i know some of you may think its a stupid question, but i need to know.
i'm not trying to be offensive either.
my parents and my family always used to tell me, "if you shave your facial hair then you will look gay."
how do you look gay anyway?
i guess i do have a babyface when i'm clean shaven, but does black guy with babyface = gay looking?
right now i have a moustache and some chin scruff (neatly trimmed!). sometimes i just want to cut it all off, to be different i guess. the only thing that worries me is hair bumps...... and being called gay......not that there is anything wrong with that.