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Soup and cookies didn't help

Posted 10-31-2011 at 08:28 AM by OhWiseOne

Made both this weekend in my lame attempt to make myself feel better. Neither of them helped, only seemed to make things worse.
Got to thinking, which was the last thing I wanted to do, about all the people in my life. Or should I say the people that pass through. There were a few goods but the number that fell into the they fucked me or I could give a shit categories was overwhelming.
I'm feeling very empty these days and I don't think I should be. But there must be a reason. It might be the fact that I seem to be fighting life on every front. Second guessing my direction and choices.
I have more thoughts but maybe another time. Morning ramble complete.

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    My Two Cents

    I'm sorry you are feeling at sixes and sevens about your life right now, but I was just telling someone this morning that many friendships or relationships are not built to go the distance. Sometimes the people we have something in common during our student years just won't translate when we grow and move on in another direction.
    I've had a great big chip on my shoulder with someone for a long time and recently realized I have been letting that person live rent free in my head for many years and let the issues keep me tossing and turning and sleepless some nights. I very recently released him to the universe with the hope that his many kindness's come back to him ten fold. There is no room for him or the memory in my life and I have to move on. He is not living in my head any more and the sleeplessness is over and he is gone and I'm finally free.
    I've been thinking about the people in my life who did stand the test of time, me with them and them with me and I'm very thankful.
    Look at what you do have instead of what you don't have right now and hopefully that will help.
    If all else fails try my recipe for peanut butter cookies.
    Me ke aloha!
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    Posted 10-31-2011 at 07:01 PM by nudeyorker nudeyorker is offline
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    You made that batch of cookies and I didn't receive any. Boohoo with my head hangin low..........haha jk
    I don't know what the funk is about but it will pass.
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    Posted 11-01-2011 at 12:57 AM by SprinkleMe69 SprinkleMe69 is offline
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    My Two Cents

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    Originally Posted by nudeyorker View Comment
    I'm sorry you are feeling at sixes and sevens about your life right now, but I was just telling someone this morning that many friendships or relationships are not built to go the distance. Sometimes the people we have something in common during our student years just won't translate when we grow and move on in another direction.
    I've had a great big chip on my shoulder with someone for a long time and recently realized I have been letting that person live rent free in my head for many years and let the issues keep me tossing and turning and sleepless some nights. I very recently released him to the universe with the hope that his many kindness's come back to him ten fold. There is no room for him or the memory in my life and I have to move on. He is not living in my head any more and the sleeplessness is over and he is gone and I'm finally free.
    I've been thinking about the people in my life who did stand the test of time, me with them and them with me and I'm very thankful.
    Look at what you do have instead of what you don't have right now and hopefully that will help.
    If all else fails try my recipe for peanut butter cookies.
    Me ke aloha!
    Great words of advice nudeyorker. I try to follow that path but sometimes I venture off of it. BTW I will give you 3 cents for you opinion.
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    Posted 11-01-2011 at 07:44 AM by OhWiseOne OhWiseOne is offline
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    Originally Posted by SprinkleMe69 View Comment
    You made that batch of cookies and I didn't receive any. Boohoo with my head hangin low..........haha jk
    I don't know what the funk is about but it will pass.
    Sorry the cookie monster ate them all.
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    Posted 11-01-2011 at 07:46 AM by OhWiseOne OhWiseOne is offline
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    Oh Wise One... my husband once was talking with me about the people that pass through our lives. He said that he can count on one hand his dearest friends.. If you have a handful you are truly blessed.

    I think it is natural to pas through life making a majority friendly acquaintances (ya know, the "hi, how are you?" type) and only every now and again picking up a lifetime friend.

    If you have met people who "have fucked you over" then I'm sure you've learned some valuable life lessons on your journey.

    You sound like a typical well-rounded person to me....

    NY is a pretty smart guy, too...

    Have a wonderful Tuesday, mister ;)
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    Posted 11-01-2011 at 07:58 AM by D_Kitten_Kaboodle D_Kitten_Kaboodle is offline
 

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