I'm so frustrated I figured writing a blog was the perfect outlet. Question...why can't men just tell it like it is? I recently had a man who stole my heart tell me it was too much too fast and he needed to *relax* the whole thing. Said he wasn't ending it, just slowing it down. I assume this is guy speak for *over* just a cowards way of saying it (or texting it as the case may be). What follows is pure torture as I wonder what he really means and why he really is doing this. How did this turn? What did I do or what does he think I did? Is it something real or is it a misunderstanding? How did he go from doing all those nice things for me (and to me) to not speaking to me and ignoring me completely? WHAT IS THIS ALL ABOUT MEN????? Why can't a guy just say...it's over - I'm sorry, You did this, or I need this, or I don't need this, or I think that...

Why make some lame thing up and then throw out crumbs for a future when it doesn't exist? I think this is cruel and cowardly. How is a person supposed to simply let go of it if there are so many unanswered questions?

I dunno men but this tactic sucks so if you use it, I'd urge you to have more faith in the woman you're dumping and just flat out dump her. Don't make her suffer and wonder. Simply not fair.

Oh, and after a torrid love affair, face to face dumping is best. Texting it is for total losers (just keep this in mind - remember karma can be hell)