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Why can't a man brag about his penis?

Originally Posted by Steven115 I agree with you to a point dragon 9. Women have their hair, their nails, their clothes, their boobs (among other parts).... and guys? We have muscle/physique, and our dicks. But

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Old 06-03-2013   #16 (permalink)
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I agree with you to a point dragon 9. Women have their hair, their nails, their clothes, their boobs (among other parts).... and guys? We have muscle/physique, and our dicks. But bragging can cross a line. It does come off as crude and sometimes as if the guy is compensating for something else that is lacking... but, a big dick/bulge is a very sexy and attractive attribute in men. So.... Brag, but have some restraint.
Women brag all the time With the "I know I'm cute" attitude. Especially amongst black circles, but women brag more subtly in the guise of fishing for compliments, or put downs to other females they feel my be a threat. Women never do anything straight forward.
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Old 06-03-2013   #17 (permalink)
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Women brag all the time With the "I know I'm cute" attitude. Especially amongst black circles, but women brag more subtly in the guise of fishing for compliments, or put downs to other females they feel my be a threat. Women never do anything straight forward.
I think you just have a strange perception of women. Especially with that "amongst black circles" part.
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I wish it was cooler to brag. A girl I knew once said to me "You are just pissed that your best feature is a secret." There is a little bit of that, for sure.
I would be pissed if my penis was my best feature too.
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What's a "grower"? I keep seeing this term here...
Just like it sounds. Somebody that grows more than they show (in terms of penis size). ie: I start off around 3" when flaccid, but "grow" to 6" when I am hard.

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Old 06-03-2013   #18 (permalink)
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Never had a need to brag about my size. I'm not huge, but I'm not small by any means seeing others in the locker room. Have I seen bigger in the locker room? Sure, sometimes I'm a bit envious, but normally I'm one of the biggest in the locker room so I'll take it and have no need to tell others or to show others, whatever.

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO HOO what a ride!"
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Old 06-03-2013   #19 (permalink)
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I think you just have a strange perception of women. Especially with that "amongst black circles" part.

I would be pissed if my penis was my best feature too.

Just like it sounds. Somebody that grows more than they show (in terms of penis size). ie: I start off around 3" when flaccid, but "grow" to 6" when I am hard.
I'm telling you the truth. Girls talking " Look at her hair; she thinks she's so cute when my hair is way better." Put Down Brag. Another example "I think I look hot in this dress. what do you think?". Fishing for compliments and bragging. I know women.
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Old 06-03-2013   #20 (permalink)
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I'm telling you the truth. Girls talking " Look at her hair; she thinks she's so cute when my hair is way better." Put Down Brag. Another example "I think I look hot in this dress. what do you think?". Fishing for compliments and bragging. I know women.
You know jealous insecure women, sounds like women that go to bars to pick up guys all the time. You dont know all women. Most that I hang out with arent like that at all, though they (just like most guys) do generally like to receive compliments.

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Old 06-03-2013   #21 (permalink)
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They say if you have a big penis you don't have to brag. That's a lie. If you don't brag then usually your small. Don't believe me; then why would a website like this even exist. Or if a girl finds out its big then its "you don't know how to use it". Or she tries to make up a story about a guy that's even bigger. One girl tried to say she was with a guy twice the size of the remote that's in my profile. What's the chances of a guy having an 18 inch slong
1. This site was created as a joke; that's something a lot of people don't know, or choose to forget.

2. Why brag about something you have no control over? Personally, I tell people I'm small. I'm not. It's more entertaining to confuse people than it is to brag.

3. Never take what a woman (or a man, if you have that inclination) that you're fucking or trying to fuck says about your genitals or your sexuality at face value. There's always an agenda.

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Old 06-04-2013   #22 (permalink)
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I don't brag. Never have... My girl, on the other hand, DOES brag about me.

