My dh is not very into eating or licking me. I don't know why. I even told him I know he doesn't enjoy it and he said why did I think that? Well uh you hardly ever do it and when you do it's like your going down and slobbering everywhere for a few seconds then stop. That's why. I am a clean person and bathe before if I know we are going to have sex, I even trim and sometimes shave completely (which he likes), but still no help there. I tell him he's selfish because I enjoy going down on him until he cums but none for me, so that's why I need something else.
Have you tried any light bondage role play as a way of training him?
Handcuff him to the bed, then sit on his face , squirming & teasing, but being vocally dominant. Then you can also 69 him.
Get some 6 inch heeled thigh high boots & order him to kneel & lick his mistress.
Keep it shaved, few people enjoy coughing up furballs. Get some warming oils & show him how to massage the area. Wear some hold up stockings & heels while you're doing this. Visually, it makes most men gaga.
Men respond better to strong sexy commands than to whiny "why don't you's?"
Assert, don't ask or beg.
Well it's worth a try!:tongue: