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Originally Posted by helgaleena Some females have never actually had an orgasm because they are told it's sinful to pay attention to that part of themselves. Or touch it with their hands, except to wash.

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Old 03-10-2012   #31 (permalink)
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Some females have never actually had an orgasm because they are told it's sinful to pay attention to that part of themselves. Or touch it with their hands, except to wash. Very sad, that.
Helga, I don't think this is helpful. I'm nearing 30, and have been in long term, relationships for the past 8 years, yet I still haven't experienced an orgasm - but it has nothing to do with my bathing habits, or what I was told I can or cannot do with my body.

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Old 03-10-2012   #32 (permalink)
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Helga, I don't think this is helpful. I'm nearing 30, and have been in long term, relationships for the past 8 years, yet I still haven't experienced an orgasm - but it has nothing to do with my bathing habits, or what I was told I can or cannot do with my body.
Wow. I don't know what to say to that.

I'm sorry.

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Old 03-10-2012   #33 (permalink)
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Helga, I don't think this is helpful. I'm nearing 30, and have been in long term, relationships for the past 8 years, yet I still haven't experienced an orgasm - but it has nothing to do with my bathing habits, or what I was told I can or cannot do with my body.
i was thinking the same about her post but got distracted by something shiny before i could respond.

some women pop as soon as you touch them,
some women take forever and a day,
and some never cum at all.

and it's all perfectly normal and healthy, if a little frustrating at times. it's not proof that a woman is repressed or up tight if she doesn't O as easily as the others. it's not her fault or her lovers' faults. it's just the way some women are wired.

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Old 03-10-2012   #34 (permalink)
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I might be able to throw a little light on this. There are devices used to measure hand grip strength (dynanometers), and the biggest numbers are pulled when the grip is closed - like making a fist around a pencil. Once you open your grip (like gripping an aerosol can), grip strength is reduced. There's probably stuff to do with levers and optimal situations but that's not my forte.

TL;DR: I know what you're talking about.
Oh, I like this theory! This definitely works with what I've experienced! Particularly because my lack of sensation thing is more likely to happen with girthier partners. Thanks!


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One thing I love doing to intensify the experience is kneading the muscle that tightens. Sometimes it's close to the opening, sometimes it's mid-depth, sometimes deep. Sometimes it's along the top wall, bottom wall or sides. At any rate, I point my cock in that direction and just massage it furiously (as in nudgefuck). Depending on my mood, I also do long sawing motions going from just the tip to balls deep and back to the tip. It helps if the vaginal barrel is oriented in a curve as opposed to straight on too. The curvature increases the pressure as I let the muscle close in and force it back open. If she wants me to thrust-and-hold, she'll grab me by my hips to stop me from moving and just squeeze release squeeze release.
*shivers* Did I mention that I love you?


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If my wife coughs while I'm inside her it feels like she's pushing me out. When she squeezes/spasms from her orgasming, it feels like she's sucking me in. I think it may have to do more with my baseball bat shape than actually sucking me in. Anyone else notice this difference?
For me it seems to depend on which spot I'm cumming with. If it's that spot on the back wall near the entrance, I suck in. If it's my mid spot, I push out. I'm having trouble remembering what I do when it's a deep spot orgasm - maybe I'm just too floaty then to remember.


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i don't notice less of an ability to squeeze/lock down, cuz i can strangle hold the boy when evil/orgasm denial requires... the difference is sensation on my end.
I can feel the contractions of orgasms - it's just purposeful squeezes that my sensation seems to go fuzzy on
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Old 03-10-2012   #35 (permalink)
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Australian vaginas are so peculiar

orgasm denial on the boy, squeezing his glans while making the humpy bumpy stalls his orgasm. squeezing while trying to stop my orgasm would be every so counter productive. cuz PC fiddling makes me/Jenny happy: redface:

also depends on which set, urm, level of muscle i'm working with. with the boy at full depth i can't squeeze as hard with the introitus muscles, but feel the stretching sensation more. the deepest bit not sure if i notice squeezing the muscles more because there is something to grip on. is enough to cause the boy to make odd but happy sex faces.

baring down/lifting up is where i have that "can't squeeze as hard" thang happening. feels like i have to work hard for the same lift. could be from tenting/uterus lifting?

kinda wish i had my very own Jenny Cam. just to see what's really going on in there.

