Can we sticky a disclaimer in the Relationships thread that states, "No matter how you word it and what you preface your statement with, a man that willingly has sex with another man (as in non-torture or force) is not 'straight'?"

It seems that people want to find any way they can possibly make a situation equal out to a man retaining his %100 straight title with being able to dabble in man/man sexual relations.

The point is, if you weren't raped or in such...

Xtube's all fine and good when you don't know (or recognize) the person who's cock (or pussy, boobs, ass etc...) you're jacking off to; but what about that fateful day when you find a video that shows you a little more than you wanted to see of someone who was or still is a significant part of your life?

Today I was minding my own perverted business when I stumbled upon a video of that nature. It was a video of a guy. A guy who I knew fairly well. We'd had classes together throughout...

I'm beginning to get sick of myself because everything that I post is either a gripe or a complaint. So this time I'm going to stay positive.


I'm excited about Valentine's Day this year mainly because I think that I've lined up enough friends to get me through without one mournful glance at relationships.

I'm gonna go to work, then hang out with some friends and just have a nice time...without any pity or sadness.

Here's how a normal V day would...

I don't think I've written about this at length before because I've never gotten my thoughts together the way I'd like...but I'm willing to just go for it now.


I as well as many people in and out of "the life" have noticed certain "key looks" or qualities of the people that make up my colorful gay society. While it's normal for people who associate in certain circles to immitate styles and whatnot indicative of their surroundings, it tends to seems as though...

Oh my fucking fuck!

You know how in cartoons, food-deprived characters see everything like it's a cheeseburger or a chicken leg?

I'm totally seeing cocks, like, everywhere I look.

Telephone poles...giant cocks

fire hydrants...giant cocks

people...well, you get the picture

I wish I had a readily available hookup in my near future, but it looks like that's not in the cards.

I'm at that point where playin'...