Attraction to tall men...

[Irish]

One last thing... I hate having big hands!!! My dick looks so tiny.

I wouldn't say I hate having big hands, but it does seem strange when I take pics (for this site, anyway). I always thought it was unreal when people talked about cocks they couldn't get their hand the whole way around because I would envision a cock I couldn't get my hand around... which would be a cock that made a horse feel small. Thumb to pinky measures over 10" on my hands. I can almost entirely conceal a can of soda from view by holding it like I'm going to take a drink from it. Turns out this is uncommon. Who knew?

On the bright side my fiance and I really like the way my hands can cover nearly her entire body (see: torso) and how I can touch her nearly everywhere at once.

I'm sure I've mentioned it before, but at 6'3" I've never really felt tall, just taller than most everyone in whatever room I happen to be in. For males in my family 6'3" is right around average height, and I have a large enough family to get a really skewed perspective.

The ladies I've been with have commented on how they feel safe/secure/protected with me, and have made various other comments on my height and hand size, but I've never felt that any of these things were determining factors - more like bonuses.

Women like me because I'm super cool (obviously). Being tall, making them feel feminine/petite/secure/etc, and being fairly well endowed is like the icing on the cake.

I suppose I could be wrong, - I'm a horrible read - but that's how it's always come across to me.

I thought I was the only one that did that. It's gotten to the point where I don't even think about it. My voice only drops when I'm angry or otherwise distracted. It really confuses people that haven't heard me speak "normally". I suppose normal is a relative term though as my normal voice isn't my natural voice.

A lot of things like that eventually become second nature, but it's usually hilarious when one slips. I have "crazy eyes." Every now and again someone surprises me when I think I'm alone and they get really anxious and/or worried when they see my face for the second it takes me to try to hide it.

 

[AlphaMale]

:biglaugh: Did you copy that from somebody or do you do stand-up comedy?

Is Calboner back???

 

[Kayden96]

A lot of things like that eventually become second nature, but it's usually hilarious when one slips. I have "crazy eyes." Every now and again someone surprises me when I think I'm alone and they get really anxious and/or worried when they see my face for the second it takes me to try to hide it.

Hahaha... I tend to think a lot and my thinking face seems to resemble consternation because I've had many people ask me what I was so mad about. My default expression is very stern unless I'm talking with someone, then I'm generally smiling. Unfortunately, not many people want to strike up a conversation with someone they think is scowling. :redface:

 

[dolfette]

Oh my god, I'm in love! I just love how your mind works.



LOL?? Ok, the LOL'ing was a dealbreaker. Scratch my first line.

ha!

last week i started a thread on another board, requesting the word lol be auto replaced with *** by the admin.
some people seemed to think i was being a bit pissy...
since then i've been making a point to use it.

could be worse. could be lololol. laugh out loud out loud out loud?

 

[deleted15807]

Let it all out modest123. Any other group you would like to blame for your failures?

.......they are fed a constant diet of "black man = big dick", "black man = more macho", "black man = smarter", "black man = more cool", "black man = better dancer", "black man = better athlete", "black man = more confident", "black man = better leader".

 

[dolfette]

Is this what you mean:

nope.

 

[deleted15807]

Retracted

 

[D_lkjhgfdsa1234]

I apologize to all I angered in this thread as I am in a better mood today and didn't mean to take it out on you guys and gals. Last week sucked ass for me because as I said there was one of those days the guys outnumbered the gals in the clubs and bars and they rejected me and called me a "wimp" and "inadequate" and I need to get checked out for those trigger words. I also don't like to be implied as inadequate as some ladies think shorter men cannot give them security and that is false. However, I am here to prove otherwise on behalf of the other short guys.
I also realized that men over 6'5" have the reverse problem after reading hungshyman's post. It is unfortunate that there are these prejudices that prevent some guys from happiness. I guess the best thing for any guy too short or too tall to do is keep looking and if nothing comes along by the time you are gray, try other countries or states. My retired, divorced, and unemployed friends moved to other countries to find love because they couldn't find love here so there is hope for all that are prejudiced. Great places to look for a wife are Mexico, Phillipines, mainland China, Brazil, Czech Republic, and Dominican Republic. They marry men twice their age. If I missed any place they do have some good girls also but I found these to be the most humble and the best chances with.

 

[RawDog]

some people seemed to think i was being a bit pissy...
since then i've been making a point to use it.

Yeah, well, stop it. You're harshing my mellow, dude.

 

[dolfette]

Yeah, well, stop it. You're harshing my mellow, dude.

it's ironic when i do it.

 

[deleted15807]

nope.

