Originally Posted by Rommette
All this talk about sex everday has me wondering. What's the fastest any of you women have ever had an orgasm? And men, what's the fastest a woman has ever had an orgasm with you? I've never had an orgasm with any of my partners. If hurts at first every time, then it neutral, then it starts to feel kinda good, then it fades away to nothing. Fingering isn't pleasurable and oral sex does nothing either and anal is pure pain. Is there a sort of type of female erectile dysfunction? I also was wondering if you would tell me what made you have an orgasm so fast or guys tell me what you did to make her cum.
One of my ex-girlfriends would orgasm almost instantaneously when she was really turned on.
I've mentioned in other threads that I have been with a woman similar to you, what ever I tried, failed to bring her to orgasm.
Female orgasms are of special interest to me because I get REALLY turned on when women have them so I have done a lot of research and tried many things in the hope that I can give more.
I have learned that there are many reasons related to anorgasmia
, this link to wikipedia explains them.
I have also discovered that women can do things to increase their chance of having orgasms:
- kegelling or squeezing the PC muscle to make it stronger, performing this action during sex can increase friction and being tense can accelerate the orgasm but it takes many thousands of squeezes to make it stong enough.
- Dildo practice, try to put pressure on the orgasm trigger points with the dildo (g-spot, AFE zone and epicenter). I'm told that at first, pressure on these spots can feel strange and uncomfortable but afterwards it can give a lot of pleasure and orgasms.
- Diet can also help, experiment with aphrodisiacs. They usually work by improving blood circulation which makes things tighter "down there" and increases friction but some can also work on hormonal levels and the mind.
I have also experienced no desire to orgasm during blowjobs, usually I would ask the girl to stop but I learned that when the physical stimulation wasn't enough to make me come, I would close my eyes and think of previous, extremely exciting experiences or scenes from porn which made me blow my load quickly, this was very effective.