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Old 01-22-2013   #1 (permalink)
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Straight men have gay fantasies.

Same sex fantasies common among straight men - National Sexual Health | Examiner.com

discuss? are the straight guys surprised by this?
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Old 01-22-2013   #2 (permalink)
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I'm surprised.

I don't experience fantasies of this sort and it hadn't occurred to me that other hetero guys would be any different.

There isn't a reference or link to the research in the article, so I'm not sure I ought to take the opinion too seriously...

"Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity."

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Old 01-22-2013   #3 (permalink)
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No, not surprised at all. Might have been surprised before LPSG, but I have long ago learned that sexuality is more fluid than we have been led to believe. I used to think I had these fantasies, because I am a little more toward bisexual than most guys. Now, I know that most guys have them, and it doesn't affect their straightness. I was a bit surprised at how many straight guys have sex with men, rather than just fantasize, from time to time, but I've gotten over it.
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Old 01-22-2013   #4 (permalink)
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Why be surprised.....straigay depends on the moment!
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Old 01-22-2013   #5 (permalink)
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men have other men envy (money, status,, beautiful wife etc.) so sometimes the fantasy goes into, ugly man + beautiful girl= wtf? is he good at sex?
and the fantasy begins
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Old 01-22-2013   #6 (permalink)
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It's 2013....
and this is news to some people still?

I knew about this ages ago.
I've also read about it ages ago too.

Every day is a great day
when you're in proper mind.

Do me a favor and check this out: wisdom
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Old 01-22-2013   #7 (permalink)
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Never experienced that. I guess I'm just on the other end of the spectrum.
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Old 01-22-2013   #8 (permalink)
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I have had gay fantasies. Never acted out.
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Old 01-22-2013   #9 (permalink)
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I thought the article was ironic and had a negative undertone. I also didn't see a lot of research other than the opinions of two psychologists. Not that that is necessarily inaccurate, but it's not that hard to prove or disprove.

The article suggests some straight men have gay fantasies. Okay, maybe. But the ironic part is that Kinsey himself said sexuality is a continuum rather than endpoints on a line. Then in the last sentence it is implied that girls are "screwed" if their man is anywhere on the continuum than at the straight endpoint.
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Old 01-22-2013   #10 (permalink)
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sounds like a load of bull. I'm gay but I've never fantasied about a woman. I'm sure its the same with straight men.
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Old 01-22-2013   #11 (permalink)
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I can see a staight guy having a same sex dream fantasy. But dreams can be made up of many things. It could be the domination of a man at work, could be two bodies stand for the aspects of the same guy, or just something different and comforting, or just pure enjoyment or hot. Just the range of sex dreams. I wouldn't make a big deal of it. Just enjoy it.
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Old 01-22-2013   #12 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sinclair View Post
sounds like a load of bull. I'm gay but I've never fantasied about a woman. I'm sure its the same with straight men.

Now, now, now....I will say that later in my gay life...I have had a couple of fantasies about women. (THAT DOESN'T MEAN I AM BI. *capitalized only for emphasis; not angry at all*)"

It is possible that straight men have same-sex fantasies. I have met a few straight men. I honestly can say that I haven't fucked or messed around with a straight man. I don't have fantasies about that. I just don't.

I don't care about straight men's gay fantasies. And I feel for any straight man that wants to realize their same-sex fantasies with me. Because it would never happen...unless you were Jon Hamm. Other than that...the other straight men could go suck each other dix or what not.





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Old 01-22-2013   #13 (permalink)
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I'm not surprised because I understand that sexuality isn't a series of well-defined bullet points. I must be far to the 'hetero' end of the scale, because I have never had or even considered such a fantasy.
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Old 01-22-2013   #14 (permalink)
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if they have same sex fantasies then they're not straight, they're at least bisexual/.
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Old 01-22-2013   #15 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sinclair View Post
sounds like a load of bull. I'm gay but I've never fantasied about a woman. I'm sure its the same with straight men.
No, it's not the same: some very gay men have an aversion to women's bodies, and thus will never really fantasize about women. Straight men, for the most part, are not repulsed by the male body as they have are male themselves. So, men will have some degree of physical attraction to other males for this very reason (jealousy, big penis dominance, etc.)

And you thought you had a big johnson!
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