Extra tight with with fiance after break from sex, anyone else dealing with that?

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Edit: please disregard the extra "with" in the title...it's clearly too early for me!

Good morning all,
I had a rather odd question to other guys on here, particularly those on the thicker side, as I was wondering if this is something people out there in straight relationships have to deal with.

These days I don’t masturbate much if at all as my sex life with my fiancé generally keeps all of those urges at bay. We are fairly compatible and she has adjusted to my size for the most part though she does experience discomfort from time to time that has left her sore or unable to continue with sex. That is sadly another issue that I have written about on here.

What I wanted to comment on was sex after a brief period of not having it. This generally comes up during her period as hers is so bad that she is in too much discomfort and is too sensitive to partake in intercourse for at least four to five days per month. During that time we have very little sexual contact (which is ok, she feels pretty miserable then) so I will sometimes masturbate once or twice during that time. This applies to trips where we stay at family/friends of family’s houses and cannot be intimate as well. Usually by the end of this downtime I’m pretty raring to go and the next time things get hot and heavy I find myself swelling extra extra hard. It’s weird because I’m normally very hard when aroused, but after that period of no sex I find that I swell up a little more width/girth wise (can see it in the head as well). Given that we’re a tight fit to begin with this ends up proving to be an issue and can cause her discomfort when we initiate penetration.

I end up easing in much slower than normal working in half an inch at a time trying to help her get adjusted and coating myself with her lubrication. It is quite the ordeal given that she’s also still a little sensitive from her period and sometimes her pussy grip on me is almost uncomfortable. In the end there is some discomfort and she’s not the happiest but it eases out and it starts to feel good for her eventually.

Has anyone else run into this problem with their girlfriends/fiancés/wives etc.?


Orz

I see my girlfriend once a month, and so she is tight every time I see her, we are very active on the weekends, spending from 8 to 16 hrs having sex over a 2 day time period, at first she is like a vise and I have a very hard time getting myself in her, and that is after I do a great deal of oral and finger banging to loosen her up. Even with astro glide for lube she is a very tight fit, and she is 49 yr old so its nice to have a young lady at that age still tight like a virgin every time, she has some discomfort at first but I am very gentle, and then she is able to handle me, this last time she had her period which I didn't care, put a towel under her and use soap and water after I am done, actually she was even tighter this time since she was having her period....

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I have been with my wife for 16 yrs and she is still very tight and we use lube everytime we have sex. After that time of the month it takes a while to get it in her.

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I know what you mean about the swell, you get when very horny. Early in our relationship, my gf used to whimper, and I'd ask if she's ok, and she'd be on the verge of holding back tears and would tell me to keep going. However nothing kills my wood faster than that. Now that we've been together going on 5 yrs, it's really not an issue anymore.

Every woman's vagina is different, and unlike us, we can't truly see how large/deep it is. She should stretch out a bit over time, but the vagina by nature is very elastic and resilient. I've learned that foreplay is very important, to get everything warmed up and ready to accept.

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Wise words!! Also find out what kind of stroking feels best for her. For instance, you may be pounding her, when she like short strokes and grinds.

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I checked you pictures, and you wife has a beautiful pussy. Is she really tight, or does she just feel that way because you have huge cock? LOL

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Foreplay, foreplay foreplay. Is she capable of squirting? A good squirting orgasm with your fingers before penetration should relax things up and get everything nice and wet. Just as she's done squirting get your friend poking. A woman needs to completely relax (completely) in order to squirt. Yeah I know it's messy... but so worth every drop! (pun intended) ;)

Also, the more aroused she is the more accommodating she will be. Find out what her psychological, tactile, visual and auditive turn ons are and you'll have her nice and swollen, ever more hungry to be filled by you.

Basically, you've recognized there is more tightness when you haven't penetrated her in a few days so just take your time on those days. I understand in those instances you haven't had sex in a while and you're famished... a perfect occasion to shower your woman with love and passion!!

Wishing you well.

MM

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Hungryman40 She seems tight to me, but maybe to the average guy she isnt. Takes about 10 min to get in her and let her adjust before we can really go at it but then I can fuck her pretty hard.