Attraction to tall men...

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  1. modest123

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    I've wondered if one of the reasons women tend to like tall men is that they assume that a tall man also has a larger penis. On the other hand, my personal experience is that most women really do not get excited over a large penis. Given the stereotype (fed by the porn industry and others) about black men, I also wonder if women who prefer black men assume that those men have larger penises. If so, then you can imagine the frustration of a non-black non-tall guy who is well endowed - but has no way of showing this off in a socially acceptable way. In any case, nobody would believe me without seeing it, but no woman ( who is looking for such a thing) would see it without believing me. So it's a catch 22.
     
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    I'm white, 6'2'', & totally agree, Modest. This fits right in with my post & little story over in Show Off-at the urinal. Check it out.
     
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    There was a study done on what women think is attractive and what men think is attractive and the conclusion of the study was that men seem to agree on what is attractive but for straight women it's just random. According to this study women just have no idea what an attractive man looks like.

    There are a few types of male attractiveness that I've seen women go after and one of the types neanderthal-like men make women weak in the knees. Being tall or having big muscles. Then there's the suave/feminine type with quick wits and are generally good lays. Of course there are varying degrees of these two types but it's all relative and in the end since women can't even seem to agree on which men are attractive according to the study I refered to earlier.. Guys have even less of a chance of really predicting what women will think is attractive.

    I'd be willing to bet that a tall man will be deemed more attractive than shorter men. That's where my money's at.
     
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    It's random because they were probably lying. :tongue: I don't know many women who would answer honestly about sexual attraction. They don't want to say cock because then they think they look like a slut.
     
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    Obviously for the previous poster's sake I'm not worried about looking like a slut as it is in my name. I think a tall man is simply more attractive than a short man because he is tall. This is mostly due to the fact that I myself am tall and feel awkward with men who are significantly shorter than myself. I am also attracted to black men but they are not the only race of men I am attracted to....they are simply just one of the many. Then again I don't make any assumptions about cock size based on a man's height, race, weight, etc.
     
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    What??

    I think you have issues with some women lying to you.

    Even though what you are saying may be true and explain the discrepincies it would be a ridiculous assumption to assume that just because they are women they would lie while the men in this case wouldn't.
     
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    I'm 6'-5" 240lbs. I've noticed now that I'm losing my hair I don't get as many random smiles from women as I used to. I still get some looks and smiles but not like when I was in my 20s, 30s and 40s. "glory days and the wink of a young girls eye" :)

    St8cock4her, my wife lies to me, all the time. Like they say you can get used to anything, NOT.
     
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    :redface: It was a joke dude, but it's no secret men, as a whole, are more honest about sex in public.

    Girls may be plenty rank in private with their girlfriends, but that bravado quickly evaporates under public scrutiny. Men, however, are expected to be perverse slobbering pig-dogs and are generally more than happy to oblige.

    Ask a guy in public what he checks out first and he'll probably say tits or ass. Ask a woman and she'll say eyes, hair, smile, hight or anything other cock.
    Now, some would argue that it can be accounted to men's baser nature, but I think it has more to do with bulges (generally) being discrete and often misleading.
     
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    No. Google could have told you that.
     
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    Women are not lying if they say the first thing they notice about a man is their eyes, smile, etc. For most women that is simply true. I know the first thing I look at are eyes. I'm not saying I never venture further south but it's definitely not the first thing I look for.
     
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    I'm crazy about tall men, mainly because I'm tall. I just like how they feel. It has nothing to do with a big dick connection. Tall is just hot.
     
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    I'm 5'10" and I love tall guys but it has nothing to do with perceived dick size. I feel awkward if I'm towering over my date (especially when I wear my high heels). I'd rather have the attention for other reasons than my height. There is also a "hotness" to feeling protected by a big, tall man.
     
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    Women for most part are not visual. Men are. Huge huge difference.

    If it takes you 15-20 minutes to get turned on..you aren't developed to just look at something and be all turned on about it.
     
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    I couldn't date anyone shorter than me, it would just feel weird - like I was their mother or something. What the other women have said is correct, we feel safe and protected with a taller man. I'm sure this goes back to cavemen times.
     
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    Perhaps now that you are in your 50's, or is it 60's :confused: you just aren't as attractive. Speaking as a woman who likes tall men and is not turned off by baldness. Tall and old or aged is not a turn on for me.

    Perhaps I'm not or perhaps it's more in my mind. But if you consider me aged I'm very happy to not be a turn on for you. :)
     
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    Yea Grower, I agree. That was very rude. Why would someone feel the need to say that?
     
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    First thing I look at is eyes am 5-5 and date guys 5-10 plus just seems to happen.
     
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    Tall men just seem to like me. I'm 5'3" and ex-husband was 6'4", two previous finances 6'3".

    I like tall men for their big hands. I have a hand fetish and haven't been with a tall man with small hands. My tallest was 6'11'/7' depending on which media guide/team he played for. I loved how his hands could palm my ass like a basketball and completely encircle my waist.

    In my experience, the tall guys have average or large penises but never small ones. So, that's a bonus too.
     
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    I think there's a double standard here dealing with height discrimination. It is acceptable for a woman to turn down a guy based on height (something they CAN'T control) but it is considered rude for men to complain to a woman or turn them down based on weight (something they CAN control).
    Tell a woman she's fat and you'll probably get slapped.