Originally Posted by littlebabycock
I think she wants to have a little more fun in the bedroom. We have a solid relationship and have always told each other the truth. If she was going to leave me over a cock, then it would have already happened.
I'm just concerned with how it will be the next morning. Will we look at each other differently? Will life go on the same???
There are two main dangers:
a) her seeing him WITHOUT you there, or worse, without your knowledge,
b) you feeling traumatized by the sight of your women fucking another man.
The first (a) is "handled" by setting up the rules AHEAD of time -- can she see him when you're not there? What about when you're out of town and she's horny? How often can the other man be in your bedroom with the two of you? Imagine every possible scenario and make up the rules ahead of time.
The second (b) is a complete unknown. Three things will happen -- you will totally dig it, you will hate it, or you will feel "ho hum" about it.
So my question to you is this: Are you already "enjoying" the idea when you're alone in the shower? Are you discussing this while having sex with your wife -- and does the subject get you harder and your wife wetter?
If yes, don't worry so much! If you dig it, it will spice up your sex life OMG, and your ENTIRE sex life will benefit.