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Cumming from a blow job...

I have never been able to ejaculate from a blow job on a regular basis either. I used to think something was wrong with me because I love fellatio. Having a woman caress my penis

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Old 10-31-2006   #31 (permalink)
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I have never been able to ejaculate from a blow job on a regular basis either. I used to think something was wrong with me because I love fellatio. Having a woman caress my penis with her tongue and lips is one of life’s great sexual pleasures. My first wife enjoyed going down on me but was disappointed that I couldn't cum in her mouth on every occasion. Fortunately, my second wife enjoys going down on me as part of our foreplay and prefers not to have me ejaculate in her mouth anyway. She much prefers me eating her pussy which I love doing so things have worked out pretty well.
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Old 10-31-2006   #32 (permalink)
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nice to know i'm not alone on this one. i'd started to think i was somewhat freakish, lol. thanks guys.

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Maybe you get turned on more buy turning other people on/making them feel good?

I know I do. I like to be touching/licking someone while they try and get me off. What usually works is mutual masturbation with her lay at the side of me.

But I've never come from a bj. But my current gf gives great head. I'm sure she could make me cum and I'll let you know when/if she does.

You could try 69 or something...
that's very much the truth for me. i LOVE turning my partner on. i absolutely get more aroused going down on my girl than from her going down on me. not because any of them have been bad at it (okay, yes, a few have), but that's just how i respond to each act on a physical and psychological level. my first and foremost concern with each lover is to make them feel as good as possible. i know i'm going to feel good...especially if they have the same ethic ...and that i'll get off, so i want to make absolute certain that they're taken care of as well. and my last few girlfriends have been of similar mindsets, which makes for some VERY hot sex. but because of that, i can tell it's a bit frustrating for them that they can't get me off in that manner. i've made them cum with my fingers, my tongue, my cock...and yet they only make me cum from fucking. or back when the condoms i was wearing were too snug by having me stroke off for them. so it just becomes this vicious cycle of them feeling bad that they can't do that for me, and then me feeling bad that i can't do that for them when they're doing that to me.

and i've tried 69 with a couple of girls. doesn't seem to work any better. they're usually enjoying what i'm doing so much that they can't focus on sucking my cock. lol. and i'm so into eating them out that my focus is more on that than on what they're doing. yet another vicious cycle.

i have noticed in reading some of these posts a certain correlation between guys who have trouble cumming from blowjobs and guys who REALLY enjoy eating girls out. so, to the possible causality i mentioned in my first post, what do y'all think? do you enjoy eating pussy so much because you have trouble cumming from a blowjob, or do you have trouble cumming from blowjobs because you enjoy eating pussy so much? or are they two independent aspects that just happen to kind of play into each other?

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Your obviously not having much luck with the person giving you a BJ.

When done properly it is as good as any form of sex.....
not true. like i said at the beginning, i've had some incredible blowjobs. and they feel GREAT. i've just never cum from them. i don't think the orgasm is the end all be all of the sexual experience. it's a wonderful climax to it, but i've had amazing sex where neither of us came.

hmm...so i guess maybe i shouldn't be so hung up on it. and i'm not really, but it does bother me sometimes when i see them getting frustrated with it. which is kind of odd, since a few girls i've gone down on who didn't cum...including some of the same girls who get frustrated when i don't cum...have gone on and on about how they can enjoy me eating them out without having an orgasm. i try to give them the same speech back and they're like, "yeah, but it's not the same...you're a GUY! you're SUPPOSED to cum!"

in summation, we're all huge hypocrites with screwed up notions of gender roles and identity.

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Old 10-31-2006   #33 (permalink)
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While in college I dated a girl in her first year who thought that 2 mins was "normal" time for a blowjob. I do cum from blowjobs but it can take a long time.. and, I kinda prefer it that way ;)
I haven't run across any women like that, thank goodness. Although I did date one who felt that I should be 'done' during intercourse after 3 minutes (because she was 'done') - that's even worse IMO.

You're sitting on a gold mine, Trebek
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Old 10-31-2006   #34 (permalink)
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It is a great foreplay. They are right.

Have I cum from a Bj? Nope, mostly because I was determined to keep myself from orgasming. I wanted to continue to the next stage.

Hiatus is a good thing.
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Old 11-01-2006   #35 (permalink)
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I much prefer eating pussy. I don't have "enough" to offer a fellatrix, and don't see what possible interest they might have in sucking on it.
Ya said a mouthful above. . . Many girls talk about wanting to suck my cock until they find out it is small. . . then, they kind of forget about it.
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Old 11-01-2006   #36 (permalink)
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As far as I am concerned there is two types of blow jobs. One where the woman giving the blow job is doing it as part of foreplay. I never cum during one of these as it is only foreplay before penetration. Then there is the blow job that you get when your partner is giving you a blow job to completion. If you last too long during this, you may not get another one. Your partners jaws do get sore. I cum after I have been going long enough to be happy with it. After all how many of you men would want to eat pussy when the female never had a orgasm and that was your intention. The object is to satisfy each other. We shouldn't forget that.
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Old 11-01-2006   #37 (permalink)
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I find it the best most satisfying way to cum and it always works for me where pussy might not.
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Old 11-01-2006   #38 (permalink)
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cumming from skilfully performed blowjobs is in my mind as good as if not better than other penetrative orgasms - especially if the performer is prepared to take the shot in the mouth and continues to work at the penis actually as orgasm is taking place. I'm surprised so few men here are saying this.
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Old 11-01-2006   #39 (permalink)
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Right there with you reverend. Although, if there is some titty fucking, then sucking, it's mind blowing lol (no pun intended).
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Old 11-01-2006   #40 (permalink)
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Never - not once have I not gotten a guy to pop using my mouth...if you ain't coming from a blow job - you ain't getting a blow job :)

