Attraction to tall men...

[poizen-ivy]

I think an ugly "entitled" and angst ridden personality is more off putting than a mans lack of height.

Amen, sista!

 

[modest123]

Race is a biological reality - but the powers that be are intentionally manipulating things in order to create as much violence, mayhem and chaos as possible for their own purposes. The intense promotion of black males is just one part of the larger scheme. In fact, it is so pervasive that people don't even notice it any more.

It is unfortunate that the media and the elitists have brainwashed people into separating us into races, parties, morphs, and sizes and we can't just accept the fact we are just human beings and look past all that. I think nice guys stand a better chance in a more unified circle of human beings than a segregated one. For more than a decade, I had to endure the "Asians have small dicks" myth until sites like these proved otherwise. For those wondering why I work out instead of change my attitude, I do it for myself and for the sports I play I must stay fit. This world and it's attitude can change because now we have a countermeasure which is the internet but it will take lots of patience and if it ups my game, I'm willing to wait until I am gray.

 

[deleted15807]

Race is a biological reality - but the powers that be are intentionally manipulating things in order to create as much violence, mayhem and chaos as possible for their own purposes. The intense promotion of black males is just one part of the larger scheme. In fact, it is so pervasive that people don't even notice it any more.

You are simply pining your lack of success on tall men and black men. They are scapegoats. I know so many Asian men and they don't have a problem attracting a mate at all. The issue is not 'the powers that be' Start with the Man In The Mirror.

The intense promotion of black males is just one part of the larger scheme.

Now that is simply preposterous. You should take off 'the victim glasses'. You will be able to see things more clearly.

 

[dolfette]

it's ok for some guys to prefer blonde hair but it's racist for some girls to prefer dark skin?

i don't see a difference. you're not racist for not being sexually attracted to certain physical characteristics. you're only racist if you allow those characteristics to shape your opinions of them as a person. there's a difference.

 

[modest123]

"Dark skin"? Nobody said anything about skin color; I'm as dark as some blacks and certainly as dark as many Mexicans. East Asians are often darker than many American blacks - and yet we don't see white women flocking to them, nor do we see the media promoting them as much as they do black men.

I agree that some women are naturally attracted to certain traits such as race (or even skin color, as you put it) but what we have here is massive brain-washing and weak-willed women falling for it. It is clear that such women are not masters of their own desires. Rather, they are fed a constant diet of "black man = big dick", "black man = more macho", "black man = smarter", "black man = more cool", "black man = better dancer", "black man = better athlete", "black man = more confident", "black man = better leader". And so, like lemmings, they do as they are told - and this does not command respect.

it's ok for some guys to prefer blonde hair but it's racist for some girls to prefer dark skin?

i don't see a difference. you're not racist for not being sexually attracted to certain physical characteristics. you're only racist if you allow those characteristics to shape your opinions of them as a person. there's a difference.

 

[dolfette]

i'm amazed that someone with such a low opinion of women would bother dating them at all.
i'd be amazed if someone with such a low opinion of women got the chance to date at all too.

 

[B_625girth]

at 6'5" I can tell you that some women love tall men, and others are intimidated by us for no other reason than our height. and some women hate because you are tall, I am also slender, and I sometimes catch the rath of women who are jealous or they give me shit because they think I am cocky and arrogant because of my looks. they jump to conclusions shortly after meeting me. I am not that way at all. I was once introduced by my gf to one of her girl friends who just immediately jumped on my case. made me feel totally ill at ease, and a short evening. that chick and myself never got along. she had an instant dislike for me immediately.

 

[dolfette]

at 6'5" I can tell you that some women love tall men, and others are intimidated by us for no other reason than our height. and some women hate because you are tall, I am also slender, and I sometimes catch the rath of women who are jealous or they give me shit because they think I am cocky and arrogant because of my looks. they jump to conclusions shortly after meeting me. I am not that way at all. I was once introduced by my gf to one of her girl friends who just immediately jumped on my case. made me feel totally ill at ease, and a short evening. that chick and myself never got along. she had an instant dislike for me immediately.

lol, i read 6'5'' and just think neck ache!!
all that arching up and standing on tiptoe.

you're right, doll.
no matter how people look there'll be someone who'll give them shit for it.

