Dayna, first I want to say, that you sound a real slut...but that's not necesarily a bad thing
Not really, more like a nice girl who likes sex, which is very good.
Here is my little peice of advice. There is always going to be something not perfect about whoever you are with. You might find somebody better, or... you might not. That's what you are worried about? If it's really not broken don't fix it
If though, the smaller penis thing really isn't working, move on, and don't feel bad about it. If that is a qualification for you, it is. You couldn't marry a guy with no job, or who treated you like crap. I'd could never marry a white girl who actually liked hip-hop music.
If that's the case, he deserves somebody who really loves him. That's how I would feel.
If though, you do love this guy, and this is something you could work around, do it. If he is a great guy, and there are other reasons that make it a good match, I think most girls would stay. Like I said,nobody is perfect, and you are probably not going to stuble into adonis anytime soon, and find that he is college educated and has a 10 inch penis. Most girls are happy to have a guy who is loves them, doesn't cheam on them, and pays their Home shopping club bill, even if he is kind of a dork. Have you noticed that?
Besides this, your boyfriend having a small penis probably isn't the only sexual issue you are likely to have over the course of a possible 70+ year sexual carreer, no matter who you are with. Whatever happens though, you adapt, and make it work. Jack LaLane, at 92, has regular sex with his wife, and has this to say, "It's all about giving"
Also, I wouldn't be afraid to talk to him about what you like. Maybe I'm a little more experienced and more confident, but I definitely want to hear what I can do to make the whole thing more fun for both of us. Communication is key. That's what every sexpert out there will tell you, and what ultimately the point of every sex book is, and sex site, (like this one) - to get you talking about sex.
Like other posters have said, don't be afraid to try crazy stuff together. In the end, sex with someone you are comfortable to explore with, and love outside the bedroom, is better than the excitment of meeting somebody new, ususally. The longer you are together the more territory there is to explore.
I haven't ever had ta problem problem like you are talking about, but I'll admit I've had some fun with zuchinis on more than one ocasion
So maybe, you are young, and feel like you haven't had enough experience, and need to sniff around a bit more. In that case, since he sounds like a really nice guy, and you don't deserve him. With the proper guidance of friends and family, he;ll get over you in about a year, and meet somebody he can be happy with.
Or maybe you are young, and not sexually experienced, and need more practice on finding out about what you like in the bedroom. If you are, he must be doubly so. Check out the book "She comes first" Sex is a lot more than penis in vagina. I'm thinking the guy who wrote this book had the same problem as your boyfriend, because he is pretty creative.
Oh, by the way I have a friend my age 24 who, is about 6'4, in unbelievably good shape, ex marine, and I'd probably consider one of the best looking guys of my aquaintance. He had joked with me about "not having a hairy monster like you (me-Matt)" but I was pretty surprised when I looked the first time in the gym shower, and noticed he was packing a cocktail frank. (Not cool to laugh)He isn't experienced with girls, and he is a real nice guy, unlike just about every other friend i have, who are real pigs. There is this girl he likes, and you know what he fantasizes about doing with her? Walking with her holding hands, going home and kissing her.
So,I don't know, you decide what kind of guy you want to be with.
Have fun.
Matt
