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Do hung guys go for average guys?

I'm pretty disillusioned with meeting guys. I can't decide if it doesn't work out because: A) I'm poz B) I'm average hung C) I'm not destined for love D) I'm v smart, but average body.

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Old 12-07-2012   #1 (permalink)
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Do hung guys go for average guys?

I'm pretty disillusioned with meeting guys. I can't decide if it doesn't work out because:

A) I'm poz
B) I'm average hung
C) I'm not destined for love
D) I'm v smart, but average body.

Any thoughts are welcome. Auspoz.
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Old 12-07-2012   #2 (permalink)
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myself size really dosent matter to me at all as long as you not 1000 lbs and your sexy and good to be with im good .plus remember in here guys are the big of the big in real life 10 inches is very rare . i just talked to a woman last night that has been wirh 40 or so guys only 2 have been 8 inches none any bigger than that so if oyu 6 or so you should ahve no porblems at all
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Old 12-07-2012   #3 (permalink)
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what does poz mean?
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Old 12-07-2012   #4 (permalink)
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Poz means HIV positive.

To Auspoz: I would say the biggest hurdle is prob your status. But even that is not insurmountable. As more people educate themselves on HIV the stigma should lessen. Of course you will need to contend with what you want and their comfort level. Intellectually knowing there is no reported cases of HIV transmission through oral alone may not be enough for someone to blow you to completion with out a condom, or pulling out, for example, though others will happily do so.

As for hung only liking hung? Nah. My guy is hung and he loves my average cock. We are both vers, for what it is worth.

Body type? Listen, there is something for everyone. I am heavier and found a dude who is into heavier people. Actually, he prefers heavier, but likes people, which is important as I am trying to lose weight and it would suck if I lost him due to that! lol he has assured me he will find me sexy no matter what

Not destined for love? Meh. Who is? My situation is far from perfect. It works for me. We are in love. The question being, for us, is does that trump all that is not going for us (distance, work, his being in the closet)

I am neg, so I don't have first hand experience with the discrimination you face. But my uncle is Poz and I have seen what he went through. He found his partner though and they have been together....12, 14 years? Over a decade, that is for certain. Don't count yourself out
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Old 12-07-2012   #5 (permalink)
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Every guy I've been with (which isn't many) was small to average sized (3-6"). I'm not super hung but I really don't care about cock size. Personality makes someone sexy.
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Old 12-07-2012   #6 (permalink)
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size matters not to me!
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Old 12-07-2012   #7 (permalink)
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size are important but not fundametal, better a big heart and big brain guy with an averange cock that a big cock guy with an averange heart and a total jackass
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Old 12-07-2012   #8 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by angryoungman View Post
Personality makes someone sexy.
Long answer: If I'm attracted to a guy, I'm almost guaranteed to like whatever he has between his legs, as long as it's not small (small is horrible.) As discussed in another thread I started, I'm a Sapiosexual; I love intelligent guys. Also...sense of humor, nice smile, good kisser, adventurous, smells good.

Dick size is just one of many factors that makes a person attractive.

Aus, a few weeks ago you commented on my own experience with dating a poz guy and how I worked through the fear. It is a big issue but not an insurmountable one. The reason I was willing to walk through my fear of dating a poz person was because I liked him so much.

Short answer: this hung guy has no issues with dating an average guy.

...as long as it's just a treat, not a way of life.
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Old 01-03-2013   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by AlexDB9 View Post
Long answer: If I'm attracted to a guy, I'm almost guaranteed to like whatever he has between his legs, as long as it's not small (small is horrible.) .
How small can a guy be before it's horrible?
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Old 01-03-2013   #10 (permalink)
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under 4 is kind of too small for me.
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Old 01-03-2013   #11 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by AlexDB9 View Post
Dick size is just one of many factors that makes a person attractive.
This.

I'm hung myself, but my first boyfriend was actually pretty small - about 4.5" but I was crazy about him. He was so funny, smart, and confident, and those were the things that turned me on about him. I've also met a few guys with decent cocks who didn't turn me on at all for various reasons.

That being said, I do understand that as a hung guy, often cocks are disappointing because I'm so used to my own cock which is big. I did go through a period where I thought I was cursed because every guy I went out with or hooked up with was kind of on the small side. So as far as just hook ups go, a lot of hung guys probably do want to just go for other hung guys. But if you're really attracted to someone, it doesn't really matter. A guy who wouldn't want to be with you because of your penis size isn't worth being with.
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Old 01-03-2013   #12 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by auspoz View Post
I'm pretty disillusioned with meeting guys. I can't decide if it doesn't work out because:

A) I'm poz
B) I'm average hung
C) I'm not destined for love
D) I'm v smart, but average body.

Any thoughts are welcome. Auspoz.
I'm not poz; but totally in the same boat but I'm a lil smaller dick-wise...so don't feel bad man. If you figure it out, definitely let me know:)
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Old 01-03-2013   #13 (permalink)
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I pride myself in saying that size and looks don't matter, but if you are lower than average in a every form of the term... it would be really hard to stay interested sexually. for me average is 6"-7" and some degree of symmetric bone structure. I would hate to think of myself as shallow.
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Old 01-03-2013   #14 (permalink)
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I am very cool with 4" even but below gets a little tough,if love was present, that may change
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Old 01-04-2013   #15 (permalink)
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Yes, I go for average.

I'm not a size queen- but I do like their boyfriends
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