average penis size women EXPERIENCE

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  1. john20007

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    Hi guys.
    I registered here years ago but this is my first post. Maybe we could have an objective discussion, I would be happy to hear your opinions.

    I certainly don't want to offend or discourage anyone with this topic, but I have been thinking for a while about this question: "what is the average size women EXPERIENCE?"
    I am only talking about the average "modern" woman, with a healthy sex life, who has had several partners if you know what I mean...

    Myself I am a bit above average size in both length and girth, and I have made some gains with PE, thanks to another great community, but I had not always pleasurable experiences.

    - There are many guys, here included, who believe that average size is bigger than we think, because all women seem to have had a big one or many bigger ones. This is my experience too. Womens view of average, which is based on personal experience, is undoubtedly different from the statistical average, and in my case they seem to think that I am on the smaller side rather than above average. We all know that they mostly don't understand what an inch is, but they know exactly how it looked and felt in size.. And its like they just expect a certain size, especially the younger girls nowadays.

    - On another forum, a well known poster wrote about a guy he knew who was 10x7, and who had sex with 1000+ girls. That is extreme, but I also know several big guys who had more girls than their fair share. I think it is hard to dispute that the big guys get around. There are many reasons for this, the most significant being confidence, which carries on into so many other for-this-topic-relevant aspects.
    Also many women are just curious or want to have the "prize dick", and in contrast to that there are not many girls who would like to have a small guy, if they could choose, no matter how little importance they place on the subject.
    On Size-Survey there is a statistic about "number of sexual partners per year according to self-ranked endowment status". According to that, "well-endowed" guys have 7-8 partners/year compared to 3-4 partners/year for "average" and "modest" guys . Following that logic and adding two more categories for "big" (8x6 - lets say 10 partners/year) and "small" (5x4 - lets say 2 partners/year), that alone would push the average size women experience massively.

    - Another factor would be height. It is known that women prefer taller men, and according to different statistics taller guys are bigger on average. One survey called "Penis Size and Women's satisfaction" includes these numbers:
    1,63m -> 6,1 inches
    1,83m -> 6,6 inches
    1,98m -> 7,2 inches

    - I think all of this is depressing enough, but there could be even more factors, some of which are just assumptions and might have no basis, some of which would be only applicable in specific cases.. For example one could assume that well-groomed guys who are fit are more likely to get more girls and have a bigger size than someone who has two inches unavailable in his belly. Or if the girl frequents the party scene and/or has one-night-stands the assumed experienced size is likely to increase. Also the biggest guys I saw were actually amateurs in videos or in the real world, and not porn stars. Furthermore the media plays a big role, and women's sexual desires are much more accepted nowadays...

    Now I don't know how to calculate all this out properly, but my estimation is that the average penis size women experience nowadays might definitely be in the range of 7x5,5 inches, if we assume that the statistical average is 6x5 (some surveys have it higher, a few ones lower, but this seems to be the most accepted number)

    With all this I am not implying by any means that all girls want a huge cock, choose by size or anything like that. But it is clear to me that what women perceive as average is easily above average according to our understanding. And if you are statistically "average" chances are that a woman with average sexual experience will consider one smallish/below average, simply based on probabilities because of the reasons I mentioned.

    What do you think? Any opinions or experiences?
     
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    I like statistics , all kinds but are you not putting to much thought in all of the above ? That was mind boggleing..
     
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    are you some kind of idiot? i'm sure the average size as experienced by women is slightly larger than the actual average because micro penis guys don't get around as much as hung guys. but you think the experienced average is 2 inches bigger than the actual average? only in porn
     
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    No idea what the average size women experience is, but I'd definitely agree with the notion it is higher than whatever the average dick size is.
     
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    Are you pulling numbers out of your asshole?

    The average number of partners for men in their LIFETIME is 7 partners.

    Average man sleeps with 7 women - Health - Sexual health | NBC News
     
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    If the number of average lifetime partners was 7 (which is really a low estimate nowadays) it still wouldnt change the situation. And what is mind boggling? Since when is the average size 5 inches? I noted where my information is from, and you are free to correct me and state your opinion. I know it is hard and probably uncomfortable for some people to even consider the basic idea of my post, but keep your frustration for yourselves please. No need to get insulting because you are insecure, stupid or both. I was just hoping for a constructive discussion.....
     
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    Yes, and the average breast size is actually larger than the reported average, because only the big ones get motorboated.
     
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    since just about every non-self reported survey
     
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    In my experience the dick size i encounter most often is about 5 inches and not particularly thick however, in the last 5 years i have been sleeping with 20 somethiing guys and have noticed that many more of them have much bigger dicks. I may just be lucky, who knows? As a side note, guys are getting shorter. Most every guy i see these days is about 5'8". Doesn't bother me but some of them are uncomfortable when they realise i'm the same height in heels.
     
