After reading post during a few weeks about the ideal penis, different lenghts and girth issues i have a question for the ladies (men can answer as well).
It seems (at least for the ladies on the forum) that the "worst case szenario" in regard of penis size is the combination of a very thin girth with a large lenght. This kind of measurements donīt seem to be very popular by the women here at the site, and long and thin penises are treated as "pencil dicks" or as i heard in some conversations: spagetthi-dicks.
As i read, 8 inches long and 6 inches girth is kind of an "ideal" size ( which i agree to a certain point )
Before asking you the question, i want to tell you some of my own experiences. I myself am endowed with such a "pencil dick"
it is about seven and a half inches long and almost 4 inches in girth at the base; at the top it measures only maximum 3.5 inches in girth. I consider it long and thin ...
In my early twenties i had the luck to get together with a wonderful woman which i will call L.. She was cute, caring, sexy, open minded and adventurous; and also had a lot of experience with man although she was my age.
We spend one summer togehter in College and she is responsible for my confidence. We had a lot of sex that summer and she liked to talk about.
Of course the size issue came along and we spoke openly about cocks, vaginas and sizes... I knew i wasnt the thickest around and i asked her... She told me that her first boyfriend had been a very well endowed guy one year before and that she spent a whole year with him. She remembered exactly his size and he was something more the 8 inches long but the most impressive thing was his thickness which she said was at least 6.5 inches in girth.
I wanted to know how could she enjoy my size after having had such a giant cock. Her answer was that she could manage her vagina to adapt to any girth and enjoy different sizes (that was true, when we made love i felt my penis in a very tight grip, although she had a very wide and deep vagina). She told me she could come with me without any problem. Even more, she told me that i had a beautiful penis and that she loved to look, to hold and to suck at it; that she liked the shape and how long i could last. She had enjoyed very much the big penis from her former lover too (and in between she had had a few other men) and so she said, but that belonged to the past. We split for ohter reasons, the sex was always good.
Later i have had other beautiful and interesting woman, short and long lasting relationships and only very few complained about the size (the girth) and the funny shape of my cock. The complaints were sarcastic or in two cases i can remember "cruel" remarks. But i already had my confidence established since my relationship with my beautiful girl L.
When i was having sex with a new girl i have always tried to extend the foreplay as much as i could and if i saw that the girl had trouble (after one hour at least of making love) to reach orgasm i finished her orally or the way she wanted. The truth is: many of the woman could take a lot, lot, lot more girth than i had. There is one thing i canīt: to stretch a girl or to give her the "full-feeling" with my size. With two or three girls, as they were fully aroused and after ten or fifteen minutes of penetration i could not even feel the vagina walls ( a lot of girls donīt like to do kegels
) so we had to change positions or i started to do them oral.
My question to you ladies: have you also had good experiences with long and thin cocks? or only bad ones ? What is the main problem with a thin penis ? And, how did you got along with it ? how can a thin penis compensate while having sex? Whatīs your opinion ? are they any advantages to a long and thin cock you can remember?
thank you in advance