3-somes with married couples

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  1. Imported

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    trulybig: I often wonder how many people here are legit or not. Also, there seem to be some guys (even one I see who posts his pic) who apparently have an exxagerated view of their own endowment or must be measuring from their balls or something.

    Anyway, I can tell you that when I was younger that I had no idea I was any different than anyone else. I guess I never paid any attention. In fact, I can remember the major issue for me was when was I going to grow pubic hair. But, once in school where you had gym class and the showers, I discovered the difference. Now, I know the legitimate people probably had similar experience. When you are 14, 15, 16 etc. you do not want to stand out in anyway. I was often embarrassed although I tried to act confident and non-challant about being well-hung when forced to take public showers or have to change clothes. Most kids want to fit in and not be different and that was certainly true of myself. So, these stories of other kids commenting to someone on their size, etc. I simply don't believe. That's not how teenagers act.

    When I got to college, I started feeling better about my size but it wasn't that much of a deal to me. It was flattering when one girl said to me, "Oh my god, your huge" and then added, "size doesn't matter but it is always nice." However, again I didn't find that many who commented and those who did didn't focus on it that much. I did have one longer term relationship and she measured my penis because she said it looked so big she wanted to know. But, that was about the most that ever happened.

    About 3 years ago, I discovered the swinging web sites. And, now to the point of my post (although you are welcome to comment on my previous comments). There are a number of married couples that want to meet a well-hung man. I met my first couple perhaps two years ago, and now have a real appreciation for having the size that I do. They both went crazy over it. And, I found that I really get turned on f-king another guys wife and her crying out how good it feels, etc. And, as I have gained experience, I also find myself getting turned on showing off how much bigger I am than another woman's husband. I love it when their wife comments on how much bigger I am, or even some husbands have played with it admiring my size. I don't mind as the hero worship is exciting to me. And, that's the question. Have others here experienced similar? And, do you find it equally exciting or do you dislike the attention on this one attribute?
     
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    I have been swinging for quite a long time and I have found a lot of different responces to my size. Last night I meet with a couple where the guy was 6'4" and only had about 5' of cock. This made him look smaller than you would expect. I could tell part way throught the session that he was getting jealous of what I was doing to his wife. When I was leaving, she called me "Mr. Big Dick" I know this was a dig on her husband. OH, if there is any doubt about my size, you can check out my site. (I know I used to have my penis as my pic, but I felt it was time for a change.)
     
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    Andrea: [quote author=trulybig link=board=sex;num=1069537605;start=0#0 date=11/22/03 at 13:37:45]
    About 3 years ago, I discovered the swinging web sites.  And, now to the point of my post (although you are welcome to comment on my previous comments). There are a number of married couples that want to meet a well-hung man.  I met my first couple perhaps two years ago, and now have a real appreciation for having the size that I do.  They both went crazy over it. And, I found that I really get turned on f-king another guys wife and her crying out how good it feels, etc. And, as I have gained experience, I also find myself getting turned on showing off how much bigger I am than another woman's husband.  I love it when their wife comments on how much bigger I am, or even some husbands have played with it admiring my size.  I don't mind as the hero worship is exciting to me.  And, that's the question.  Have others here experienced similar? And, do you find it equally exciting or do you dislike the attention on this one attribute?[/quote]
    Hello there.
    I am most interested in your experiences. Could I invite you to read another thread I started a few days ago? Under "Women's Issues" it is called "Married couples invite a hung guy". I am intrigued since your own experiences are from the "other side of the coin" as it were. Have you "serviced" many women so far in this kind of scenario? Generally speaking what has been the reaction from the husband? Have such couples invited you back to repeat the encounter?
    Look forward to hearing from you,
    Andrea xxxx
     
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    I have done it with several couples. I saw one couple occasionally for over a year. There was only one couple that didn't mention my size, but then that one was a dud anyway. Otherwise, they seem as appreciative as my regular female partners.
     
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    Andrea: aloofman-
    In your view, were you invited purely due to the pize of your penis? And what sort of size did the hubby's have?