If you think bragging is going to get you girls,... think again.
The fact that they're saying those things to you tells me that you're most likely coming across as an arrogant douchebag to them.
Get over yourself.
" Don't sing it.... just bring it.".
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Old 06-04-2013   #23 (permalink)
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They say if you have a big penis you don't have to brag. That's a lie. If you don't brag then usually your small. Don't believe me; then why would a website like this even exist. Or if a girl finds out its big then its "you don't know how to use it". Or she tries to make up a story about a guy that's even bigger. One girl tried to say she was with a guy twice the size of the remote that's in my profile. What's the chances of a guy having an 18 inch slong
Its not a lie.

There is a thing called anonymity. Whether people actually use it or not is a different story.

There are many reasons why this site exists.

Women are different and each woman likes different things. Sex with one woman isn't necessarily gonna be the same with another. So you actually could be doing it wrong. Even with a large penis. Hell studies have shown that woman even come differently.

People lie all the time.
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Old 06-04-2013   #24 (permalink)
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Its not a lie.

There is a thing called anonymity. Whether people actually use it or not is a different story.

There are many reasons why this site exists.

Women are different and each woman likes different things. Sex with one woman isn't necessarily gonna be the same with another. So you actually could be doing it wrong. Even with a large penis. Hell studies have shown that woman even come differently.

People lie all the time.
read this article. whether women can or can't take a large penis is irrelevant. A good portion of women get turned on by large penises. saying a guy is small or trying to make up a guy who is bigger is a means of control. my point being is if I'm feeling good about myself why can't I. I'm not talking about running around saying I have the biggest dick in the world. I'm not talking about being arrogant, but what is wrong with a guy saying " I have a big dick and I am proud". Also have you seen a dildo less than 7 in?
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Old 06-04-2013   #25 (permalink)
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Not a great choice of references... that's a pretty famous SPH fetishist site.

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Old 06-04-2013   #26 (permalink)
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read this article. whether women can or can't take a large penis is irrelevant. A good portion of women get turned on by large penises. saying a guy is small or trying to make up a guy who is bigger is a means of control. my point being is if I'm feeling good about myself why can't I. I'm not talking about running around saying I have the biggest dick in the world. I'm not talking about being arrogant, but what is wrong with a guy saying " I have a big dick and I am proud".
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The problem is that the situation in which it would be OK to say "I have a big dick and I am proud" are very rare. So 9 times out of 10 when you say that, you come off as arrogant or annoying rather than proud. The reason your experiences of not being able to brag seem true, is because you are bragging at the wrong times. Also, people tend to prefer others that are humble, rather than loud.

PS: Everything you read online is always true. Especially from a website that is quite blatantly biased.

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Old 06-04-2013   #27 (permalink)
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saying a guy is small or trying to make up a guy who is bigger is a means of control. my point being is if I'm feeling good about myself why can't I.
Don't like to fuel this particular fire, but I can see what Dragon is saying here and there are indeed *some* who will do that. Stories about my last girlfriend's ex's (and my own insecurity) initially brought me here. After spending a lot of time reading here, I found that much of the big dick info I had soaked up over the years was bullshit and I ended up less insecure and more comfortable with my body (or that particular part of it) than I had been before. Not only was the girlfriend NOT happy to see me comfortable or proud of my body in this way, it was almost as if she resented me for it and began staging phony conversations to try and knock me back down or something.

I know that makes it sound as if I became some sort of blowhard asshole, but IRL, I'm the last person in the world who goes around bragging about his body and I can assure you I didn't come off like that.

I guess the bottom line really is that if you're close to someone who is not happy to see you proud of your body (but not to the point of obnoxiously proud ), then you need to move on, as there are way too many who will work to build you up if they care about you.
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Old 06-05-2013   #28 (permalink)
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When a man brags about the size of his penis he only succeeds in demonstrating a thorough misapprehension of women's sexuality.

In my opinion, that is.
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Old 06-06-2013   #29 (permalink)
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Meh, nobody likes a bragger. This is a good place to brag. Real life? Not so much.

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Old 06-06-2013   #30 (permalink)
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This is a good place to brag. Real life? Not so much.
I've been reading stuff here for a while, and I have NEVER seen anything remotely resembling that.
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