Big Penis, Virgin, Tips

Discussion in 'Show Off' started by stunner, Sep 22, 2006.

  1. stunner

    stunner New Member

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    Hi, I haven't had sex before but I do have a very large penis. I really want to impress the gal my first time and have my performance live up to my size. I'm just here looking for tips from the guys who've done it already. Anything I should pay attention to, movement & position tips, speed, ambience? Anything that caught you off gaurd, any secrets?
     
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    My only advice would be to not focus on your dick at all. Focus on the girls body, find her pleasure spots and really turn her on (when you have a big dick, they need to be really wet).

    After she's begging you to penetrate her.... just do it. For sexual positions, if you've watched a few porn movies you'll know what to do. Every girl has their own preference, if she wants something specific, go for it.
     
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    So would "studying" porn flicks be a good idea?
     
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    My advice would be simply don't think about it. There's no way you can rehearse it, because you don't know how it will happen. So, when it does happen, all you can do is go with it. If you're big, she'll be impressed with the size (even if she doesn't remark on it -- my first girlfriend didn't), so you can relax on that front. Just enjoy the experience and have fun. Good luck.
     
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    Um no, this is real life and size and performance have nothing to do with eachother. Just go for it, you need to be more concerned on pleasuring her than what she thinks of your dick or how youre doing.
     
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    Thanks everyone. You're right, I do have a bit of anxiety. I should just relax.
     
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    I know what you mean though, i was soooo nervous my frist time. but afterwards youll feel like a million bucks.
     
  8. Mr. Snakey

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    Relax! Make sure she is relaxed. Make sure you have lube. But the most important thing is to turn the lights out:rolleyes:
     
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    Your right about the lube but i think being dark might make it even harder to figure out what youre doing:rolleyes:
     
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    All you need is that one eye to see in the dark!:tongue:
     
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    ....and make sure you're wear a big rubber
     
  12. Mr. Snakey

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    Yes!:wink:
     
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    I was scared the first time I had sex--I was alone!
     
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    Hi,

    it sounds like good advice the lads have give you.
    What age are you and when will you be losing it?
    Does she know you're a virgin?
    sean
     
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    The first time is a bit worrying - especially if she has done it before and you haven't. But try not to worry. The most important thing, I think, is to make sure you're in a situation where nobody's going to disturb you. Then you can take it slow. Keep the lights low. Don't whip your cock out and confront her with it. Far better to undress each other over a period of half an hour or so. Pay attention to the body parts that are offered to you. Kiss her a lot. Make it fun and sensuous rather than serious and cool. Don't zoom in on her tits or pussy straight away. Kiss her feet, her neck, her back, etc. first. Then she'll be turned on long before she gets to your cock. Get her to help you put on the condom - that way she'll be reassured it's on properly - that'll help her to relax. If you really are big in the penis department and she's inexperienced it might be a good idea if you lie on your back and let her climb on top. That way she can stay in control. I seriously doubt that you will need lube. If she's young and fit and turned on she'll be plenty slippery. If she's not slippery then either she's terrified or she doesn't really fancy you: Either way, back off. Kiss her. Talk to her. Take more time. (You can always see if she's ready to try it another day.) Let her know that the most important thing to you is her happiness. Only procede after she's given you eye contact and reassures you that she really wants to. Then go gently.
    Let us know how it goes. Best of luck.
    Riven650
     
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    Sounds like my first post... Sadly Ive yet to have sex so I cant help much. But if you want some advice go to Womens Issues and look for my post called Im Curious. Theres a lot of advice from people there.
     
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    just a thought, what did everyone do before the internet? I think that Riven650 has given the best insight to this. Dude, just take it slow and trust me, it will come natural just like a baby who learns to walk, talk and go potty all by themself. btw, you never mentioned if she was a virgin that can make even more difference on some advice that we can give.
     
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    My name is Cam and...I'm a virgin too.

    Yeah, it's true. Never done it but my time is coming *wink*. Just waiting to make my move.

    For someone in the same position I'm not worrying about it and I doubt that you should either my friend. It's completely irrational to be all hung up about this; you should be having fun with the experience not having performance anxiety!

    You'll find that going with the flow is much more "natural" than trying to make something up. Your body knows what it wants...just don't be afraid of it I guess. PS. I have no idea where this is coming from...it's just what I plan on doing myself.

    ;-)
     
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    Disagree with the people here who say you can't prep for sex. Before I had sex I had read Joy of Sex and probably a dozen other books on how to please a woman. Not all advice is good and some is contradictary but I think it's great to have a "playbook", ideas to to work from idea of different things that can happen. Don't panic. Remember sex is "play" so don't take anything too seriously. If mess up you still learrn and you can always go again in 15-20 minutes.

    Do kegel exercises, practice breathing, holding back from cumming/plateauing, read about how different women like oral sex in various ways. Still, don't be mechanical or afraid to letgo.

    I'm almost always told I'm the best she's had (unsolicited). My first partner was experienced but refused to belive it was my first time. So experience can be "faked" IMO.
     
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    Hi Stretcher74 -- your don't say how long your dick is, but it is really a thing of beauty. I wish mine was as long as yours. I am sure you will give any female you are with quite a thrill, if you just take your time and don't rush things. Nicer