    Andrea xxxx
     
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    In about half of them, the couple wanted to know my measurements up front and I told them. I don't think I ever asked, but I just assumed it was because he wanted to see her with a bigger guy. None of the guys were as big as I was, not that that mattered to me.

    With two of these couples, the husband never even took his pants off because he just wanted to watch.
     
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    I've had some experience with married couples. The first time for me it was more exciting thinking about it than doing it. The guy seemed uncomfortable even though it was his idea. I liked the wife. She was a very beautiful and kool woman.
     
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    roman25: I've experienced this from the flip side.My girlfriend has a hung friend just over ten inches long who engaged in a comparison session with me a while ago.It turned me on when my girl started praising the guy's dick while teasing me that I came up short.It was a great experience and I wound up holding the guy's cock,the first time I've held another man's genitals.
     
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    huge_cock_have_pic: I have had a few opportunities, especially when I was younger to fuck a married woman in front of her husband. The ego trip is one of the best parts of the experience. To see and hear this woman go crazy over your cock and to see how much smaller the guy is than you. It is out of this world. Then to go into action and do things to the woman that she has never or has not experienced in a long time makes the sex incredible.

    The problem is that this is such an unpredictable situation. The guy may start being cool with it, but he doesn't necessarily remail cool with it.
     
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    Yeah I've done it a few times. Most often than not, it'll be couples who come down to the porno theatre I go to. Sometimes I'll go back to their place.. I love it, for all the reasons mentioned above. If the woman is really sexy, I'll get so turned on I won't mind the guy handling my dick, say when I'm in a 69 with the girl. Usually the hubby is as turned on by the big meat as the woman.

    It doesn't happen often enough though, and the sites I've visited to try and get more of this kind of action are all a waste of time. That's why I would like to know of any network or grapevine that may exist in London...
    Any ideas anyone? :-/
     
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    belcurv: My wife and I have had two 3-way relationships with well hung guys, but they weren't huge, just a bit bigger than me. They were super fun, sexy friendships which bordered on love between all 3 of us. I still would like to find a NICE guy who happens to be really big and could enjoy our attention. We don't want a 3rd partner JUST for big cock size but we do admire and get turned on by that quality as part of a whole person.
     
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    belcurv: BTW, forgot to say, the hottest part of having 3ways IS when the woman compares the two cocks, says how much better the bigger cock is, and better yet is when the man also openly gives Mr Big his props. It's often the guy who finds it even hotter than the woman.
     
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    Andrea: After investigating this sort of scenario I believe there is a whole area called the "cuckold" fetish. I am told men find it very arousing to see their wife penetrated by a better endowed man.
    Apparantly this is especially true for men with small penises watching their wife with a very well endowed man.
    This seems to make sense since some of the men on this site have been involved in such scenarios.

    Andrea xxxx
     
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    belcurv: [quote author=Andrea link=board=sex;num=1069537605;start=0#12 date=11/26/03 at 16:14:19]After investigating this sort of scenario I believe there is a whole area called the "cuckold" fetish.
    Andrea xxxx  [/quote]

    I took a look at "cuckold husbands" online. I don't like the negative, humiliation aspect that most sites attach to it. I much prefer a scenario where the woman and her mate both enjoy admiring and appreciating the hung partner's attributes, and where both men enjoy giving pleasure to the woman and each other. But glad to learn of this term, never knew that it had anything to do with this before.
     
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    [quote author=Andrea link=board=sex;num=1069537605;start=0#12 date=11/26/03 at 16:14:19]After investigating this sort of scenario I believe there is a whole area called the "cuckold" fetish. I am told men find it very arousing to see their wife penetrated by a better endowed man.
    Apparantly this is especially true for men with small penises watching their wife with a very well endowed man.
    This seems to make sense since some of the men on this site have been involved in such scenarios.

    Andrea xxxx [/quote]

    I don't know if I'd consider this much of a trend (although if you read Penthouse you'd think it was). I think the idea of a husband wanting to see his wife with another man is fairly common and probably happens more often than most people think. But I don't think couples really do it nearly as often. And the ones who do don't necessarily make it a trend. Fantasies don't always translate well to reality and a lot of couples discover that they don't want anyone else joining them in bed after all.

