People usually say it's not the size, etc. but rather how you use it, but those are usually women who try to make the guy feel good or adequate...and then there's the guys who say that size doesn't matter, but they are usually the ones with small dicks. We all know (or should know) that small dicks CAN satisfy a woman physically, but maybe not mentally. The simple truth is, MOST guys wish they were bigger no matter what they're packing...but in reality it would be nice to have the size that is just a little bigger than your partner can accomodate, so you're always going to measure up...both in her/his eyes and in yours. Problem is, all guys or at least most guys are caught up in the "locker room" syndrom..where we compare size of dicks and check to the power (biggest dick in the room). As Samuel Colt used to say: A gun is the equalizer for any man, and when it comes to dicks, no matter how rich or smart or good looking you are, you still stand in check or in envy when you see a guy with a much bigger dick than yours. That's the way guys are wired.