lady v.......are you my wife ? lol. my wife admitted a similar thing to me and i must confess hearing all the details is a big turn on for me but like you she doesnt "like going there". i guess there is no easy way for either of you to deal with it, maybe tell him he can ask and you will answer what he wants to know but restrict it to say once a month, once a week etc. i am sure you can work out a compromise to keep you both happy