Firm handling, nothing too soft (sucking is all very pleasant, but I don't get the same intensity of feeling). When I'm getting close, strong fingers on my cockhead and the glans rim. Much better if the base of my shaft is also gripped tightly and held hard down on the pubic bone. I like having a strap or tie tightly on so the cum can't flow until I've stopped climaxing. Then i release the cum and work it all out with further strokes.
This is what I do - I haven't often been wanked, and seldom with as intense a result as I can get on a good day.
Ambition: to be tied and masturbated hard right through orgasm and after. Sure it would drive me wild!
I've just realised this is an old thread, mainly banned members! I hope that doesn't matter . . . still something close to my heart