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Originally Posted by theyaom I have a friend who happens to like dressing up like a shemale (wears make up, high heels, long hair), and when we go out, he always get hit on by

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Old 07-04-2013   #61 (permalink)
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I have a friend who happens to like dressing up like a shemale (wears make up, high heels, long hair), and when we go out, he always get hit on by straight men (is not like my friend can fool anyone into thinking he's a woman, my friend looks like at tranny by just looking at him)

but i dont get it.... many straight men want him to suck their dicks.... and some straight men even want to fuck him.

as a regular gay guy, straight men dont even look at him.... have him dress up like a woman and suddenly a lot of straight men are ok with this guy sucking their cocks.

is it a common fettish in straight men to have a tranny suck them?
And for further reference. This was the Original post. Which is way more on the topic of cross dresser than transgender. Which if i'm not mistaken isn't any close to being the same thing. Both physically, emotionally and sexually.

A cross dresser likes to dress as a woman where as a transgendered person is trangendered. Meaning that this convo only spoke about half of the original topic.

And as far as i know. The answer to his question is no. Straight men in every sense of the word don't as that would mean they are in fact...bi.

I've asked this question so many times that i think its lost its meaning but i'll ask anyway.

Why are men so afraid to identify as BI? Hell its even easier to say.
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Old 07-04-2013   #62 (permalink)
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And for further reference. This was the Original post. Which is way more on the topic of cross dresser than transgender. Which if i'm not mistaken isn't any close to being the same thing. Both physically, emotionally and sexually.
Yeah, the confusion is between the thread title and the content of the first post (same guy wrote both, but as you note, they touch on different topics).

And yes, I would agree with you. Someone who finds themself attracted to men who self identify as men, but dress up in women's clothing for fun... that's bi to gay.


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Why are men so afraid to identify as BI? Hell its even easier to say.
Beats me. There are men here who enjoy having their cocks sucked by other men, yet self identify as straight because they only have intercourse with women. They consider intercourse to be real sex, and oral sex to be some wierd form of masturbation or something. I dunno, I don't pretend to understand it.

But even if I don't agree with them (that they're not bi), I at least understand where they're coming from (in terms of feeling that a label doesn't accurately describe them. They don't want to be in a relationship with men, they don't feel that way towards them. They just like getting sucked off by guys, and so they feel the term "bi" is false advertising.

And thus we end up back at the inadequacies of labels :/
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Old 07-04-2013   #63 (permalink)
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Yeah, the confusion is between the thread title and the content of the first post (same guy wrote both, but as you note, they touch on different topics).

And yes, I would agree with you. Someone who finds themself attracted to men who self identify as men, but dress up in women's clothing for fun... that's bi to gay.




Beats me. There are men here who enjoy having their cocks sucked by other men, yet self identify as straight because they only have intercourse with women. They consider intercourse to be real sex, and oral sex to be some wierd form of masturbation or something. I dunno, I don't pretend to understand it.

But even if I don't agree with them (that they're not bi), I at least understand where they're coming from (in terms of feeling that a label doesn't accurately describe them. They don't want to be in a relationship with men, they don't feel that way towards them. They just like getting sucked off by guys, and so they feel the term "bi" is false advertising.

And thus we end up back at the inadequacies of labels :/
No i can understand why they "feel" that the label is inadequate but the all mighty wiki says:

Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior toward males and females. The term is mainly used in the context of human attraction to denote romantic or sexual feelings toward men and women.

And the equally forceful google says:

bi·sex·u·al
/bīˈsekSHo͞oəl/
Adjective
Sexually attracted to both men and women.
Noun
A person who is sexually attracted to both men and women.
Synonyms
androgynous

And the free dictionary says:

bi·sex·u·al (b-sksh-l)
adj.
1. Of or relating to both sexes.
2.
a. Having both male and female reproductive organs; hermaphroditic.
b. Botany Denoting a single flower that contains functional staminate and pistillate structures; perfect.
3. Of, relating to, or having a sexual orientation to persons of either sex.
n.
1. A bisexual organism; a hermaphrodite.
2. A bisexual person.

And the cow goes moo. So i have to ask. How is it inadequate? Is there like a kings version of the word i don't know about or like some Bisexuals guide to the galaxy that i'm missing?

I mean how much more open and encompassing can a word be? The word is literally a one size fits all and it does actually fit all. So....
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Old 07-04-2013   #64 (permalink)
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What we have here. In my opinion, is a math equation. And to find the answer we have to rule out every possibility.

First possibility is that there isn't a label that fits. Dis-proven.

Second is a lack of knowledge of said label. Dis-proven cause it took me all of five seconds on a less than satisfactory internet connection.

A misunderstanding of said label. Dis-proven. It couldn't get more simple if it was written in crayon.

So what do we have left?

The only thing i can think of is Human error. Though most ways we humans can get this wrong have already been dis-proven. Which leaves one last thing that we as humans have that can cause us to deviate from something that completely fills our needs.

And that thing is. Human emotion.

Edit: Just wanted to add that i really don't mean any disrespect by anything i said or by the way i said it...toward anyone its just that i feel there are more important and way more interesting topics out there.

