Are there positions that only work out for you with hung partners?

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  1. zaza

    zaza New Member

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    I have to say that from my point of view there are difficulties with a very large partner, but there are advantages too.

    Perhaps due to my shape, height, build or whatever, I have often struggled( and with a lot guys given up) with sex standing up, but it works perfectly with my boyfriend.

    How about you guys, have you got any "only with the well endowed" positions?
     
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    Reverse cowgirl takes a bit of length I think.
     
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    My gf says the exact same thing. In fact, lots of positions where the guy is behind the girl work better with a bit more length because, in that position, it is easier for the penis to come out. However, I believe that my also depend on the shape of the girls vagina.
     
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    Not to be crude, but if a lady has a big butt (baby got back) you need a big penis for doggy. One of the pluses of being big. :smile:
     
  5. zaza

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    Interesting replies. I do have a big butt, but have never had a problem with doggie style with anyone i`ve tried it with, and there have been a few.
     
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    My ex complained her other boyfriends couldn't spoon because they couldn't reach, and the same for her on her stomach and the guy from behind.
     
  7. Biggie77

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    My kind of lady.
     
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    I recall a couple of partners being impressed that we could easily switch from missionary position to rear entry without withdrawing or uncoupling, by sliding around and moving her bent leg across my abdomen and rotating. I thought that was something everyone could manage, but these women seemed genuinely surprised, in a good way. I still have no idea if it is common or uncommon for others. It just has always worked, and I'm not extremely long, at 7-3/4" length.

    Another position that is fun is female laying on top with her back against my front. The sensitive frenum area (scar in my case) and glans of my cock is pressed straight up (or curved up) towards her G-spot and my hands are free to play with her clit and breasts as well as kiss her shoulder and neck. She can masturbate freely. If the strokes are too long I may slip out, but her hand or my hand is there to guide it back in.

    Add a large mirror and it's the best in home porno. :biggrin1:
     
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    standing up.
    reverse cowgirl.
    spooning...but that gets too tight for my taste.
     
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    you need lenght for spooning
     
  11. Mackleanen Beebarf

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    It's funny, but I've seen "her on her stomach and the guy from behind" listed as a deep-penetration position in more than one magazine article, advice forum, or other reference. Some even specifically describe it as a good position for smaller guys. For the life of me, I can't figure out how that can be.

    In fact, I also saw it listed in an old Men's Health column as a good position for longer guys who have problems with going too deep precisely because the penetration is limited, which makes sense to me both in theory and practice. It's about the only position in which I can really cut loose and pound away with my wife without fear of poking too far.
     
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    I would agree with an earlier post- doggy style always seems to work with me standing/crouching to really control the length going in as well as with the woman on top, which give complete control to the woman on how much she wants inside.

    btw- it's such a turn-on when a woman really wants to take it all and will do what she has to do to get it all in!
     
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    After the first time we had doggy sex, I had a gf comment she didn't realise that we could do that position. I asked her why she thought that, and she didn't respond. I ask her again and she politely stated that she thought a guy had to be of a certain length. I was 5.75 length (4.75 girth) and she had had sex with just two previous guys -and ex husband and an ex bf - who both just so happened to be much longer than me (and somewhat thicker). I hardly ever slipped out though, and that despite her having a biggish round butt. She wasn't but 5'2" tall, but I never reached bottom with her no matter what position we were in. I swear I think she could have talked on the phone and the person on the other end wouldn't have known I was pumping her. I just couldn't seem to have an effect on her during intercourse (I could sometimes a bit during oral). I could even fold her legs behind her head in missionary and pound hard as hell and she looked completely unphased.
     
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    Sideways scisored works way better with a lengthy guy.
     
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    small dick + jewish girl = pointless sex...:tongue:

    (i'm just being silly.....)
     
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    Spooning was my first thought also.

    I saw sex standing up in a porn but don't the guy and the girl have to be perfect heights? Like if my partner was 5' tall...I'd be trying to put my dick in her belly button or something. It just seems really awkward.
     
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    ok pretty interessting the topic.
    if he aint thaaat long but knows the technique their are cool...
    if she is blessed with booty and flexibility she'll make it work if he is additionally blessed with length it can be great sex!!! ;-)
    keep on writing i'd like to read more.
     
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    capslock,

    :smile: She wasn't jewish.

    She did consider me smallish - I didn't know that when we were going together.
     
  19. Principessa

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    Little guys can't do doggy, spponing position sex, or standidng up.



    I'm 5'8" my ex was 6'4" and we had no problem with sex standing up. It can also work well if they are both the same height. The key is that the guy has to have really strong thigh and leg muscles. and the girl can't be a heifer because he has to support her weight.

    :eek: I have never heard a man say a pussy was too tight!
     
  20. whatireallywant

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    I've read that doggy was good for smaller guys because it allows for deeper penetration. I guess it depends on maybe how small?

    I've never done standing up positions. I've read that the penetration isn't that deep so it might not be preferable for me anyway (although I'd consider giving it a try). There is usually too much of a height difference between me and the guys I've been with though. I'm 5'3" (with rounding up), and the majority of the guys I've been with have been 6'2" - 6'3".