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    Whle the idea is probably reasonable, given that the latest generation if people are much more likely to engage in casual sex than any previous generation so the experienced average of penis probably would increase, it seemes unlikely it's anything like 8 x 6 everyone claims it is.
    Also that one guy sleeping with 1000+women is probably an exception, I doubt all men with big dicks routinely sleep with hundreds and hundreds of women.
     
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    You're using those statistics like they were taken from a pool of ten men. Statistics are bigger than that, and the average size penis that women experience is probably he average size penis. If everyone with a micro penis abstained from sex then the number would hardly change because of there are so few men with micro penises.
     
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    Average stays average, but it's normal that some women had a big one, or bigger ones.
    Some statistics.
    Based on the average of the Lifestyle Condom study ( that study has an high average - just below 6" )
    7" or more = 7,0995% or about 1 in 14.
    When a person had 7 sexpartners in a lifetime the probability of having at least 1 of 7" or more is 50%.
    Just the chance of flipping a coin.

    The probability raises with more partners, but then again also the probability raises for encountering a very small one.

    For the so desired 8" or more it's harder to get 1 : 0.3272% or about 1 in 306.
    For the same probability (50% chance) of having at least 1 of 8" or more he/she has to have 153 partners. ( not many of us are having that number of partners )

    The more sexpartners - the closer you get to the statistical average for your average.
    The less partners - the chance is big that you are far with your average from the statistical average. (example only 1 bedpartner of 4"; your average is 4" - only 2 bedpartners 1of6.5", 1of7" - your average is 6.75")

    So what we experience as average is our average - and this average is also infected by the media ( internet porn nowadays or this site for example).
    So what a person experience as average is individual, but the more you see peni ( as partner - but also like nudist beach, sauna, but not porn ) the closer you will get to the statistical average ( somewhere between 5" and 6" )
     
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    Is there some way to factor in the fact that women don't choose their sexual partners at random? The bigger guys probably get around more thanks to word of mouth.
     
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    I don't think that on average a women choose a sexual partner based on some words regarding a penis. Neither sex quality.
    The only thing that can play a minor roll is height, weight. ( There is a small correlation between height and body parts - like the penis; overweight guys have a more pronounced fatpad )
    As a penis is mostly not visible - they pick - so to say - the dicks randomly.
     
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    I can assure you that when a friend tells me she met a guy with a big dick, it does not spur me on to find him and sleep with him. Infact i would specifically not sleep with him if a friend had. Plus i like dick size to be a surprise.
     
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    The probabilty is matematical not correct - it was just a quick calc.

    To calculate the probabilty to have at least 1 of 7" or more - we must calculate the "none" - so the less than 7"

    For 1 partner probabilty of none = 92.9005% so 1 = 7.0995%
    For 2 partners none = 92.9005% x 92.9005%= 86.3050% so at least 1 of 7"= 13.6950%
    For 3 partners none = 80.1778% or 19.8222% for at least 1 of 7" or more
    For 4 partners none = 74.4856% or 25.5144% for at least 1 of 7"
    For 5 partners none = 69.1975% or 30.8025% for at least 1 of 7"
    For 6 partners none = 64.2848% or 35.7152% for at least 1 of 7"
    For 7 partners none = 59.7209% or 40.2791% for at least 1 of 7"
    For 8 partners none = 55.4810% or 44.5190% for at least 1 of 7"
    For 9 partners none = 51.5421% or 48.4579% for at least 1 of 7" or more

    So for the 8" it's a higher number of sexpartners than 153 needed to have the same probability to flip a coin.

    Just to be correct.

    Note : the probability of having none of 7" or more after 30 sexpartners ( 10.9784% ) is higher than having on the first encounter 1 of 7" or more ( 7.0995% )
    And this based on a study that has an high average, as they picked not the dicks randomly, but worked with volunteers.
     
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    So it's more like 10 partners for a 50% chance of sleeping with a 7"?
    and a higher number than 153 for 8"? like 160 or something?
     
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    Correct.
    For 10 partners 52.1171% chance of having a 7" or more.
    For 8" it would be in the direction of +200...

    Note : And the number goes sky high, when you calculate more than 1. As some have here multiple encounters of double digits, they must have seen millions of erected peni. Or their eyes are failing...

    PS : There are more 5"-ers than any other. ( class from 5".00 to 5.99"). So on average you will see those the most in your lifetime.
     
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    All this math hurts. I will tell you what I do know. I won't be the biggest guy or smallest she has had, but at my size I have never heard any complaints and there are repeat performances. Therefore I must be a good size and doing something's right.
     
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    If that's the case, then I must be 1 in 1,000,000 or more:wink:. But in all seriousness, I think too many people today think that porn is the golden standard to compare size with. Just because these women can take the top !% of cocks doesn't mean they enjoy it or every guy has to be compared to them. Its unrealistic to think most women would want a "porn like stud". From my experience, most women don't want a guy who's gonna tear them apart.