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Originally Posted by Jennuine73 My husband and I did not take the vow of monogamy when we married 11yrs ago. He has never been with another woman, but I have been with numerous men. All

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Old 11-06-2008   #31 (permalink)
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My husband and I did not take the vow of monogamy when we married 11yrs ago.

He has never been with another woman, but I have been with numerous men. All with his knowledge. It started off as cuckolding, humiliation but now it's just our lifestyle. He is unable to satisfy me physically/intimately due to medical reasons. He knows my sex life is not over and is fine with me getting what I need elsewhere. He is not selfish or jealous and knows just because we are married doesn't mean he owns me or I own him. So, it has been my idea from the beginning, not his.
First, as usual, you rock! :)
I found your post very interesting, it just shows the diversity in women...

A while ago I was interested in a guy who took an unusual interest in my past sexual experiences. At first I just dismissed it as curiosity, but, later, it occurred to me he got off on it - particularly my experiences with really hung guys.

Anyway, I questioned him, and he kind of denied it at first, then later agreed he is very into the idea of me fucking guys and letting him watch or just telling him about it.

Idk, I liked that I would get the chance to fuck around at will, because who doesn't? But, ultimately, could not be involved in a cuckold relationship, especially from the outset, because when in love, I just want to fuck that one person. *sigh*
Old 11-06-2008   #32 (permalink)
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We have, actually, a happy marriage.
But I cheat my husband, for sexual reasons.
My husband has an average cock (6,3 x 1,77 '' 16 x 4,5 cm).
On vacation, 2 years ago, I had sex with an "big dick"(9,44 x 2,36'' 24x6 cm). This was fantastic. Since then I have on occasion sex with other men. Sometimes I would like to tell it my husband. But I do not know like he would become to reacted ones. Therefore, I leave it dearer.

Excuse for my not perfect English
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Old 11-06-2008   #33 (permalink)
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Are there cuckolding husbands?

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Old 11-10-2008   #34 (permalink)
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I'm in a relationship of almost 10 years but not married and no kids. I've known for the last 4 years or so that I'd love to watch another guy with my partner. I've often wandered how to tell her but know she wouldn't go for it. We discuss most things and I know her feelings on the matter. I've asked her a few times what she thought about an alternative lifestyle but her answer has always been a resounding no!

Someone mentioned alterior motives previously - Well I'm bi but my other half doesn't know that either! I swear these are the only two things she doesn't know about me. She is very vanilla when it comes to sex and I know she'd take it badly if I told her I was bi and fanticised about cuckolding. I am devouted to her and would never leave her if she said no to this request but I am very envious of the other couples who've posted about there alternative lifestyle.
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Old 11-10-2008   #35 (permalink)
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I love being a hotwife -- it lets me explore the issues of size which gives me great pleasure. Hubbie likes to watch and sometimes join in. He says it's the best porn he's ever seen ;-).
Old 11-11-2008   #36 (permalink)
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your use of word PAKI. to distinguish your self, is just like a Bangladeshi call himself BANGALI to distinguish him/herself.

More looks to me a lack of self respect
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Old 11-18-2008   #37 (permalink)
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Notaguru2 - here are what I perceive to be the basic principles of HWing:

1. It always starts with a couple in a good marriage, or as good as they know how to make it.

2. Some husbands have a long-time desire to see their wife being fucked by another man, or series of them. In many cases this seems to be linked to the husband's feeling of inferiority because of his small cock size or other 'less than manly' characteristics.

3. In most cases the women have long-since resigned themselves to accepting what is in the marriage for them sexually, in order to make family life work. All women have erotic fantasies, but keep them deeply hidden.

4. Then the husband begins 'working on' the wife to convince her that she is sexy and highly attractive to all men. He tries to get her to bring her fantasies of fucking other men out in the open. In many cases the pair begin to enjoy her fantasies as they make love. When this happens, the woman becomes at least twice as hot, wet and sexual as she ever was previously. Some very powerful forces are being unleashed in her. But often she is suspicious that the hub is doing this only to 'cover for' his own extra-marital sex activities. That is never the case in HWing, but the wife has to become convinced of it over a period of time.

5. Eventually, if the wife can bring her fantasies openly to the marriage bed, things really start to move from there. If hubby doesn't push too hard, the wife begins to realize she is a lot more sexual than she has admitted to herself. At some point she begins buying sexy clothes (not 'wife' clothes) and beginning to flirt in public, which she never would have done before she had her husband's full support and encouragement. The wife begins to realize that she is very hot and desirable to all men.

6. Eventually the wife reaches the point where she is willing to admit she would like to fuck another man. By then she is 'on board' as a 'virgin' HW. She usually seeks her husband's help and support in choosing a suitable candidate to take her 'HW virginity.' She leans heavily on the husband for security and a familiar comfort level.

The above process is long - it usually takes from a few months to, in some cases, many years. But after she makes the first sexual contact, her self-confidence usually rises enormously and she is off and running on a whole new life, with satisfactions she never would have dreamed of if it weren't for the hub's patient support and encouragement.

In 95% of cases, this actually makes the marriage stronger, altho different. Sometimes the wife withdraws all or most sexual contact with the husband, saying that her sexual life is now elsewhere. Most cuck their husbands to a greater or lesser degree, humiliating them by comparing their sexual inadequacies with the overpowering masculinity of her 'bull.' It takes a very special man to be able to not only live with this constant humiliation, but get enormous thrills from it.

In some cases a HW will develop a long-term relationship with a bull and limit her HW sexual activities to him. He then often becomes a 'third member of the couple,' and the three become good friends in many activites until it's bed time. Then the hub/cuck reads a book while the sexual pair are getting it on, often in the marriage bed. In other cases, the HW prefers to prowl; she enjoys the conquests of a series of 'new men.'