    A lot of men talk and fantasize about being with two women at the same time, but I'll bet only a small minority have really done it. As you noted, I don't think this site has a very representative population for identifying trends. And it's uncommon and taboo enough that I don't go telling my friends about having a threesome with a couple. Almost all of them would either think that was weird or immoral or they'd want too many details!
     
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    belcurv: The fantasy vs. reality point is well taken. It isn't easy for most couples to make the transition. One version of enjoying the reality in a kind of fantasy form is when the woman shares stories of her experiences wth an ex-bf who was exceptionally hung. I asked several of my gf's about past lovers' cocksizes out of fear and worry after being dumped by one serious long term gf when I was 21 who said she was leaving me for a bigger guy.

    It led to transforming the fear and worry into excitement and lust. I have heard this from other guys, that when their wives tell them of the big dicked past lover, it heats up their sex life. It is fueled, to some degree, by fear or envy, but I think more by true admiration and acceptance of the big cock as an indisputable source of sexual power and instinctual thrills. Hearing your gf/wife openly admit it is just too hot to deny.

    But going that extra step and actually finding a pal who you feel is compatible and can join you in real time is an experience that goes way beyond any fantasy! ;)
     
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    I swing with a couple where the guy is longer than me (about 10") but not as thick. He is bi-curious and the wife gets very turned on by guy/guy sex. She had a hard time taking my girth up her ass during a double penetration, but I once it was in, she love taking it.
     
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    roman25: The fantasy vs. reality point is well taken. It isn't easy for most couples to make the transition. One version of enjoying the reality in a kind of fantasy form is when the woman shares stories of her experiences wth an ex-bf who was exceptionally hung. I asked several of my gf's about past lovers' cocksizes out of fear and worry after being dumped by one serious long term gf when I was 21 who said she was leaving me for a bigger guy.

    It led to transforming the fear and worry into excitement and lust. I have heard this from other guys, that when their wives tell them of the big dicked past lover, it heats up their sex life. It is fueled, to some degree, by fear or envy, but I think more by true admiration and acceptance of the big cock as an indisputable source of sexual power and instinctual thrills. Hearing your gf/wife openly admit it is just too hot to deny.

    But going that extra step and actually finding a pal who you feel is compatible and can join you in real time is an experience that goes way beyond any fantasy!



    I heartily agree with you.As I've stated in a few other posts,my experience with my girlfriend and her hung friend was one of my greatest experiences.When my girlfriend started teasing me about my dick being way smaller than the other guy,it was a turn-on like you could never imagine.
     
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    roman25: sorry belcurv I meant to make my post look like I quoted yours,not like something I wrote.Please accept my apologies.
     
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    belcurv: [quote author=trulybig link=board=sex;num=1069537605;start=0#0 date=11/22/03 at 13:37:45]I ...now have a real appreciation for having the size that I do.  They both went crazy over it. ...I also find myself getting turned on showing off how much bigger I am than another woman's husband.  I love it when their wife comments on how much bigger I am, or even some husbands have played with it admiring my size.  I don't mind as the hero worship is exciting to me.  And, that's the question.  Have others here experienced similar? And, do you find it equally exciting or do you dislike the attention on this one attribute?[/quote]

    I think this is really the crux of trulybig's original post. "Do you find it equally exciting or do you dislike the attention on this one attribute?"

    From reading the LPSG board elsewhere, a few, and I think VERY few, hung men do NOT like the attention. But it's a thrill, a turn-on and a relief to learn that there are some who do and some who don't. In the past I've been too worried that I might offend a well hung man by being open and honest about how appreciative I was of his anatomical gift. Thanks to LPSG, I'm learning how to express those feelings and to seek out those who DO appreciate the attention and hopefully avoid offending those who don't. I enjoy giving to these individuals the flattery I feel they deserve.

    Also, geo8x6 mentions the wife who loves to see m/m sex. I think that's more common than is usually openly admitted, and no different than men who like to see lesbian sex.