expectations

let me preface that my wife and i have very high expectations of each other in correlation to what we have to offer or am expecting. i'm in a constant state of bettering myself both mentally and physically and i do expect the same of my wife (as she is doing the same and expects the same of me...

So...I'm an exclusive top. Always have been, always will be. Only lately, the bottoms I've been with seem to expect me to rim them. And I've noticed that on these forums, it seems expected that this is something that a top will routinely do for a bottom as part of foreplay, and that you're not...