Despite living in conservative Orange County, CA, all kinds of stuff goes on at my gym, particuarly at times when it's not crowded. However, unlike some others, mine does not have a reputation for this, so I can only imagine what goes on those places. The action at my gym tends to come in waves, with lulls in between. I suspect that this is because people get too brazen, get caught, and are expelled from the gym. Then it gradually builds up again. Some guys obviously go to the gym to cruise for sex, as though it were a bathhouse. I go for other reasons, and do not intend to jeopardize my membership status over sex. (You can see just why I go in the then-and-now pictures on my BMB profile, http://www.BigMuscleBears.com/~Ericbear
, where I've dropped from almost 260 to 185 lbs.) But, I do admidt that I have let poeple play with me from time to time, when they are hot, and I feel it is "safe." Mostly, though, when I see something directed toward me, I'll just tease the guy without participating. Sometimes I do take them home, or perferably arrange a later liason, since I find sex is much better after I'm rested and rehydrated than right after my workout.
So what happens?
I've been blown a quite number of times in the steamroom, at one point almost weekly. Once I had 4 guys working on me at once, two biting my nips, and two taking turns sucking me. That got interrupted, alas, when someone approached the door. I've had three guys blow their loads in quick sucession while fooling around with me. (This is why you should not walk barefoot...)
I did have one guy in the steamroom who, after fooling around with me for a while, basically turns about-face and spreads his cheeks. I guess he was expecting I would fuck his ass right there. Of course, I wouldn't, and did not. But the thought was nice...
Sometimes guys will just look and jerk off in the steamroom, but not touch each other. There was one small, but very well hung, black guy that used to do this a lot. One day, with his big dick rock hard, he decided he had enough steam, and walks naked out into the locker room, which was actually failry crowded. He's short, and has an upper-tier locker, so he stands on the bench to reach, waving this big hard ramrod around right at everybody's face level.
Once I was changing into my workout clothes, and had on my shorts, but hadn't put on my shirt yet. I realized I should piss before my cardio, so I went into the area with the toilets and sinks, hung my dick out the bottom of the leg on my shorts, and began to piss. There is a trash can next to the row of urinals. This guy that had been washing his hands at the sinks walks to the can to discard his paper towel, and apparently notices my dick as I continue to piss. He goes and washes his hands again, then stands next to the trash can drying them, watching me piss. Then he does this a third time, by which time I'm done draining it. He sliped into a toilet stall, and crouched up on the bowl. He wasn't not bad looking, so I sliped in after him. It was a rather nice blowjob, but he shot long before I was anywhere near close.
I don't use the spa (hot tub) much anymore, because at my ususal location I'm not impressed with how well they maintain the cleanliness of the water. However, when I did, there would sometimes be advances made under the water, obscured by the bubbles. (The pool and spa are co-ed, with swimsuits required.) Most guys would be subtle at first, rubbing you leg a bit, or something like that. But, I once did have a guy just reach down and grab my cock, without the slightest introduction.
Then, of course, there are the showers. In my gym, these are partitioned, but have no curtain or door. Since there are two opposing rows, there are about 3 stalls in the other row visible at any time. I swear some guys must get hard at the sight of running water. In other cases, there is an obvious object of their intention. I've often had guys get into the shower opposite mine, get it hard, and jerk it right there. I'm also intrigued by the number of guys who seem to shower with their shorts, underewar, or swim trunks on, but will work up wood under the garment, then flash it at me.
Sometimes I use an alternate location with a dry sauna instead of the steamroom. In either, I sit naked on a towel, not because I want to show anything, but because I find that most comfortable. One day I'm sitting on the sauna bench when a guy opens the door and steps in. He immediately just blurts out "But it's so big!" He then looks a bit embarassed, attempts to start a conversation about my wife and kids, eventually discover's I am gay (as is he). Eventually, when we were completely alone, he asked if he could touch it, and did, but then he got spooked and ran off.
Besides actual sexual activity that goes on int the more private areas, there is of course the cruising in the gym itself. I have hooked up with a couple of guys I met that way. One of the things that I like about my usual location is that the cardio area is on a balcony overlooking the weight floor. There is, from time to time, some very nice scenery to take my mind of the boring peadaling to nowhere.