The word ruined has so many negative connotations attached to it... while I'm not so naive as to believe there isn't a single woman out there that fantasizes about being ruined, I think most people who have any love or respect for their body do not want to see any part of it 'ruined'.
I think the fantasy sounds more like something out of the male mind (one with some issues if I may start some controversy
) ... I'd bet a lot more guys fantasize about ruining women than the other way around, ya know? But that's just my two cents, not even enough to buy a phone call