Originally Posted by readingHelpsMe
Do women find that their dildo size preference is the same as their real penis size preference? If your size preference is different does the material it is made of change this preference (like VixSkin
vs. hard plastic)?
Also, if you found a good man with a penis size that was smaller than your preference would you prefer it if they used something like the 'Three extra inches' extender
I just got one of those Vixskin dildos a few weeks ago. The Bandit. It's 7x5.5. At maximum arousal I can only get 6 inches in and that's with enduring pain deep in the back. I really don't like it that deep as I'm not one of these women who find pain arrousing so I tend to use it at 5 inches depth max. It's the thickest of all the toys I own.
It does and doesn't feel like a real penis. The surface - the soft cushiony part does feel luxurious. And certainly inside it feels luxurious. Especially because I like to warm it up for about 5 minutes in the oven first. When warmed it really feels amazing. I admit I do prefer it now to my hard plastic pink wand and 5 inch plastic vibe.
But even so it's not like the real thing in that the Bandit's core is still far harder than any man will ever be. Kind of like the difference you feel from gripping a very hard penis compared to say..gripping your forearm. Even though you feel soft skin and muscle on your forearm you can also tell there is real bone at the core that doesn't exist in a penis.
This is how I experience my Vixskin Bandit. There's hardness to it that still registers 'toy' inside even though the surface is luxrious and lifelike. I don't know if cyberskin is the same. I like the Vixskin because it's all silicone and therefore easy to keep clean and sterilize. I'm meticulous about keeping my toys clean and (hopefully) germ-free.
Leaving aside the fact I have no experience of cyberskin toys I'd say there is no way the toys I have - even as awesome a toy as my Bandit - can compare to a real penis. There is something deliciously luxurious, sexy and exciting about the real thing no toy I've ever used can compare to. And this is not even taking into account the wonderful man as a human being. Just considering the penis for itself there is nothing IMO that can compare to the sheer joy and pleasure of the real thing. And using my toys have not changed any preferences I have for sizes with men.
My toys are bigger than any man I've ever been with (except for my 5 inch vibe). Unlike most women at LPSG I've never managed to meet or date any guy with a genuinely large penis. My experience has always been of average to small. I'm not sure why that is. I can only guess it's because truly large endowed men are statistically rare. That certainly squares with my own experience.
To answer your second question - hmm...smaller than what I'd prefer...
That's tough to say. I haven't had much experience with men who were genuinely tiny in the endowment area. Also I've never had sex with any man using an extender so I have no idea what that would be like. I'm certainly open to trying it and if it was good for both of us and worked out I see no reason to not continue dating him.