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Hi everyone, I am facinated by men's insults and perceptions of a "loose pussy" When growing up it seemed to be an insult thrown at percieved "slutty" women. For female teengers in my school and

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Old 08-09-2007   #1 (permalink)
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The loose pussy

Hi everyone,

I am facinated by men's insults and perceptions of a "loose pussy"

When growing up it seemed to be an insult thrown at percieved "slutty" women. For female teengers in my school and generation it was something we all wanted to avoid being labelled with.

As I have grown up and explored my sexuality vastly ( swinging , adult conferences, internet....I am facinated by sex)

I have largely found, there really is very little difference between the internal "feel" of most vagina's ( texture aside I am refering to the general feel) , and certainly no relevance to sexual activity and vaginal width.

Some vagina's feel very firm when not aroused, but in a state of arousal , from tall, short, fat, slim, they all seem quite simular, of course with variations, but I have yet to encounter a gapping, fapping, loose vagina.

Why do men ( especialy when young) assume a sexually active woman will have a loose vagina? Is is a matter of being uneducated, or intimidated?

xx
Honey
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Old 08-09-2007   #2 (permalink)
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You said it. They are young, dumb, and unappreciative.
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Old 08-09-2007   #3 (permalink)
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[quote=WildHoney;957009]Hi everyone,

I am facinated by men's insults and perceptions of a "loose pussy"

When growing up it seemed to be an insult thrown at percieved "slutty" women. For female teengers in my school and generation it was something we all wanted to avoid being labelled with. Same here in the states. It seems that the men who complain often and loudly of loose pussy, either aren't having sex at all or have encountered size queens and had their feelings hurt. I'm not saying they are all small, many are probably average. I think maybe it is a defense mechanism of some sort . . .


Why do men (especially when young) assume a sexually active woman will have a loose vagina? Is it a matter of being uneducated, or intimidated? I think it's both.
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Old 08-09-2007   #4 (permalink)
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Is is a matter of being uneducated, or intimidated?
It's very likely a combination of these two to one degree or another.

Lack of experience is akin to ignorance, and the human animal tends to fear that which it doesn't understand. Sad but true.

What's truly disturbing is that it isn't just men, and there is commercial exploitation of this ignorance from those in the know. I work for an old, well respected Fortune 100 corporation with a traditional reputation for being stuffy and conservative...imagine my surprise today when presenting to clients in our executive briefing center, I thumb through a local magazine in the break area and run across a half-page advertisement for "cosmetic gynecology" services. Among other treatments, they were hawking one-hour laser tightening sessions to improve your performance, and another to "correct" mismatched or excessively large labia.

What. The. Fuck!?!?

The cake is a lie...

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Old 08-09-2007   #5 (permalink)
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I don't assume looseness although I have never had a tight vagina. It is kinda derog. though. I would never say that.

I have felt a pussy that felt like sandpaper though. I think cos she wasn't wet? It only happened the one time!

It was a one day stand...

I wish I could disappear...
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Old 08-09-2007   #6 (permalink)
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Hazelgod - It is the fastest growing cosmetic procedure in the USA. Women grew up ( or grow up) with a much different opinion of their genitals then men do. We are fed myths and speculation on the vaginal capacity and appeal.

Most soft core men's magazines( which women are more likely to see or read) airbrush out protruding lips and skin colouration. We see perfect tiny slits with no lips and baby pink skin.

Most women do not get to compare vagina's with their friends, our bits are tucked away, and even when naked, you can not really "see" what another woman's vagina looks like. So we grow up to assume we have a dodgy or ulgy one.

Young men do nothing to help most women with this mind you. Uneducated and inexperienced men, will also assume that meaty or lippy vagina's come from a lot of sex or loose women.

It is a crying shame most women do not love their pussies like their male counterparts love their cock.

xx
Honey
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Old 08-09-2007   #7 (permalink)
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uneducated, or intimidated? <<< that is the one.

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Old 08-09-2007   #8 (permalink)
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So having said it is an uneducated or intimidating thing. Have any of you guys ever said that about a woman in a joking way to your friends, or as an insult ? Did you think that was true when you were young?

xx
Honey
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Old 08-09-2007   #9 (permalink)
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So having said it is an uneducated or intimidating thing. Have any of you guys ever said that about a woman in a joking way to your friends, or as an insult ? Did you think that was true when you were young?

xx
Honey
I dated a girl when I was 14 that I could put f fingers in her vagina without any real resistance, I probably could have easily fisted her and she was only 15... I thought of her as having a "loose" vagina, because it felt like a cave! lol!!! I had only been with two girls before her, so my experience was pretty pathetic and I couldn't make a logical assesment of the situation.

I have to inspect the ol' vagina with my hands now that I have been pumping for years... if I can't easily get three fingers in, then I know that I have more work to do as far as foreplay is concerned to get her "loosened" up. It's really all about the woman being comfortable with her body, with me, with the situation... if they are not entirely comfortable, then their vaginas won't relax as much as I'd like. I find that women that have a strong mind/body connection can pretty much tighten up or relax their muscles at will, but not all women are as comfortable with their bodies or their vaginas for that matter.

That said... if a woman is too tight from not being able to relax or from inexperience with her own body, then I can't deal with her... a total waste of my time, I didn't build the cock I have to screw the tightest hole possible... I got this big because I like for a woman to relax FULLY and let my size do the work as far as friction goes, it's been working out great!!!! I am aware of the potential volume of the vagina and think that an 8 inch girth would be ideal... I have been measuring at 7.75 lately and am on my way to up to 8, it might take a few more weeks, but I am in a "expansion" phase and things are growing quite nicely.

