I love sex. I love sex with hot guys who are well endowed. Now...although I've done it here and there...I'm not a huge fan of anal sex. Anal sex with a guy who has an average-size cock was ok. Tolerable if it was with a guy I had a relationship with or loved at least. I'd do it for him. Anal sex was never something I'd especially want to do. Never would prefer it over vaginal sex that's for dang sure. But again, I've never hated it. To be blunt...to me it basically feels like you're going poop, but in reverse. It's tight, uncomfortable and lots of pressure. When its happening, I just want it over asap. Now the twist...with my current FWB (friend with benefits) I really enjoy our sex sessions. In fact, he's the best sex partner I've ever had. His cock is my favorite of all time. It's magical to me (as I've posted on a different thread.) He's 7" and 6.5- 7" girth. I've been seeing him for almost 4 months now. He'd never had anal sex before me. His girthiness is a little scary when thinking of it in my ass. Can't fault other girls for that. I wanted to let him do it to me. He satisfies me so incredibly much that I want to satisfy him in every way I can. So a little while ago...maybe 2 months ago...I let him try anal with me. We used lube and just him putting his head inside my ass, hurt like hell. Didn't have a lot of success the first try. It just hurt too much. So a few weeks later we tried again and then he did get it in. And my ass hurt soooooo bad the next few days...won't go into much description, but the after-affects were not visibly pleasing nor physically good either... So then we waited about a month and then I let him try it again. I was super nervous...tense...I told him he needed to kiss me a lot to help me relax. That did help. He was sweet and took his time going in. After I was relaxed, then he got to moving in and out. He got his whole shaft inside me and he really enjoyed it. For me...it's such an odd, weird, bizarre feeling. I don't even know if I can use the word enjoy to describe it. I do orgasm from it. It's like a million electrodes are shooting up my ass and the sensation in pretty incredible. The orgasm is unlike that I get from vaginal sex or oral sex. It's a pleasure/pain kinda thing. But I've never been one that's into pain. A good bite here and there, a smack on the ass and a hair pull is about my speed... The after affects from that round of anal were o.k. A few burning pains here and there, better visual results and no long-term ass pain. Anyway...last night I let my boy toy back-door it again. Same thing pretty much ensued. He was patient, took his time, used lots of lube. And the result was the same...he loved it. I came from it, again...it's just so weird and hard for me to describe. I'm sure I'm getting used to it. No ass pain at all last night or today. Which is a major improvement. So...can you others, particularly women who've done anal help me figure out how to convey how it feels? Do you like it? Is it an acquired pleasure? I just could never imagine myself asking for anal, plopping my ass down on a guy's cock and going to town, or even preferring it over vaginal sex...ever. I have suggested to my friend that if he gets me schnockered first, there may be less need to relax me. Your thoughts?