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How to tell someone is gay/bi

Hi all. Sometimes i wonder if a guy is just being nice or he is gay/bi. Are there any ways or tips to see if somebody is? Thanks all!

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Old 08-22-2013   #1 (permalink)
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How to tell someone is gay/bi

Hi all.

Sometimes i wonder if a guy is just being nice or he is gay/bi.
Are there any ways or tips to see if somebody is?

Thanks all!
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Old 08-22-2013   #2 (permalink)
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if there is I need to know, I get on really well with most lads/blokes, never think there's anything more than that, then find out he was interested - usually months later.
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Old 08-22-2013   #3 (permalink)
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*Smart Ass answer *

If they'll suck a dick, chances are they're Gay, or at least Bi

*Serious answer*

Asking is the only sure way. Every other stereotype assumption is never 100% accurate

Freud - to constrain sexual drives to socially accepted "norms" is something that we "learn."
Why is it so important to you whether someone calls themselves straight or not (unless they choose to berate gays)
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Old 08-22-2013   #4 (permalink)
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I can usually tell by smiling. Most gay/bi men will smile right back and a long smile, kind of a perverted smile.

Straight men, will more than likely smirk or just look away. I can usually tell very easily becus gay/bi men are not very subtle
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Old 08-22-2013   #5 (permalink)
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Interesting question. Most gay/bi guys have an inbuilt 'gaydar'.

Almost impossible to describe how it works, it's just kinda 'there'. When you know, you know. I suppose it's all in the eyes, the way you (and they) move.
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Old 08-22-2013   #6 (permalink)
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Interesting question. Most gay/bi guys have an inbuilt 'gaydar'.

Almost impossible to describe how it works, it's just kinda 'there'. When you know, you know. I suppose it's all in the eyes, the way you (and they) move.
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Freud - to constrain sexual drives to socially accepted "norms" is something that we "learn."
Why is it so important to you whether someone calls themselves straight or not (unless they choose to berate gays)
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Old 08-22-2013   #7 (permalink)
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A friend of mine once said it's all in the eyes. If you look at someone in a room(without leering), and offer a smirk/grin, those who MEET your glance and don't waver, are likely gay/bi/interested in you.

People who are interested in fooling around, tend to be a bit more confident. Those not interested may meet your glance and then look away, look down.

I like the ask approach.

MY sexuality is fluid. It's about the person, not how they look in a pair of my underwear.

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Old 08-22-2013   #8 (permalink)
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Are there any ways or tips to see if somebody is?
Other than simply asking, no, there isn't.
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Old 08-22-2013   #9 (permalink)
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But if you ask and that person isn't, he might cause a scene. Could result in a bad situation.
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Old 08-22-2013   #10 (permalink)
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No, I think you just 'know' mostly. I've been wrong a couple of times but mostly I'm spot on.

It's just in the 'look'.
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Old 08-22-2013   #11 (permalink)
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I don't think there is a sure fire way to know. I know if someone met me in the streets they would probably not guess that I had an interest in both women and men.

Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. “Yes” is the answer ---Swami X

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Old 08-22-2013   #12 (permalink)
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Maybe baster, but I think that most gay men can recognise each other. Why. I've no idea.
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Old 08-22-2013   #13 (permalink)
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Maybe baster, but I think that most gay men can recognise each other. Why. I've no idea.
Haha well I guess I need to see if my bi-dar works. It probably won't work to well though

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Old 08-22-2013   #14 (permalink)
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Hi all.

Sometimes i wonder if a guy is just being nice or he is gay/bi.
Are there any ways or tips to see if somebody is?

Thanks all!
Yeah, when they tell you. Otherwise you don't know. Even if they are kissing a man it might just be a really close friendship. (and from what I read on this board, even if they are having sex it might just be an equipment test.)

There really are no definite ways of telling by looking or according to how their attitude is.

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Old 08-22-2013   #15 (permalink)
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One way I found which is more true than false...how many of his friends are women how many are men. (Straight men or mostly straight type). Most of the gay or bi guys I know are predominetly friends with females.

For myself. I find it hard to make friends with straight type males...usually not much in common. But girls yes. Lol
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