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Hey guys,

I know that I'm not gay (i don't like to fuck a guy or stuff like that), well atleast I think I'm not, but still i have these fantasies of sucking a guys dick.

Does any other straight guy had this fantasies or actually did suck another guy?
Does it mean I'm gay or at least a bit??

Lebron
 

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Gay = homosexual = sexually attracted to same sex

Therefore:

Man wanting to be sexually active with man = homosexual.

By the definition of gay, wanting to be sexually active with someone of the same sex would be gay, yes. If you maintain the attraction to the opposite sex, then you're bisexual.

It's not like it's something you have to resist or be ashamed of. Don't worry about labels. Just be you.
 

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Yes, do forget about putting yourself in some slot. But, if you are ever to come near to realizing your fantasy you should be open to friendship with another male. Friends have a way at times of becoming more than friends and if you give yourself permission you may find that the bond between you and a male friend is so deep and strong that you have reached the point where you both want and need sexual expression. The sex in that situation will seem natural and right and both of you may realize that you have uncovered a part of your sexuality which you had simply dismissed as impossible before.

IMHO when you know that you can enjoy and sustain a loving and fully sexual relationship with another male your whole perspective on human sexuality is immensely enriched. You may find that your dominant side is still heterosexual and that is also quite normal, but you will always carry with you an experience which eludes most men: you will know the value of genuine bonding with another man.
 

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Thanks guys for the responses so far.

The thing is I'm attracted to women and not men (currently i have i girlfriend). I just have this fantasy of once sucking a guys dick. I think its more of a experience thing whats in my head.
 

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Do you think you could be having this fantasy because you consider sucking another man's cock as taboo? Could it just be the thrill of doing something you're not "supposed" to do?
Besides, you may try it and find out it wasn't that great. Or you may find it nice. You'll never know until you do it.
I say don't get hung up on labels. I've said this before in another discussion but sometimes sex isn't about gender but can be just be about giving pleasure and getting pleasure and it shouldn't matter who your doing it with.
 

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Thanks guys for the responses so far.

The thing is I'm attracted to women and not men (currently i have i girlfriend). I just have this fantasy of once sucking a guys dick. I think its more of a experience thing whats in my head.

There's lots of guys here who rate themselves as "99% Straight, 1% Gay", or "90% Straight, 10% Gay". Maybe you fall into one of those categories. It's okay. There are tons of guys like you in the world. Most of them just can't admit it. You're already a step ahead of them. :smile2:
 

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There have been several threads here about guys who consider themselves mostly straight but are attracted to cocks--not guys, just cocks. There's something undeniably appealing about a hard cock--you know right away that the person attached to it is sexually excited, and that may be exciting to you in turn (it certainly is to me). There's nothing wrong with that whatsoever--go with your gut and give it a try. Even if you're mostly straight, it's a nice sidebar--remember, as long as it's consensual, there's no such thing as bad sex.
 
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Maybe get a trans. Chick with a dick. You could even get a real "pretty" one. That way you could suck a dick and not feel it was too much like a dude. I saw a documentary on this. "Straight" guys that would never touch another man in a sexual way end up "marrying" a TS in Thailand, or one of those countries where it is more common.
 

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Hey guys,

I know that I'm not gay (i don't like to fuck a guy or stuff like that), well atleast I think I'm not, but still i have these fantasies of sucking a guys dick.

Does any other straight guy had this fantasies or actually did suck another guy?
Does it mean I'm gay or at least a bit??


Lebron

I think the question you should be asking yourself is why you're asking these questions. Why do you care? If you have this fantasy, really think about what it would mean to go through with it. How would you act were you about to or while you were sucking a dick? If you think it might be nice to try, then try it (as safely as possible of course). You can decide whether or not this is something you'd like to bring your girlfriend into. Have fun with it if you choose to act on your fantasy, or don't act on it and just say it's this stupid thought that pops into your head when you're really aroused or in need of a thrill. :tongue:
 

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Thanks guys for all the replies, really helped.

I think I'm just curious to know how it feels like to suck a dick and taking a cumshot.
Intercourse or even just kissing a guy is def. nothing for me. Strange isn't it?! Only giving a blowjob is something I want to experience.

Has someone maybe had similar fantasies/experiences?
Did you actually do it or left it a fantasy??
What was it like afterwards?

Again guys I have to thank you for all your advices.
 

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Hey guys,

I know that I'm not gay (i don't like to fuck a guy or stuff like that), well atleast I think I'm not, but still i have these fantasies of sucking a guys dick.

Does any other straight guy had this fantasies or actually did suck another guy?
Does it mean I'm gay or at least a bit??

Lebron
Yes, I want to suck my future boyfriend's dick. By the way, I would love to suck Zac Efron, Daniel Radcliffe, Chace Crawford, and Joe Jonas.
 

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I will agree wholeheartedly with the several posters before me that you should not put any emphasis on the gay/bi/straight labels, we're all individuals and there are infinite shades of gray between one extreme and the other. I'm very much like you in that I feel no attraction towards men, the sight of a good looking guy does nothing for me and I have no amorously passionate feelings for guys. But I totally love the purely hedonistic thrill of pleasing a nice-looking cock orally. If you're totally comfortable with the prospect I'd say give it a try as you'll never know until you do. But don't give any thought at all to whether that makes you gay, bi, curious or whatever. What it indicates is only that you're open-minded enough to push past society's barriers and try something new.
 

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I will agree wholeheartedly with the several posters before me that you should not put any emphasis on the gay/bi/straight labels, we're all individuals and there are infinite shades of gray between one extreme and the other. I'm very much like you in that I feel no attraction towards men, the sight of a good looking guy does nothing for me and I have no amorously passionate feelings for guys. But I totally love the purely hedonistic thrill of pleasing a nice-looking cock orally. If you're totally comfortable with the prospect I'd say give it a try as you'll never know until you do. But don't give any thought at all to whether that makes you gay, bi, curious or whatever. What it indicates is only that you're open-minded enough to push past society's barriers and try something new.

Very, very well said :)
 

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Hey guys,

I know that I'm not gay (i don't like to fuck a guy or stuff like that), well atleast I think I'm not, but still i have these fantasies of sucking a guys dick.

Does any other straight guy had this fantasies or actually did suck another guy?
Does it mean I'm gay or at least a bit??

Lebron

I'm the same myself. I'd love to suck somebody off and not attracted to men at all. I'm completely straight. Any porn I look at is straight porn. I've got a girlfriend and I've been with her for a while.

The weird thing is, I couldn't give an ugly (or what I deem to be ugly) man a blow job. He'd have to be decent looking and not fat.
 

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I'm really happy that there are quiet a few guys with the same fantasy like me.

I think if the time, place, mood, etc. is right I will go for it, as some of you guys said. Try it and see if I like it.

How was it for you ( if you had the same fantasy ) after you have done it? How did you feel? Was it how you imganied it would be?