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Old 07-04-2013   #65 (permalink)
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Aren't most cross-dressers heterosexual? There's the odd gay "sissy" who might dress in a feminine way, but my understanding is that most cross-dressers are straight. Ah, whatever...kinda off-topic, anyway. I find cross-dressing a bit weird, myself...never considered it (no offense to those who do, of course...to each their own as long as no-one is harmed). I like being a man, and I dress in a masculine fashion.

While I might find some shemales attractive in a feminine way, that is, they look like a beautiful woman, even knowing she's transgendered...I entertain no fantasies about actually making love to one. On the other hand, however, a post-op transgendered shemale is no longer a "shemale"...she is a woman. No uterus or ovaries, but female in every other way.

Are we assuming that the OP is asking about shemales that still retain their penis? In either case, penis or not, some shemales are drop-dead gorgeous.

Like I said earlier...once in a while, I'll scope out a vid of a solo shemale wanking or a vid of a shemale on female. As long as no anal is involved, it's kind of sexy. Watching an attractive person masturbate and seriously getting off and enjoying themselves is sexy, period, wether male, female, or transgendered.

But shemale on male porn, or male on male gay porn, or anything involving anal...flaccid within seconds.

But Master Yoda...I like crude matters!

I am not here to skype or hook up with anyone. I'm married, and loyal. Straight, but not narrow (minded, that is). I'm mostly here for the forums. Since this is a social networking site of sorts, I'm happy to make friends and have PM conversations (I'm a bit picky about that, though, so I don't accept friendship requests from just anyone...I have to actually LIKE you). Just don't expect me to proposition you, or accept same.

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Old 07-04-2013   #66 (permalink)
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Aren't most cross-dressers heterosexual? There's the odd gay "sissy" who might dress in a feminine way, but my understanding is that most cross-dressers are straight. Ah, whatever...kinda off-topic, anyway. I find cross-dressing a bit weird, myself...never considered it (no offense to those who do, of course...to each their own as long as no-one is harmed). I like being a man, and I dress in a masculine fashion.

While I might find some shemales attractive in a feminine way, that is, they look like a beautiful woman, even knowing she's transgendered...I entertain no fantasies about actually making love to one. On the other hand, however, a post-op transgendered shemale is no longer a "shemale"...she is a woman. No uterus or ovaries, but female in every other way.

Are we assuming that the OP is asking about shemales that still retain their penis? In either case, penis or not, some shemales are drop-dead gorgeous.

Like I said earlier...once in a while, I'll scope out a vid of a solo shemale wanking or a vid of a shemale on female. As long as no anal is involved, it's kind of sexy. Watching an attractive person masturbate and seriously getting off and enjoying themselves is sexy, period, wether male, female, or transgendered.

But shemale on male porn, or male on male gay porn, or anything involving anal...flaccid within seconds.
I think we may have slipped up an starting talking about both.
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Old 07-05-2013   #67 (permalink)
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I must admit after watching some trannies movies now and again I have fantasies about a surprise encounter with a beautiful one who gives me a fantastic massage and wanks me while in a very revealing outfit. I get so turned on that when she shows me her cock its way to late to stop.
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Old 07-06-2013   #68 (permalink)
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Why about a guy who loses his penis due to injury. Does sexual activity between him and a woman cease to be heterosexual activity though, because there's no penis involved?

Or suppose sex between a man and a woman with partial androgen insensitivity syndrome who has a little bit of both going on downstairs, but was raised as a woman. Is the guy who dates her necessarily bisexual/homosexual?

What about sexual activity between partners that doesn't involve sex? If a man passionately makes out with another man, but their clothes stay on and they don't touch below the belt, is that somehow not gay because there's no penis involved?
What you're trying to do right now is....find what number of body parts vs personal perception of gender can make someone male or female.

And I'm just too old school for all that shit. If it's this fucking hard to determine the gender of the person in front of me...I'll pass. I like women, who were born women, have always been and always will be women. Not parts swapped in or out, no psycho babble...just...straight forward.

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Old 08-29-2013   #69 (permalink)
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If you get turned on by shemales you are not strait.
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Old 08-31-2013   #70 (permalink)
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well it's pretty understandable why they would be turned on when he dressed up like a woman, if they are straight. we are attracted to the female form, some more so than others, and this may extend to men who look like women even if we can tell they are not. on the other hand, when he is dressed like a regular guy, straight guys won't see any womanly features about him, so why would they want to hit on him.even if he isn't fooling anyone when he dresses up, he still resembles in some way, the womanly form. as a man, he absolutely does not. makes perfect sense why he gets more attention that way (as a cross dresser)

i'm not obsessed with size, i'm obsessed with not having it. having size is not everything, not having it is.
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Old 08-31-2013   #71 (permalink)
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There is a difference between cross dressing and transexual. I don't mind having a perv at Mia Isabella vids now and then :)

This is classic I can't believe this one slipped by me.

You have outdone yourself once again.
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Old 08-31-2013   #72 (permalink)
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I have only ever had a single experience with one (she had the boobs), she was pretty good looking. But I didn't follow up or turn it into the Crying Game Part II.

Didn't kill me but it fucked with my ego for a while.
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Old 09-08-2013   #73 (permalink)
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NO
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Old 10-24-2013   #74 (permalink)
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Think its the fasination of tits and experience of having a cock ourselves that make it so interesting
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Old 10-24-2013   #75 (permalink)
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Nooooooooooo
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