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Originally Posted by lady4u2 Why does he have to be black? Fetish? There is an entire type of porn devoted to it lol.

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Old 05-26-2013   #16 (permalink)
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Why does he have to be black?
Fetish? There is an entire type of porn devoted to it lol.

I pity da fool!
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Old 05-26-2013   #17 (permalink)
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Attack of the killer black penis!
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Old 05-26-2013   #18 (permalink)
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you know what they say:
once you go black, you never go back.


be careful what ya wish for ;)
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Old 05-26-2013   #19 (permalink)
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Still, if he is going to experiment and take risks, better do it now than later when he has 3 kids and his marriage on the line.
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Old 05-26-2013   #20 (permalink)
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you know what they say:
once you go black, you never go back.


be careful what ya wish for ;)
I thought it was "Once they go black, they come running back."
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Old 05-26-2013   #21 (permalink)
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I thought it was "Once they go black, they come running back."
Don't be jealous . Seriously though, it can go both ways, just depends on the individual black guy. Every race has it's fair share of assholes.

To the OP, why not try watching some videos related to this with her and watch her reaction. Don't go too extreme from the get go though. Just start with some videos of single black guy and single female, then black guy, white guy and female together.

Gauge her reaction, maybe ask her about what she thinks of them while she watches. You can decide from there whether to straight up ask her or forget about it.
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Old 05-27-2013   #22 (permalink)
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Being that I'm in the neighborhood of her age group I can tell you that there's a high probability that she wouldn't be interested (at all) in that. I'm sure there are women her age who are that adventurous but they are few and far between. I don't know any college female friends who'd want to have sex with another guy, a stranger, regardless of race, in front of their boyfriend. If she wanted that I doubt it be too difficult for her to go out and get it.

I think you're watching waaay too much porn and need to be thankful for what you've got. It's not as if you've been married for 15 years, sex has become boring, and you want to spice things up. She fucking 19 for christ's sake. The best you can hope for is what someone already suggested, that being, toys. It's a lot safer bet and she unlikely to dump your ass upon the suggestion.
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Old 05-27-2013   #23 (permalink)
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I think you're watching waaay too much porn and need to be thankful for what you've got.
These words would probably make a good reply to 50% of all the posts on this forum ... and 75% of all craigslist personals!

A crack on the head
Is what you get for not asking
And a crack on the head
Is what you get for asking
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Old 05-27-2013   #24 (permalink)
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I know a friend whose husband wanted her to try a really big guy in front of him, they eventually went through with it (the hardest part was finding a suitable guy who measured up).
Apparently it was a disaster, she really got into it and the husband suddenly decided he didn't like what he was seeing, especially as she was enjoying herself too much and it caused all kinds of problems and nearly wrecked their marriage, he is still jealous and gets on to her about it, even though it was his idea in the first place.

So, to sum up, be careful what you wish for and if you do go through with it, be prepared for the consequences! Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality.
On the flip side of this, my ex-wife and i (before we got married) did an MFM with a guy who was slightly larger than myself. It was awesome, and we had a lot of fun, and it never caused even the smallest problem during our marriage.

Her meddling mother and addiction to prescription pain medication, however, I can't say the same for...... but i digress. lol

I brought it up with my most recent ex-gf, and she was down for it, but it just never materialized (never found the right guy for the job). I even asked around on here about it. The fact I brought up an MFM with her never really caused any real friction between us.

In closing, I guess I'd say you have to carefully gauge what kind of girl you're dealing with here. What is your gut telling you and what have her past actions indicated?

If you really want to open up that can of worms, your best bet is admitting to her you have a bit of a voyeuristic side and start by inquiring about past sexual exploits. If she's receptive to that concept then maybe, just maybe, you might be able to move forward from there.

Before you do any of those things, though, you should be honest with yourself and ask yourself if YOU are ready for something like this. If so, then game on. :)


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Old 05-27-2013   #25 (permalink)
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I'm Mexican & my girl is also & only does big white men. So it's the opposite of your fetish. I'd like a black guy for her eventually as well
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Old 05-27-2013   #26 (permalink)
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I always wondered what the fascination of BBC is I mean wont you feel inadequate after if she enjoys it more than having sex with you?
I've always felt the same way about the whole cuckolding thing....

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Old 05-27-2013   #27 (permalink)
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I've always felt the same way about the whole cuckolding thing....
The male cuckold is leveraging a biological reaction to become aroused. I doubt he cares what his wife thinks since he's no longer aroused be her, unfortuneatly the wife is doing it because she wants to arouse her husband.

The whole thing sucks IMHO.
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Old 05-27-2013   #28 (permalink)
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I love how he says "try a BBC" like it's some kind of foi-gras patte'. You do realize you're talking about a person right?
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Old 05-27-2013   #29 (permalink)
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The whole thing sucks IMHO.
Once again we get the same range of pile-on comments -- snide to just ignorant -- when some guy asks for advice about seeing his wife with another man. He doesn't ask for your personal negative opinion about it. He doesn't ask for your analysis of his fantasy. Nor does he ask to be reminded that the guy who is cuckolding him is a person. Give it a break. If you can't conceive of desiring such a thing, click on to the next thread. Why try to make him feel weird?

The fact is, he is not weird. Many many men in couples feel the way that he does. Fewer, but still a large number of their female partners want the same thing. If that were not true, a great percentage of my very active sex life with couples, since I was a teenager, would not have taken place.

Even though he raises the question in a short-hand and not very thoughtful way (bbc) I'm going to deal with it seriously. My advice to a guy in his position is do two things: 1) knowing your partner, raise the idea with her in the best way for her to imagine it (for one woman, it could be well-done porn; for another, it could be telling her about someone's experience that you "heard" about). Don't try to get her seduced by a stranger. Talk about it. Do it in a way that she can know that your feelings will not be badly hurt if she does want it... which leads to... 2) Play it through carefully in your own head. Really imagine your wife fucking another man. Imagine that she really does not care about you at all during the act. Imagine that she is really really orgasmic with him. Women love to be overcome in having sex. If you want her to fully enjoy it, it may mean that you just watch, without her "taking of you" or your feelings. Can you deal with that?

Of course you will feel jealous, hurt, even humiliated. Can you control it? For the hubs who really like to watch their wives, these feelings can be part of what attracts them. They also say that watching it is hugely exciting, one of the hottest experiences of their lives. If your wife is truly interested, find a guy who has done it before several times, who is not going to get emotionally involved. Find him on line at one of a dozen swinging or cuckolding sites. Talk to him in person first, perhaps a few times, before inviting him home. If the first time is uncomfortable, have the courage to try again with another guy. Good luck!

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Old 05-27-2013   #30 (permalink)
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Once again we get the same range of pile-on comments -- snide to just ignorant
Call it what you will but I guarantee that the last thing this woman desires is to get rammed by a stranger while her boyfriend beats off in the corner.

Most likely a year into the relationship she's starting to think long term, marriage, kids, etc...

And like it or not in most cases the woman is getting used, both by her boyfriend/husband and the "bull".
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