I'm not sure how to start as I never imagined I would be in this situation. I'm very confused and I'm really not sure what to do. I'm 25 yr. old with an average 4/5 inch penis and I got married three years ago with the first girl that came along and as far for her, I'm the only guy she has been with. I really thought we were ideal for each other and we would never have to face any relationship problems. And I was right about that but what I miscalculated was the sexual chemistry between us. Its not that I'm not attracted to her but I don't feel like having sex everyday. I prefer it once in two or three months and I'm more a mission oriented guy, so get in and get out, no licking or sucking. I always assumed she was alright with that but recently she started complaining about it so I opened up and we started having more discussions of what she likes and what her preferences are. Thought that fixed it all but then she dropped the bombshell by asking me what I thought about letting her have sex with another guy who is well hung. I felt like just storming out of the house but I remained calm and told her that we can talk about it. Since then she has started opening more and more, explaining her other fantasies and desires. And the more she opens up, the more I'm confused. I first thought she wanted a threesome but then she told me that she just wants a one-on-one with another well hung guy.
Now how do I feel about this? I really don't know. I mean I'm angry but happy at the same time since she didn't just went on fucking someone behind my back. She could have continued with my bored sex routine and just created a sexual heaven for herself on the side. Perhaps she wants to spice up our sexual life and I'm unable to see it??
I'm must mention here that I'm always in this complex where I know that she is way more hotter looking then me and she could have easily got any guy she wanted. I don't want to loose her and I'm guessing, if I say no it would hurt her feelings. Besides we got married pretty young, she was only 20 when we tied the knot. Maybe she is just feeling left out from what her single friends are enjoying?? Thing is I don't know how would that effect our relationship?? I mean I can't imagine how would I feel after this??
I don't even know if its the right place to ask this question...