The "looser" the better!!!!!
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Old 08-09-2007   #10 (permalink)
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It's very likely a combination of these two to one degree or another.

Lack of experience is akin to ignorance, and the human animal tends to fear that which it doesn't understand. Sad but true.

What's truly disturbing is that it isn't just men, and there is commercial exploitation of this ignorance from those in the know. *snip* I thumb through a local magazine in the break area and run across a half-page advertisement for "cosmetic gynecology" services. Among other treatments, they were hawking one-hour laser tightening sessions to improve your performance, and another to "correct" mismatched or excessively large labia.

What. The. Fuck!?!?
I agree and I blame the porn industry. It's not Hollywood's fault I've never seen Julia Robert's, Meryl streep or Rosie Perez's pussy so they are not the standard to which all women are measured. It's that damned Cytherea, Kara Davis, Amber Rayne and others who set the standards to which normal women are held accountable.

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Hazelgod - It is the fastest growing cosmetic procedure in the USA. Women grew up (or grow up) with a much different opinion of their genitals then men do. We are fed myths and speculation on the vaginal capacity and appeal.

Most soft core men's magazines (which women are more likely to see or read) airbrush out protruding lips and skin colouration. We see perfect tiny slits with no lips and baby pink skin. YUP!

Most women do not get to compare vagina's with their friends, our bits are tucked away, and even when naked, you can not really "see" what another woman's vagina looks like. So we grow up to assume we have a dodgy or ulgy one. MOST?!?!? ROTFLMAO Okay lets assume most means 99% of women in the United States. At 41 I can honestly say I have never before seen another womans vulva at any age. There is no female equivalent of a circle jerk.

Young men do nothing to help most women with this mind you. Uneducated and inexperienced men, will also assume that meaty or lippy vagina's come from a lot of sex or loose women. YUP!

It is a crying shame most women do not love their pussies like their male counterparts love their cock. I didn't learn to love mine until I almost lost it due to vulvar cancer last year.

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Old 08-09-2007   #11 (permalink)
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as a kid...i do not remember thinking "loose" vs "tight"
i was just thinking "MMMmmm i wanna go in"
i was definately more intrigued by the "spreads"

would i ever call a girl "loose" as an insult?
no...i like it gaping...and if she is dating me she knows it.
tight pussies are like sledding with a branch stuck to your sled.
it is still fun, but would be WAY better without the drag.
some dudes LOVE it tight...(or think they should)
i am not one of them.
so that is a big wet open...NO.

even if she said the "pencildick" thing.
my usual reponse is...."you are a bitch" ripe insult right?!
i suck at insulting people.

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Old 08-09-2007   #12 (permalink)
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Hi everyone,


Why do men ( especialy when young) assume a sexually active woman will have a loose vagina? Is is a matter of being uneducated, or intimidated?

xx
Honey
I don't know where that idea came from, but it's so prevalent on the net that it's as stubborn as an urban myth. Fucking doesn't cause loose vaginas.

Unfortunately childbirth can cause it in some women. I've heard this complaint from both men and women. Especially after a few babies, the vagina can loose muscle tone. I know women who were damaged by giving birth and needed (urological surgery -- not plastic surgery) to repair them.

Women don't talk about it much, but some opt for C-sections to avoid getting damaged.
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Old 08-09-2007   #13 (permalink)
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It's very likely a combination of these two to one degree or another.

run across a half-page advertisement for "cosmetic gynecology" services. Among other treatments, they were hawking one-hour laser tightening sessions to improve your performance, and another to "correct" mismatched or excessively large labia.

What. The. Fuck!?!?
Someone posted a picture of 'before and after labia surgeries' here last week. I don't have a link to the post. In every case the women were trimmed down to nothing. It looked like mutilation. I was so horrified I logged off. It is so sad that everyone of these women allowed some surgeon to impose his/her standard of labial "perfection" on them. They looked sexless and irreversibly damaged.
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Old 08-09-2007   #14 (permalink)
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I think its more about personal preference, as to loose vs tight. Ive been around the block a time or two in my day, and have found dramatic differences in vagina tightness. Some were so tight it was nearly impossible to get in, but pure heaven once inside, while others I could slip right in and not feel a much. I think wetness is also a factor in how a pussy feels, but its been said time and time again on this site that women come in different sizes just like men do, in depth and width.

To say its okay for some women to need a big dick to get off, but for a guy to want a tight pussy makes him insecure, is very hypocritical to me.

I think there is an average for women's sizes, and most fall into a middle type range. I have been in loose ones that couldnt get me off even after hours of sex, and tight ones that made sex insanely good. But those are just my opinions and my experiences.

You cant be a pimp and a prostitute too.
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Old 08-09-2007   #15 (permalink)
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I saw a billboard for "cosmetic gynecology" the other day, and me being me (and totally unaware of this!), I had to look it up. One thing they said they did was make it feel like the woman had her hymen back. That actually I could see a reason for, in cases like women from cultures where if she isn't a virgin when she married (although abscence of a hymen doesn't necessarily mean you are not a virgin...), she could get stoned to death or something.

I have no idea how "loose" or "tight" I am. I've never received any complaints. I do know that I am rather deep, though.

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