Last Saturday night, I went out to a gay bar in Chelsea with one of my friends. We were just drinking and casually talking with some folks for most of the night. Later, a guy my friend knew came by who looked like a total stud. Tall, built, handsome white dude. And he's checking me out not so subtly. Yay!

I went outside for a smoke and [let's call him] Mike the hottie followed along. We had a few minutes of awkward chit-chat then went back inside to rejoin the little group we were...

When gay marriage became legalized in New York two Junes ago, I remember watching Bill Maher on HBO. It was a live show on a Friday night and he dropped what he was talking about mid-sentence to say "Because this is a live show, we can report up to the minute current events. Gay Marriage just passed in NY." The audience absolutely erupted and I did a fist pump in my living room. I went to check my laptop and social media was going nuts with pictures from the mass gatherings by Stonewall...

My sex drive is still next to zero. I’m not attracted to 90% of the guys I’d normally like when my libido was high. My testosterone and hormone levels are all normal so it’s a mental phase I’m going through that I’ll have to wait out. A friend of mine suggested that I’m going through a “vicious cycle.” He claims he had the same thing many years ago: a high libido that declined due to something that triggered the “cycle.” He went to a sexual therapist who told him that his partner needed to cater...

**Please read part I of this story here if you haven't already**

Link to part I: http://www.lpsg.com/blogs/stringer/j...y-night-41671/
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Alex and I met for dinner last night, just the two of us. He picked me up from my house after work and then we drove to the restaurant - blasting deadmau5 along the way for all of the city to hear.

We got...

not.

It's 3 AM and I can't sleep so I thought I'd share what happened to me on Monday night.

I reconnected with two of my old buddies - let's call them Alex and Pat - whom I attended school with over four years ago. We haven't really seen each other or hung out together since. It was so much fun catching up with them since we've all changed and are in college now - I haven't laughed as hard in years, it literally felt like I was back in the 8th grade without a care...