 

[mako shark]

The flip side of being tall and 220lbs is that many men feel like they have something to prove when they see you. You can't imagine how many times I get the "macho/challenging" stare on the street.

 

[spidergrrrl]

I've wondered if one of the reasons women tend to like tall men is that they assume that a tall man also has a larger penis. On the other hand, my personal experience is that most women really do not get excited over a large penis. Given the stereotype (fed by the porn industry and others) about black men, I also wonder if women who prefer black men assume that those men have larger penises. If so, then you can imagine the frustration of a non-black non-tall guy who is well endowed - but has no way of showing this off in a socially acceptable way. In any case, nobody would believe me without seeing it, but no woman ( who is looking for such a thing) would see it without believing me. So it's a catch 22.

I wouldn't make the assumption that a tall man has a larger penis. My ex-husband was 6'2" and hung like a mouse. A guy I dated last year was 5'8" with an 8" penis. *shrug* And being that I'm 4'10", height is relative. I don't single out guys of a particular height to approach. And more often than not, it's the taller guys (6' and up) that approach me.

 

[B_Marius567]

I am 6'5" and I can not find a woman.

 

[D_Duane Pipe]

...and if you think i'm shallow for turning you down? remind yourself why you asked me, and not the plain girl next to me.

Bingo!!! Exactly!!! Dolfette hit the nail right on the head.

This reminds me of something I heard on the radio one time. How it is that we meet how many people throughout our day? Are attracted to and/or show interest in how many of those people? Which means there are people we are showing no attraction and/or interest towards in our daily lives. Thus we all reject how many people in a day? Point being, we all reject people everday.

 

[RawDog]

you're only racist if you allow those characteristics to shape your opinions of them as a person. there's a difference.

Oh my god, I'm in love! I just love how your mind works.

lol, i read 6'5'' and just think neck ache!!

LOL?? Ok, the LOL'ing was a dealbreaker. Scratch my first line.

 

[Stephan78]

I am 196 cm tall, and I also like tall women, although all my serious relationships had to do with women way shorter than me.

 

[RawDog]

The flip side of being tall and 220lbs is that many men feel like they have something to prove when they see you. You can't imagine how many times I get the "macho/challenging" stare on the street.

At 6'6" & 280 lbs I've never gotten that.

I do like it when taller women (5'10" and taller) come up to my chin, look up, smile and comment on my height. (I hate being so conscious about my nose hair in those circumstances though.)

Yes, I do get the stigma that just because I'm tall I'm supposed to have a large cock. I try explaining to women height isn't proportional to length. Girth, maybe, but not length.

I hate it when women use me for my body. They take me back to their place and ask me to change their lightbulbs.

One last thing... I hate having big hands!!! My dick looks so tiny.

 

[poizen-ivy]

I hate having big hands!!! My dick looks so tiny.

That's why you get a short, cutie to hold your cock. Smaller hands

 

[Calboner]

I hate it when women use me for my body. They take me back to their place and ask me to change their lightbulbs.

:biglaugh: Did you copy that from somebody or do you do stand-up comedy?

 

[RawDog]

:biglaugh: Did you copy that from somebody or do you do stand-up comedy?

Neither! It's the sad truth.

I got told once, "Gosh, you are big!"

Looking down, I replied, "Dammit, is my fly open?"

 

[B_Artful Dodger]

6'1" here. Its a nice height to be I think... Not too tall, not too short :smile:

 

[Kayden96]

All very sadly true. At 5'6", I can personally attest to it.
True story: my songwriting partner is 6'5". Whenever we're together attempting conversation with others (usualy other men) he has be careful to keep his voice soft for fear of intimidating people - whereas I have to always raise my voice just to get people to acknowledge my presence!
As for attraction, I'm generally always attracted to taller men. I just attribute it to "opposites attract".

I thought I was the only one that did that. It's gotten to the point where I don't even think about it. My voice only drops when I'm angry or otherwise distracted. It really confuses people that haven't heard me speak "normally". I suppose normal is a relative term though as my normal voice isn't my natural voice.