seriously...I consider the first load foreplay..
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Old 11-01-2006   #41 (permalink)
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i have never orgasmed from a blowjob in my entire life. and i have gotten some gooooooood blowjobs. but it's like...they just never bring me to that point... i was curious if anyone else had this problem, or if i'm just freakish and should go hide in a cave somewhere.
Go hide in a cave! (Just kidding!) I cum from blowjobs all the time with my gf. We've got a sort of progression we go through: kissing, making out, getting some of our clothes out of the way... Then she'll get my jeans and shorts down and give me a nice wet, warm, and sloppy bj. After I cum, I'll perform oral on her til she cums. Then we'll usually get rid of whatever clothes we have left, and have genital-genital intercourse. For us, I wouldn't exactly call a bj "foreplay," but it sometimes is. Sometimes, oral is all we do.

It's been pretty much the same with others I've been with. (Maybe I'm more susceptable to a good blowjob. Or even a bad one!)
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... how have the girls (or guys) who've gone down on you reacted?
They've all enjoyed it. (I've always told them when I'm getting close so they can aim my cock somewhere else if they don't want my semen in their mouths.)

If you're not cumming from a bj your boy- or girlfriend is probably not doing it right, or he or she isn't doing it long enough. Or she or he is treating it like "foreplay", and not as a sexual end in itself.
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Old 11-01-2006   #42 (permalink)
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I don't cum very fast from blow jobs, but it can be done. The only downside I've run into is jaw fatigue from my thickness.

Once her jaw gets tired, maybe 5-10 minutes into it, I'll start to get accidental teeth scrapes, and I have to say, that can really hurt.

So, I have learned that bj's are better for 5 minutes than to push it too long and wear her out from having to open up that wide for a long time.

I have performed oral sex on women for long periods of time and I can say I understand the jaw fatigue. I lost my tongue so I started to have to move my neck after a while because the tongue gave out. Funny.
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Old 11-01-2006   #43 (permalink)
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Ive never cum from a blowjob either and it proper pisses me off. Most girls who have done it have been shite and usually gag! Duno mayb i gettin wif the wrong kinda girls
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Old 11-01-2006   #44 (permalink)
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Never - not once have I not gotten a guy to pop using my mouth...if you ain't coming from a blow job - you ain't getting a blow job :)
well, once again, yes i have...quite a few. and most of them have been amazing. i just haven't cum from them.

see, it's this kind of attitude i'm worried about getting into a girl's head when i don't cum. because it has nothing to do with her and her ability. i'm the one with the problem. but if she were to hear someone say something like that, she'd think it was her fault. and i don't want that.

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Go hide in a cave! (Just kidding!) I cum from blowjobs all the time with my gf. We've got a sort of progression we go through: kissing, making out, getting some of our clothes out of the way... Then she'll get my jeans and shorts down and give me a nice wet, warm, and sloppy bj. After I cum, I'll perform oral on her til she cums. Then we'll usually get rid of whatever clothes we have left, and have genital-genital intercourse. For us, I wouldn't exactly call a bj "foreplay," but it sometimes is. Sometimes, oral is all we do.
i've tended more towards variety and less towards routine with the girls i've been with. whatever feels right at the time. which i think some girls really appreciate. my last girlfriend had just had the same boring sex with her last boyfriend. same position, same progression, he'd hardly ever go down on her and she never really enjoyed it. also, he apparently had a very small dick. lol. so when she and i got together, she went a bit wild once i let her know it was okay to try stuff and experiment with different positions and what not. sigh...good times.

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They've all enjoyed it. (I've always told them when I'm getting close so they can aim my cock somewhere else if they don't want my semen in their mouths.)
well, y'know, i was more asking that of people who DON'T cum from blowjobs. y'know...the topic of the thread...lol

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If you're not cumming from a bj your boy- or girlfriend is probably not doing it right, or he or she isn't doing it long enough. Or she or he is treating it like "foreplay", and not as a sexual end in itself.
they've done it fine, they've gone for very long times with the sole aim of wanting to get me off. again...and i really can't stress this enough...the problem is not with them. if there even IS a problem, it's with me. just blowing it off as "they give lousy head" is cheap, particularly when i know it's not true. if that were the case, then the problem would be much simpler because i'd just need to wait for someone who gives good head to come along. but it's not that simple. i've had some amazing blowjobs. so playing the blame game saying they must be lousy at it doesn't really address the issue at hand, and i'm sure the other guys who've come forward and expressed the same difficulty would agree. so can we please once and for all minimize the "oh, you just haven't gotten a REAL blowjob yet" type comments and leave room for discussion that's more, oh, i don't know...helpful? thanks.

"While most books on sex say that penis size doesn't matter, there are two groups of people to whom it does matter. One group includes almost every male alive. The second group includes every woman who derives sexual pleasure from intercourse."

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Old 11-01-2006   #45 (permalink)
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My ex threatened me too about cumming in her mouth. I moslty can only cum from a bj while driving now. Consentrating on the driving blocks my mind just enough to let it go. I can cum now if I concentrate on listening to the tv but not easily.
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