do women really enjoy gangbang?

bijo · 07-27-2006

its my favorite porno to watch but i'm wonder if women really like it

MMURF1 · 07-27-2006

i am sure that there are some women who like it bc they get a lot of attention, but then again, im sure that there are other women that do it bc they can always get a good amount of money from it im sure.... just my 2 cents

HotBulge · 07-27-2006

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Originally Posted by bijo

its my favorite porno to watch but i'm wonder if women really like it

I'm actually glad to see that a man had the courage to raise this question, and I hope that the ladies on this board report their opinions in earnest.

We men tend to get our first real looks into standard sex through pornograph and invariably the generic gang bang scene comes up. If guys are a little "lucky", we end up at some party in college or thereafter where a gangbang scenario spontaneously happens, and in the back of one's mind, there's this little voice saying that a pornographic fantasy is about to come to life. There's a point where a man has to ask is this violence and disrespect (from a woman's perspective) or is this just a woman who is unleashing her erotic potential and begging to be "overstimulated".

I've often wondered if the woman who participates in a gang bang is really enthusiatic about it in the moment but then later regrets the act because of the social repurcussions and perceptions of being a "slut".

Ladies, please shed some light on this. This may actually serve as a public service forum thread.

dongalong · 07-27-2006

I have a married friend who is a swinger but with someone elses wife.

Her biggest turn on is to be gang banged and he organises them for her.
He once payed for a hotel room and invited 3 or 4 of his friends from work to gang bang her.

Another time they went to a Paris swinger club and he invited all the black guys there to see to her needs (she is rather classy and her biggest turn on is a muscular, hung black guy or 5!), he told me that he felt a bit inadequate in such company.

He once mentioned doing another of her fantasies which I would have been invited to: she wanted to go into a forest alone wearing only a fur coat then we would have appeared one by one to start the gang bang.

I have proposed my home as his future gang bang facilties so I'll see what happens.

sares · 07-27-2006

well jeez, duh guys. obviously women love gangbangs. more women join gangbang clubs than sewing circles. hell, I stopped out at lunch to entertain a crowd, you know, just to feel like I got a workout.

NOT

first of all. honestly I was just going to skip this thread, one of the millions of what do women like threads. I quote myself: "I get a little tired of dudes polling the female population here like they have some kind of uterine hive-mind that collects and shares cockdata." YES it's good to ask questions of each other but can we try and be a little intelligent about it and not treat women like they are interchangeable pieces?!

anyway. the earnest questioning of some of these guys above me just blows my mind. so here's your answer, listen carefully.

PORN STARS IN PORN ARE WORKING, NOT PLAYING.
PORN STARS DO WHAT THEY DO FOR MONEY.
PORN STARS are PAID to make you THINK they are ENJOYING IT.
for more information, see I Think That Stripper Really Liked Me.

and:

FANTASY is a very different thing than REALITY. some things that are enjoyable in a person's head are not enjoyable in real life.
a SMALL MINORITY of non-professional women have a gang bang fantasy.
a SMALL MINORITY OF THE SMALL MINORITY will actually go through with it for fun.

bijo · 07-27-2006

sares that is what i thought

sares · 07-27-2006

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Originally Posted by bijo

sares that is what i thought

the truth is, friend, that I have no idea exactly how many women have this fantasy. maybe it is common, just fun to think about. or maybe an open-minded woman won't mind talking about it or role-playing the idea if it really turns you on. if it was a huge turn on for my husband I would play along, and his excitement would make me excited. AS LONG as it was clear he wasn't expecting to shop me around for REAL!

so who knows how many people think of it in sexy terms. however I am pretty confident in saying that it's only very very few women who want it so much that they really do it.

look into swingers and stuff if you'd like to pursue this in the real world.

B_Stronzo · 07-27-2006

Isn't a gang bang a bunch of guys basically raping a woman?? Sorry maybe my terminology/definition is off but how can this be a legitimate question?

Maybe the thread author means a group of guys fucking a willing woman who wants a varitey of cocks entering her in an abundacne of places. If that's the case I've never seen it. Does it exist in hetero porn??

The very nature of the phraseology of the term "gang bang" implies manipulation and control. Bleech.

sares · 07-27-2006

to me gang bang is just a succession of penises fucking a willing woman, stronzo

gang rape is another thing entirely, but it's a distinct term in my lexicon.

Heather LouAnna · 07-27-2006

Lemme drink a bit first and I'll participate. lol

I get to say "stop" though...........that'd probably be about 30 minutes in....but it'd be a really interesting 30 minutes.

don't come on my face.

Matthew · 07-27-2006

A wise person once told me that straight porn "tells lies about women but the truth about men." I'll leave it for others to say whether that's true or not.

But I'm thinking that the number of women who truly enjoy gangbangs is pretty small.