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So.. I've always wondered this about gay guys, especially bottoms.

If you've had sex for a long time, your asshole is bound to be stretched out, as I've seen in MANY gay porn.

If I were gay, this would not be attractive. I've seen holes where the guy doesn't even blink when another guy puts a big cock in him because the hole is the size of a grown man's fist.

How do gay men deal with stretched out holes?
 

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Your anal cavity and anus is made for stretching. Every time you make a bowel movement, those muscles relax, allow for the stretching (aka opening) that needs to take place for you to successfully go to the bathroom.

Anal sex is no different. I had sex a couple times last night and I'm already "back to normal". The only thing that you have to be weary of is taking those muscles for granted. Frequent sex, without proper foreplay and lube may yield longer time periods before it gets back to its previous state.

Also, inserting very large things over a period of time may stretch you out with more "permanent" affects, but this is usually people who fist, use very large toys or things along that path. Then you run into rosebuds, prolapses, etc.

I can say, a good anal gape can be very sexy, but don't worry, there are plenty of men who have plenty of sex and are quite fine. :)
 

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By the time two guys get to have sex in porn, the bottom has already been prepped for it off screen. Thus, the taking of cock without a blink.

As for everything else, what FallenAngel said. The only guys who have any permanent effect are those who regularly fist and take huge toys and such.
 

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Some guys keep stretching and stretching and stretching and stretching until all that will satisfy them is a fist or a gigantic dildo. To each his own. Personally, I want to stay tight enough that an average sized dick will get me off.
 

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OP, you are operating on a premise that, if it were true, dancers and acrobats, who have hamstring muscles stretched out far more than the average person, would have muscles too ruined to walk properly because of how stretched those leg muscles are. If anything you gain greater control the more your hole is stretched out. I can take two cocks at once, xtra large toys and hands, but I can still grip an average size cock with the best of them. As a bottom, I love seeing guys with big holes.
 

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So.. I've always wondered this about gay guys, especially bottoms.

If you've had sex for a long time, your asshole is bound to be stretched out, as I've seen in MANY gay porn.

If I were gay, this would not be attractive. I've seen holes where the guy doesn't even blink when another guy puts a big cock in him because the hole is the size of a grown man's fist.

How do gay men deal with stretched out holes?

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this is a fun thread for me. I am a Masochist-bottom, so do not mind extreme anal play. I can say yes over time with repeated streaching one can become loose. However, Most dudes' buttholes will go back to normal. It is a popular misconception that after one time, something can get (blown out). . that only comes from extreme anal play over a long time. I have some very large toys. . and if I know Im gonna have a fuck date with a dude over 12 inches in length or extreme girth I will (practice) to prepare for a guy. . But much like AlexDB9, most of the time my ass is in the normal catagory. . I just have the ability to bottom for horse-size. . LOL

Mr. Slave.
 

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Your anus was made as an exit, so if you put unnecessary stress on it, as in having power anal sex, then after many years it will start to detach from the anal wall inside the anal cavity. This is written up in any medical journal you want to check.