Of course the replies will be anecdotal. That said, the top three moments are shared by two men and 1 woman. She is the only one to make me unload from it - I think I prefer seeing a lady's face more than a guy tho...so that's just me.
The larger truth is that most women are not interested in doing it, so the odds of them being great at it is lower since they're not 'practicing' lol. With guys, the desire & interest to do it is TREMENDOUS; subsequently, generally speaking they're overall good.
For example, I've had mediocre to INCREDIBLE experiences dealing with men; whereas, with women it's been that one lady I mentioned who was amazing and some moments that were horrible that I never asked again - perhaps it's a woman jedi-mind trick to be so horrible that the question is never asked ever again! hmm o_O
very interesting, Loved reading it. from what I've heard too, Men are more enthusiastic so it is less forced..therefore we can do a better job. I'm sure there are women who are great too. Overall maybe the fact that some women find it repulsive doesn't help!
Men. I think if men are into cock, they really make love to the cock. Whereas, a lot of women do it because their men want, or nag them to do it. Their heart just isn't into it. I am sure there are exceptions to this as well. Most women I know, will not swallow. Then again, I have met a few guys that won't either....
Generally men. We know how the entire process feels personally, and can therefore tailor the blowjob from our own experience of what feels good and when what feels good.
Woman can be just as good as men, but that's less frequent. That's ok though, while men generally give better bj's nothing feels better then when a woman plays her ace card; slipping your cock in her tight and warm pussy. Bi or not, to me, that is the best feeling in the world and something a man can never do.
Don't get me wrong a good blowjob is epic, but for me, it's a 9 on the scale whereas sex with a woman is a 10.