Hello Canadian ex-pat living overseas. I have a pretty cosmopolitan group of friends made up of people from different countries. Recently a French friend of mine who is dating a Canadian girl pointed out how we English speakers are really uncomfortable with labels describing our relationships.

For example, he said that in France, when you have kissed a person and go on dates, that person is your boyfriend/girlfriend. However English speakers don't say this until the relationship becomes...

Hi, haven't posted for a while. I've been traveling for a couple of months and haven't had time to go on to LPSG. So much has happened to me since I've last posted.

I'm writing this for just to get it off my chest. I guess this is my form of self therapy.

Ok so I'm 27 years old, and bisexual. Before I admitted I was bi, which was about 3-4 years ago, I was deeply in denial. I ignored my attractions to other men, but in the process developed crushes on my close male friends....

Been a while since I've posted on my blog. Search for a gf has pretty much been futile. Went on a couple of dates but have yet to manage to find anyone I clicked with. Had a few flings with some guys and a girl. Still lonely, sexually frustrated and feeling a little down, winter blues probably.

Also I will be moving to Seoul this spring, going to teach ESL. This has been a dream of mine for a long time. I'm so excited and scared out of my mind. I have this complex where I always wonder...

So from my previous posts I went in detail describing my mostly sex romps with other men I've met out here. I've decided to start looking for a gf. You know fooling around with guys is always fun and exciting, their isn't the tenderness you get with being with a woman. Sexually for the most part guys turn me on, but I do have this attraction to women that is emotional and the physical. That's why I started to be more active in my interaction with women. I also went on a dating site, much to my embarassment...

So I ended up hooking up with my former roomate again, he's the small handsome type. I have been fantasizing about him lately when I found out he was coming to town for a visit. He is a lot smaller about than me (in all ways) which was a huge turn on for me and when I first saw him I knew he was gay, though he was still in denial.

Now we fooled around for a bit before he moved out to go to school. After that it was really awkward between us. He has sent me a drunken text how he missed...