I've been married for a year (together for 2). I know I'm not well endowed (5,5 inch)and I've always known that my wife has had lovers larger than me. Initially, she took a while to adjust to me, but now I think we've both learnt about each other, and what we like, so the sex is now ok.. Recently, during a conversation, penis size came up, and I asked her about the sizes of her past lovers, fully expecting most to be bigger than me. She said that 3 of the other 4 guys she's had sex with are bigger than me, the largest being a 9 inch. ". We spoke about the differences between me and him, and she said " vaginal sex wasn't not satisfying for me because he was too long and cannot fully penetrate without causing me significant pain. He could accomodate only 7 inch max..when a guy goes too deep and hit the cervix is terrible" However,during another conversation,she admitted that"the sex with him was better and more satisfying during the ovulation"(??) The question is:how does the cervix change at ovulation?I have read that as a woman approaches ovulation her estrogen increases, and the cervix is high open and wet....moreover the vagina can expand up to 200%of her length,which makes it possible to accomodate penises ut to 8 inches without very disconfort.. Is it possible to have painful sex in any days and pleasurable sex in other days ???