On second thought it is what it is. That stream of consciousness is nothing but the R word.

 

[overflow]

Tall men instantly turn my head, the first thing that comes into my mind when i see a tall man is "Holy shit, how fun it would be to climb to the top." I dont need to be with someone tall, but when i see a big tall man, i can help thinking of how strong he must be. That's just the feeling i get.

 

[303771]

I was blessed with height, probably due to my Icelandic heritage, but was skinny throughout my teens, and figured I would stay that way. At 20, I blew up in weight (fat unfortunately), then about a year ago I started hitting the gym hard. I am now 6'4, 225lb, 12% body fat, and though I don't consider myself that attractive, I still manage to draw looks and find attractive partners.

Small men are also assholes to me, and try to fight more often than not (at bars, etc). It fucking tires me to deal with them in those scenarios, so I can be a bit biased in general.

 

[D_lkjhgfdsa1234]

Perhaps those small men are jealous that the women in the bar are more drawn to you than them. 6'4" is not too tall. Anything over 6'5" or under 5'7" is the range women want. Heck, if I am succeeding with a woman and about to score then you walk in and draw her attention away from me, I'd be pissed at you for ruining my chances with her. You'd be a threat to all small folks.

 

[D_Hepsibah Salmonbreath]

Ok, here is what i have notice in my short time here on this earth.

Women are not a visual type for the most part. That is why they are more geared towards romance novels. men can read them and come out with a very different veiw on what it was about. women can hear you talking not even seeing you and know they have an atraction to you. looks do help but not as much as personality. take for example david spade. he is short but he is a very VERY likable guy. such a good personality. very salt of the earth kind of person.

Confadance. this is where it seems. mind you i said it seems like blk guys have that advantage over many other races. black guys are in general more confadant that many other races. they do not mind saying what they think to a woman. having the steriotypes there does not hurt as well but. you have to step up your confadance and be able to follow through with what you say. if you tell her you can stand on the stage at the bar and hold an erection for 30 min then you best be able to do it.

women will put things with other things. okay so you got the look and you had the talking down but, you are at the bar and all you have done is buy her a drink and sat down to talk. not bad you have already gotten further that some of your less confadant counterparts. now you have to get her visual to go with her all powerful thoguht process. she wants to see you dance. in her mind if you can dance (hold rythem move with the beat know what you are doing) you are good in bed.

you dont need a monster dick (nice if you have one no doubt) but, women are able to do so much with so little.

it boils down to one thing.

women want to be able to be themself and all of them are attracted to different things. there is no formula. there is no set things. there is just her you and figuring out what those things are that flips the switch in her mind to say you know what i like this guy. how you do that is going to work with just that one. for any others you are going to have to do things differently than you did woth that one.

now isnt that a ot more fun to do than reading all these books on how to get women. just go out there and be yourself (you can do that a lot more easily than not being yourself) and try to win her with the mind and not the body. hers that is her mind and your body. use your mind and body but try to win her mind first. yes i know the body looks good we went to her right.

 

[dolfette]

confident. confidence.

 

[D_Hepsibah Salmonbreath]

sorry i am not the best speller.

hukded on foniks bib not werk fer mee

 

[dolfette]

:biggrin1: ok, i laughed!

 

[D_Hepsibah Salmonbreath]

good good thats what i was trying for thank you for letting me know.

i am being serious so dont think i am trying to be an ass.

 

[whatireallywant]

I hate it when women use me for my body. They take me back to their place and ask me to change their lightbulbs.

I have a kind of funny story about something similar. My longest-term relationship was with a 6'2" guy, and when we would go to the grocery store sometimes I'd want something that was too high for me to reach and I'd say "I need the assistance of a tall person here"! The funny part is that later on, I was at the grocery store by myself, and a very short woman (a lot shorter than me, and I'm 5'3") asked me to reach something SHE couldn't reach, and said something about me being tall enough to reach it! (and I was...)

I've also been known to say "Height isn't as important as length and girth". :biggrin1: Most of the guys I've dated have been tall, but I didn't plan it that way. It just happened that way. I have been known to seek out hung guys (online - I want to do that tactfully, I'm not going to reject someone I meet at random for being average or even small - that's just rude. Plus I have my own body image issues so I can understand...)

I'm actually not so much into feeling "protected". That never enters my mind when I go after a guy I'm attracted to. I'm mostly thinking "He's attractive" or "He's hung", but never "I feel protected".

As for what I notice first, it's difficult to notice the cock right away because it's hidden under clothing and then the whole grower/shower deal. So that's why a lot of us notice the face first (I've been known to go crazy for a nice ass though!)