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jerking off with friends

when me and my best friend were younger just out of high school, we had a several experiences of jerking off together. its now years later and i was interested in seeing if he wanted

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Old 07-05-2012   #1 (permalink)
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jerking off with friends

when me and my best friend were younger just out of high school, we had a several experiences of jerking off together. its now years later and i was interested in seeing if he wanted to do it again for old time sake. how is the best possible way to bring this up? see if he is interested or not? i am staying at his house next week, i dont want to bring it up make him upset and them let me not stay. we've been best friends for like 10 years. what should i do???
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Old 07-05-2012   #2 (permalink)
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Dont even try its gonna get things complicated. Don't risk it, not with him.

Bitch please, it's cool to be 'not small' but rest is just extra meat AND extra ego.
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Old 07-05-2012   #3 (permalink)
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I wouldn't recommend it if your friend identifies as straight a straight male these days. I've had similar experiences with my friends, and I know now that it would be very uncomfortable if any of them brought it to my attention now.

If you really want to go through with it and have the confidence to go through with it, the most painless method would be something like this...

"Hey (friends name), remember when we used to jerk off together? Those were some pretty fun times."

Listen to his response... Then something like...

"Well, we could always do it again. We're adults now. No pressure though."

If his reaction is positive, then you probably don't have anything to worry about, but don't force anything gay on him because that is in poor taste.

If his reaction isn't pleasant, go no further. No need to ruin a friendship over a JO session.
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Old 07-05-2012   #4 (permalink)
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Or you could just wait and see whether he will initiate something...
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Old 07-05-2012   #5 (permalink)
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Try teasing it. Walk around in a towel. If ur married comment about a penis enlargement program ur on (true or not) and offer to show em. If u end up showing just be like u remember that timevwe beat off? But don't be weird. Play it by ear
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Old 07-05-2012   #6 (permalink)
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just start talking about the good old days when you could do or that and not care, oh how times have changed and couldn't we capture some of those times again....that sort of thing.

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Old 07-05-2012   #7 (permalink)
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You're older now... you'd need to be honest and genuinely explain why.

Otherwise don't bother.

Every day is a great day
when you're in proper mind.

Do me a favor and check this out: wisdom
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Old 07-05-2012   #8 (permalink)
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I don't see a reason for you not to ask him? If he's your best friend and you've been best friends for 10 years, I say ask him. However, don't push it. Just simply say, "remember when we use to jerk off together? Would you like to maybe do it again?" If he really is your best friend he'll either say "yeah, why not?" or "Nah, I dont think so" and you just say "Ok." and move on. Atleast, that's how it would be with my best friend.
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Old 07-05-2012   #9 (permalink)
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we've been best friends for like 10 years. what should i do???

uuhhmm, is it all that important to you?
suggest if your not to sure how he will take it after knowing him for that period, and especially if he may kick you out ( i doubt that) then Dont ask??
otherwise
go fo it, just a mention of ole times sake casually, may give you an easy out if he balks at it,ha
sorry if i was so damn unhelpful .. me, probably jealous.


was re-thinking with jealousy
you can always ask him for a shared morning Jo, that way you got your sleepover in huh?

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)

"ave atque vale"
(hail&farewell)

Last edited by rbkwp; 07-05-2012 at 07:46 PM.. Reason: morning jo
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Old 07-07-2012   #10 (permalink)
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My mate has just ended a long relationship and has come round to jerk off on my couch a few times recently.
Tend to watch hardcore porn, teen chicks getting nailed, and play with ourselves.
It does feel a little weird, especially since I've suggested we look for a woman to join us and he's declined.
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Old 07-07-2012   #11 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jjsjr View Post
You're older now... you'd need to be honest and genuinely explain why.

Otherwise don't bother.
Yarp.

"Hey, I feel like watching some porn and having a wank. Is that cool?" If he says "no, not at all" and leaves the room, you have your answer. If he says "no, not at all" and stays in the room, you have your answer.

Obvious caveat: Don't do it if either of you has a significant other who would not be down with you doing it.
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Old 07-07-2012   #12 (permalink)
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Is it worth risking your friendship for, even the risk seems small? You have to consider what is important to you. Exactly what could be gained by asking him?
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Old 07-08-2012   #13 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by erratic View Post
"Hey, I feel like watching some porn and having a wank. Is that cool?" If he says "no, not at all" and leaves the room, you have your answer. If he says "no, not at all" and stays in the room, you have your answer.
This is not a bad approach. Just have a few beers and be open that you still often have a tug whilst watching some porn, ask him if he does. Depending on his answer that gives you a good lead in to reminiscing about when you used to wank together when younger.
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Old 07-08-2012   #14 (permalink)
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I agree with fratpack. Bring up the conversation after a couple beers, with some porn playing in the background. Guys who have jerked together in the past are strangely bonded for life. Its really a good thing for males, as we can compartmentalize sexual acts easily without the emotional baggage.

Post your update.
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Old 07-08-2012   #15 (permalink)
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Why is this jerking off important enough to risk a best friendship of ten years? Perspective!
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