Auto-fellacio = power and dependency conflict
If you want something done right, do it yourself.
Here is an excerpt: ...auto-fellatio is the masturbatory ideal. It's even been described in quasi-religious/philosophical tones using terms like "nirvana" and "infinite regress" and, by golly, "the oneness of being." There are a plethora of websites devoted exclusively to the wonders of self-fellatio. Part of this is a gay thing. Auto-fellatio involves giving and receiving oral sex. There is excitement on both levels and according to practitioners it's possible to swing back and forth. Nirvana is achieved when one is able to occupy the nexus between the two. Indeed most of the websites centered on auto-fellatio are gay focused. This doesn't mean that if you enjoy sucking your dick you're gay. Auto-fellatio is to oral sex what whacking-off is to a hand-job. It's the end that counts, not the means.