Anyone know of any home products to put on your clit to help with orgasm?

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Anyone know of any home products to put on your clit to help with orgasm?
Tulips.

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Seriously...grab your hubby and tell him you want your pussy sucked until you come. Sexually, he's not to get any more involved than his lips and tongue. It's not foreplay, it's not leading up to anything else, it's just him working your sex with his mouth for as long as you can stand it.

As for you, let go the idea of any expectations...your own included. No timetables, no notions of "normal," just relax, enjoy the sensations of your body in your own time, and direct his efforts as desired. Keep your focus on the moment...your orgasm will take care of itself.
 

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I can cum no problem on my own, but when me and my hubby are fucking it's hard for me to cum.

Well, what are you doing on your own? Do you lie on your back or on your stomach? Most women cum easier while on top. And not bouncing up and down like you're riding a pony, either...I'm talking about leaning way forward and maximizing the surface area and swaying back and forth.
 

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Tiger balm is something to be tried - or a few noches up, ChilliOil - but only if you are a bit masochistic.... - A few of my Gf's along the way has - let's say, very HOT experiences with the ChilliOil. But remember you cant' wash it off with water, you just have to wait untill it fades. So start off with a tiny amount.
 

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I'm needing a little help in the orgasm department... I can cum no problem on my own, but when me and my hubby are fucking it's hard for me to cum.

When I know my honey's a bit tired, I get myself started with a couple of orgasms on my own. After the first one, the others come much faster. This way, I can come with him, also. (It takes a lot less stimulation then for me to come again.):wink:
 

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My dh is not very into eating or licking me. I don't know why. I even told him I know he doesn't enjoy it and he said why did I think that? Well uh you hardly ever do it and when you do it's like your going down and slobbering everywhere for a few seconds then stop. That's why. I am a clean person and bathe before if I know we are going to have sex, I even trim and sometimes shave completely (which he likes), but still no help there. I tell him he's selfish because I enjoy going down on him until he cums but none for me, so that's why I need something else.

Have you tried any light bondage role play as a way of training him?

Handcuff him to the bed, then sit on his face , squirming & teasing, but being vocally dominant. Then you can also 69 him.

Get some 6 inch heeled thigh high boots & order him to kneel & lick his mistress.

Keep it shaved, few people enjoy coughing up furballs. Get some warming oils & show him how to massage the area. Wear some hold up stockings & heels while you're doing this. Visually, it makes most men gaga.

Men respond better to strong sexy commands than to whiny "why don't you's?"

Assert, don't ask or beg.

Well it's worth a try!:tongue:
 

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When I know my honey's a bit tired, I get myself started with a couple of orgasms on my own. After the first one, the others come much faster. This way, I can come with him, also. (It takes a lot less stimulation then for me to come again.):wink:

that works great!
 

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Scream Cream. My wife's Gyno writes her a script for it and then she gets it filled at a compounding pharmacy. I know it has arginine and viagra as the main ingredients, plus several others.
 

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DO NOT put Vicks Vaporub on, near or in your vagina. It is a petroleum based product, and has turpentine oil in it, there for it is hostile to your self cleaning naughty bits. And you can receive mild chemical irritation to actual chemical burns by putting it anywhere near skin as sensitive as a clit.

Why on Earth someone would bump a seven year old thread to encourage stupidity is beyond me. Menthol is a numbing agent. How this makes your clit explode with a vibrator is beyond me :rolleyes:
 

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yes yes use vicks, externally only, you wont be asking IF it works. compliment with your vibe, and you are going to go nuts, with a giant smile.
Made me hurt just reading that?
External only? Seriously? ... no. No. Just no. Like Mickey Lee said.. no where near...

It will explode alright... in pain.