Originally Posted by NC_BBC
Every woman CAN come.... most men just don't take the time to find out how to make it happen...
I agree with this large-in-part, but you can't rely on just one method (i.e. just vaginal intercourse). Women are a little more difficult sexually, though, due to their emotions playing a bigger role and also their natural feminine cycles.
Originally Posted by Drifterwood
In my post modern feminist world, it isn't a man's job to know what makes another human orgasm. Women should know themselves, spend and invest more time in their own sexual being.
I agree with this as well. Most women are pillow-princesses or close to it and completely expect the guy to bring them to orgasm.
What I find interesting is that many times men will be the dominant and they will work themselves to orgasm. While women are passive and don't do much to reach an orgasm.
With that said, from what I know many vaginally stimulated orgasms are more rare than common. Sometimes it is only clitoral, which brings me back to the original point of finding alternative ways of helping them out.
Originally Posted by KTF40
EDIT: But keep in mind like 40% of women are sexually dysfunctional in some form or another.
I'd almost guess that it is more than this. For a lot of women their bodies and their sexuality is all taboo.
Originally Posted by simbablk
Never been with a woman that I didn't get to cum. I HAVE been with women that took lots of effort and patience to get her to cum but she DID cum! In my experience, some were easier than others, but they all came.
That being said, you have to take the time to figure out HOW to make her cum. It may not happen the very first time, but if you're tuned into her sounds, whimpers, and subtle hints of what is actually pleasing her you can make her cum the first time. But it doesn't always happen. Listen to her body and you'll fine tune your instrument to make her scream a C-Sharp chord! HA! (**A little music humor there. Ah nevermind.)