Anal on the first date.

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So, the character in the show offered up buttsex on a first date, because she thought the guy was gay and might prefer that. I didn't think that was realistic. When a girl does have on anal sex on a first date or encounter, how did it lead up to it?
 

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I never said they were not as open or honest. I said I was looking for those type of of open and honest response. The type that talk about the rare occasions when they partake. This thread is asking women who Have or Do have such experiences. Since you do not this thread is not meant for you. Your opinion is welcomed, but not relevant to my question. I will be glad to hear what you have to say when I start the "Why won't some women give up there ass" thread. You may not qualify for the "Why do some women not like things up their butt" thread since clearly you have a stick up your ass. You can go fuck off back to the bridge you came out from under, Troll. :) have a nice day.


This thread is posted in ask a woman. You do not control HOW this thread is responded to or who it is meant for, past that it is meant for women. Public forum, bub. That means any woman can answer it. Whether or not you like her answer really is irrelevant. To attack that woman because you don't like her answer and to call her a troll and to tell her to fuck off -- well you should take your own advice and fuck off.


And now you're trying to back track and say what you "really meant". Well if that's what you "really meant" why didn't you ask that in your OP?

My thoughts are ... you asked what you wanted for faps, didn't like the opposition you received to some of your responses, so now your'e trying to back track. It happens all of the time.


Fuck you . You don't get to say who qualifies for what. Good day.



And judging by your post history :


I am looking for mature and elegant Asian women, preferably nonAsian-American, with young hung guys. Ideally a scene were she starts of feeling in control and turns into her getting destroyed. Something along the lines of not being able to handle it or overwhelmed. Maybe a couple of frat boys going to town on her with no regards for her.


Your attitude here is not surprising at all.
 
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in my experience, the few times it has happened, have been planned meetings where we spent time chatting, getting to know one another, usually online and met to fuck only.

guys that i dated for relationship purposes, don't always get sex on the first/second or third dates...

of course i've been married forever now and only meet up for sexual reasons. some of the guys aren't into anal, some want to try it for the first time and some just love it as much as i do.
 

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Ms. Enid was right
frickin H-bomb

LOL +1 this and this in so many ways.

Oh yea, PS: No anal for me on the first date either. That is something I only share with someone I've been with for a little while.
 
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Serial Kisser I was using her verbiage of "fuck off". I am glad you did not catch that. :) or that this is the new discussion. :)

Everyone else's response I appreciated, especially Altered Ego's and that was why it's a no go for anal. I sincerely agree with her. As you pointed out I failed to articulate the root of my question. That is why I tried to narrow down what I was curious about. If you need to believe I want to control the discussion or that I am not aware that this is an open forum, that's fine.
 

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Sanaxx, with as much as you love it and are experienced, I assume, do you still get nervous or scared that the guy won't know what he is doing or hurt you? At that point the trust level would be more bases on faith than trust earn with experience. Most women have said that kinda trust just to try anal takes significant time.
 

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Nice, that is more of the open and honest response I was looking for. Everyone is different and it is an uncommon act. That is the point of asking this question. I want to know about your experiences on the rare occations that it does happen.

I once did some research about why it looks so easy and clean in porn. At the time, I worked in an office, but my job was phone sex. After a promotion, it became part of my responsibilities to maintain our research materials, and the many, many, MANY filing cabinets full of porn rags. After a particular article about anal sex got me started, I went on a mission to learn more about anal. The first time I had ever done it, there wasn't the least hint of a mess. The second time, however, there was this teeny tiny spec of poop. It made us both a little queasy. After that it was only because of what I read in terms of advice from women who specialized in anal porn at the time that I ever tried it again. I fast before sex anyway, finding that an empty stomach adds a little something to the experience, and sharing food after adds another dimension of intimacy. But a few of the performers said they fasted for much longer than my usual fast, and they did enemas until they were clear. I learned that I had to clean pretty deeply because the penetration triggered... movement in my upper bowel. The prep is its own reward sometimes. There is nothing like feeling that empty. Gotta load up on pro-biotics if that's going to happen more than twice a month though. I'd not be so extreme about it, but I'm ridiculously, insanely averse to contact with feces, even my own.
 

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Serial Kisser I was using her verbiage of "fuck off". I am glad you did not catch that. :) or that this is the new discussion. :)

Everyone else's response I appreciated, especially Altered Ego's and that was why it's a no go for anal. I sincerely agree with her. As you pointed out I failed to articulate the root of my question. That is why I tried to narrow down what I was curious about. If you need to believe I want to control the discussion or that I am not aware that this is an open forum, that's fine.

You don't need to patronize me with your emoticons or condescending notes about me not catching on. I don't care what point in the discussion YOU'RE on. The point in the discussion I'M referring to is in the quotes of the post I'm writing.
:)

I also don't need your validation of what I need to believe or not. I don't -need- to believe anything. I call it as I see it
 

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i don't really get nervous about it. if he has never done it, i can coach him through, i enjoy being their first. no one has hurt me yet. those that get over zealous, get told to slow down or take their time until i'm adjusted. but most guys i'm with, as i've said before, have already talked to me and we've talked bluntly about what will happen and how it should be for both of us to enjoy it.


Sanaxx, with as much as you love it and are experienced, I assume, do you still get nervous or scared that the guy won't know what he is doing or hurt you? At that point the trust level would be more bases on faith than trust earn with experience. Most women have said that kinda trust just to try anal takes significant time.
 

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I am uber shy so I don't think I even kiss on the first date. However as soon as I start having sex with a person I would like to explore the anal ways of doing things too :)

Side question; what prep? I like to keep my parts clean but I agree with Sanaxx, you know where you are putting it.