to me. as a human being.


if any part of you is flattered by being an easy cum dump, with no strings, seek professional help with your self esteem.

eta: i can't imagine any of my male friends valuing me so little as a friend. not sure if i am pure "wtf" cranky... or shocked. my dudes just don't act like that.

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lol right because no woman has ever gotten drunk after a divorce and tried to sleep with one of her male friends
happens all the time on both sides
if you like him and think he's hot why not say hey I'd like to have a relationship when you are over the ho

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Tell him to post pics here, he'll get all kinds of offers for "relief."

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Uh, this happened "some months" back, and you haven't given him an answer yet?

Or has it already played out and you're just wondering what others think about it?

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He'd have to have worded it in a really awesome way for me to not get offended. Lol. Let's say that he managed to say it without offending me, I may or may not do it. In fact, I might offer him a trade off. Oral for oral. Especially if he's one of those guys you've always been into sexually but he was married so you couldn't ever do anything.

Tbh, if you think you'd enjoy it an you're comfortable with it being a no-strings sort of thing, then do it.

On the flip side, though, getting head will not help him move on. :/

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I would like to know what your initial response was.

I'm thinking of my closest male friend, and we tease and flirt a lot. If he were to ask me such a thing, no matter how it's wrapped I would be shocked, saddened, embarrassed, mortified and very very angry. The relationship would be changed forever, and for the near and foreseeable future I would avoid him at all costs.

Just saying.

Er... Do friends ask their friends for blowjobs? Where is this guy living? In the woods? Hello Kalahari desert man, go get yourself a 50 bucks -red light district - relief. And i bet this so called friend, my ask his male friends for a relief too ha? Why stop half way....

stacy 'if' you think he's hot then your asking for trouble. Lets say you do it. Then he finds another girlfriend, how are you going to feel about that. Knowing how he's hung, knowing how he likes getting it. Knowing all of that ! It would change you and him. Anytime he's out of 'luck' he'd ask you 'for ole times sake' and then your stuck, no relationship and all you are is his go to girl later. Ellie honey 'if' you and this friend are doing this flirting and teasing then he would maybe ask that question why do you feel that way about it ? Play with fire get burned, I would say STOP flirting and say why !

Ya never know till ya try..

I am not a female however from where I sit, I would say no.
There are women out there who will do this for him, prostitutes and women at bars looking for a 1 night stand. (remind him to use protection).

As to relief, unless his hands are both busted, he can masturbate. That works well for millions of men.

Right now he says it's just friends and giving him a hummer no strings, that can change very quickly from his side or even from yours. If you do this once, he will likely come back for another, and another, and another.

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