eta: all my orgasms are of the pull in variety. gonna have to try the pushgasm one day. *will never remember to*

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Old 03-10-2012   #36 (permalink)
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Australian vaginas are so peculiar

orgasm denial on the boy, squeezing his glans while making the humpy bumpy stalls his orgasm. squeezing while trying to stop my orgasm would be every so counter productive. cuz PC fiddling makes me/Jenny happy: redface:

also depends on which set, urm, level of muscle i'm working with. with the boy at full depth i can't squeeze as hard with the introitus muscles, but feel the stretching sensation more. the deepest bit not sure if i notice squeezing the muscles more because there is something to grip on. is enough to cause the boy to make odd but happy sex faces.

baring down/lifting up is where i have that "can't squeeze as hard" thang happening. feels like i have to work hard for the same lift. could be from tenting/uterus lifting?

kinda wish i had my very own Jenny Cam. just to see what's really going on in there.

eta: all my orgasms are of the pull in variety. gonna have to try the pushgasm one day. *will never remember to*
I find my g-spot orgasms to be pushgasms to the point I have to give plenty of warning I'm going to cum so he can anchor himself or the strength of the contractions will push him out.
This is especially true if we are in missionary position.

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Old 03-10-2012   #37 (permalink)
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I find my g-spot orgasms to be pushgasms to the point I have to give plenty of warning I'm going to cum so he can anchor himself or the strength of the contractions will push him out.
This is especially true if we are in missionary position.
This post made my day.
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This post made my day.
It can make things interesting because as much as I adore thrusting while I'm orgasming chances are he's not going to stay inside of me.
Up on the orgasmic plateau he really wouldn't have to thrust at all, just jelqu (spl?) and grind for me to repeatedly cum.
One playmate said it felt like his cock was being milked with milk maids hands. .
I'm sure he ment that as a compliment.

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Old 03-10-2012   #39 (permalink)
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I've never been milked by a milk maid, but I'd imagine they have pretty talented hands.
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I've never been milked by a milk maid, but I'd imagine they have pretty talented hands.
I think it's got more to do with the strength of the grip/contractions but hey, if that's seen as a talent then alrighty!

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Old 03-10-2012   #42 (permalink)
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i was thinking the same about her post but got distracted by something shiny before i could respond.

some women pop as soon as you touch them,
some women take forever and a day,
and some never cum at all.

and it's all perfectly normal and healthy, if a little frustrating at times. it's not proof that a woman is repressed or up tight if she doesn't O as easily as the others. it's not her fault or her lovers' faults. it's just the way some women are wired.

I have to agree. We are none of us 'broken'. We are all of us splendid.

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Old 03-10-2012   #43 (permalink)
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there are occasions when an inability to orgasm are related to medical/mental health issues. everything from anti-depressants to high blood pressure to nerve damage following vaginal birth to shame related to body/sex.

so while not all women who don't orgasm have anything wrong, some do.
and those ladies might be less than chipper about their non-orgasm status.

"Men are awesome", I say.
"NOT ALL MEN", the Mensí Rights Activists chimes in before freezing where he stands.

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there are occasions when an inability to orgasm are related to medical/mental health issues. everything from anti-depressants to high blood pressure to nerve damage following vaginal birth to shame related to body/sex.

so while not all women who don't orgasm have anything wrong, some do.
and those ladies might be less than chipper about their non-orgasm status.

Life would be utterly dreary if we were all turned out with the same cookie cutter, Ms MickeyLee.

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Old 03-10-2012   #45 (permalink)
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there are occasions when an inability to orgasm are related to medical/mental health issues. everything from anti-depressants to high blood pressure to nerve damage following vaginal birth to shame related to body/sex.

so while not all women who don't orgasm have anything wrong, some do.
and those ladies might be less than chipper about their non-orgasm status.
This is how I felt. I felt broken.

I lost my ability to orgasm when my estrogen levels dropped and that caused issues in my nether region, especially in regards to pain during sex and loss of sex drive. Hormone therapy in the form of some very expensive cream rubbed in well daily enabled me to orgasm again. Before I had the baby, I was about as horny as a woman could possibly be without actually rubbing up against the furniture like a cat in heat, so it really can happen to anyone, of any level of libido. Just take a gander at Miss Petite's pre-pregnancy posts on LPSG! I loved being horny and mulit-orgasmic and I wasn't happy when my body stopped working the way I felt it was supposed to.

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