It is pretty well accepted that women don't really mature into their full sexual self until in their 40s or late 30s. By that time they are already in a marriage groove, usually with older children.They feel that they must keep up the 'good marriage, good family' picture, so they have no outlet for their new-found much higher degree of sexuality. So their fantasies remain very private and deeply hidden.

Then to be 'emancipated' into the fully sexual creature of their fantasies, and still keep the comforts of a secure home and marriage, is truly more than she would have dreamed about.

These are the basics of HWing as I understand them. How about comment from some HW's and their cuck husbands who are active in the life?
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Old 11-19-2008   #38 (permalink)
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I'd be interested to know what motivates the "Bulls".

I am presuming that it is not just getting sex, as you could do that without the cuckolding aspect.

Do you ever find it humiliating to be used like a piece of meat? I appreciate that that question is a bit in your face, but I am interested in the potential reverse psychology of the situation.

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Old 11-19-2008   #39 (permalink)
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I'd be interested to know what motivates the "Bulls".

I am presuming that it is not just getting sex, as you could do that without the cuckolding aspect.

Do you ever find it humiliating to be used like a piece of meat? I appreciate that that question is a bit in your face, but I am interested in the potential reverse psychology of the situation.
It's interesting that you consider the Bull a piece of meat. Many cuck hubbies like seeing their wives used like a slut and, basically, a piece of meat. I guess there is a lot of objectification in the cuck world.

I see the Bull as being much more than a piece of meat. He's the coordinator who takes charge and makes sure that everyone knows their place and does the duties that their roles entail. He is the one who must perform, and perform well. In fact, if the Bull doesn't outperform the hubby then he's really just another lover, but not a true Bull. He must give the wife bigger, stronger orgasms--often while the hubby watches. That's no small task.

Even though it's about the wife, and her sexual pleasure, I also see the Bull as the one who accepts the responsibility of the night. This includes pregnancy, contraception, the cuck's jealousy (and repercussions), the wife's crushes (if any), the chances of her leaving the hubby for him, the secrecy of the relationship, etc. All the while he has to make sure that everyone is sexually satisfied. This may mean making a few sacrifices himself. For example, if it pleases the wife, he may have to let the hubby get him hard; or guide him into her; or even clean him up afterwards. This can't be easy for some straight Bulls.

I see the Bull as the Director, Producer and Main Character: much more than a piece of meat.
Old 11-19-2008   #40 (permalink)
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It's interesting that you consider the Bull a piece of meat.

I see the Bull as the Director, Producer and Main Character: much more than a piece of meat.
Granted, but it does cross my mind that he is being used by the couple to enact their fantasy/fetish. Or do Bulls go looking for cuck couples and are therefore as much a part of the fetish as the couple? Is being a Bull a fetish in its own right?

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Old 11-19-2008   #41 (permalink)
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your use of word PAKI. to distinguish your self, is just like a Bangladeshi call himself BANGALI to distinguish him/herself.

More looks to me a lack of self respect
Isn't Paki a derogatory term used against Indians, just like the term Hindu is used against Sikhs to play off of ancient issues between the two cultures?

If one is from Pakistan then being Paki is not an offensive term, no?
Old 11-19-2008   #42 (permalink)
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I love being a hotwife -- it lets me explore the issues of size which gives me great pleasure. Hubbie likes to watch and sometimes join in. He says it's the best porn he's ever seen ;-).
I couldn't agree more!

From what I understand being in the hotwife lifestyle and cuckolding are commonly mistake for the same thing. IMO the hotwife lifestyle (the lifestyle that we identify with) does not involve the humiliation.

In our relationship I enjoy the opportunity to compete with the Bull in seeing who can make my wife cum more!!
Old 11-20-2008   #43 (permalink)
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Granted, but it does cross my mind that he is being used by the couple to enact their fantasy/fetish. Or do Bulls go looking for cuck couples and are therefore as much a part of the fetish as the couple? Is being a Bull a fetish in its own right?
I agree with you. I suppose that he's being exploited, even though he is often the one in charge. I've seen Bulls, cucks, and wives each initiate cuckold relationships. From my experience, it's mostly the men who initiate these relationships.

Is being a Bull a fetish? Hell yes. I think that it's very kinky, and that's why so many people feel so strongly against it--especially women.

Imagine a Bull visiting a couple in their bedroom. She has her wedding dress on and is laying back in her marriage bed. The hubby is sitting quietly near the bed. The Bull asks him to get up and open her legs. He tells him to get her wet with his mouth then to take off his wedding band and stick it into her, as deeply as it will go. Imagine the Bull telling the cuck to guide him into her so that she can get fucked by a "real cock" for the first time in her lift. Now imagine the Bull fucking her brains out, cumming all over her hubby's wedding band as she screams in delight.

Not tell me that's not a fetish.
Old 11-20-2008   #44 (permalink)
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Well my wife is currently having 2 lovers, both of whom have very large cocks and she's starting to get emotionally attached to them as well as sexually/physically. It really is very hot to see someone love another person based purely on the amazing sex she has with him. We both agree that if in the course of sex, she gets pregnant to her lover, then she would keep the baby and we would assess our relationship/marriage to see whether it is best that we stay together or maybe she would find greater happiness with her lover. It is dangerous but also very hot and she is enjoying her life so much now she's practically glowing.. on the one hand she has me, someone who will always love her, and on the other hand she's having absolutely amazing sex and is somewhat even wishing that something good such as pregnancy comes as a result of the sex. This lifestyle isn;'t for everyone but I can't stop her happiness.
Old 11-23-2008   #45 (permalink)
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A very very interesting forum and content, this is one of my biggest fantasies and would desperately love to find a female to do the cuckold lifestyle.
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