Boyfriend's Penis is too small

[SurferGirlCA]

Oh ok! Im sorry! Yes i am bad boy! Please no more spanking. I will be a good boy:biggrin1:

Yeah yeah, sure ya will. :tongue:

 

[Skull Mason]

Also, it only makes sense that he is aware of it. A guy knows when he is in tight or not. However, it seems to not be a huge deal to him.
Eric

I think the poor guy was a virgin before her, he probably has no idea and nothing to compare it to. Probably doesn't even know he has a small penis. I still say leave him though. 20 years old, there is still PLENTY of big cock out there for you. Especially in Jersey.

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Yeah yeah, sure ya will. :tongue:

Just tell me sweetheart when i am bad,and i will good Ok?:wink:

 

[Mr. Snakey]

I think the poor guy was a virgin before her, he probably has no idea and nothing to compare it to. Probably doesn't even know he has a small penis. I still say leave him though. 20 years old, there is still PLENTY of big cock out there for you. Especially in Jersey.

Yes come to New Jersey !:tongue:

 

[B_beautifulthings]

You should never tell a guy that his penis is too small. That would totally kill all his self-confidence for a very long time. If you stay with him he will always be jealous on other guys and maybe even leave you. If you leave him he will have BIG troubles to go on and find a new girl.

I don’t think girls can understand how important penis size is for guys. To feel too small is like feeling worthless for most guys. Maybe there are guys that learn to deal with it but then I guess they have to sacrifice a lot of things along that road.

I’m big myself, 8 inch, but the fact that my girlfriend has been with one guy, one night, a long time ago that also was that big has sometimes driving me crazy! I know that it sounds silly!!!! But I have learnt that that is the way almost all men works. We want to be the biggest, and if that is not the situation, we don’t want to hear about it.

- Break up with that guy. You will always feel like something is missing and the lack of satisfaction will cause you two problems anyway. Sex bonds two people in a way that mere companionship doesn't; it raises the bar too. Sex comes with a promise of release that when it doesn't happen leads to a vague u-lied-to- me kinda feeling. He could be the sweetest guy but there are other guys out there equally sweet who can give you an orgasm.

The boy I lost my virginity to was so small it was like a Vienna sausage. We had this totally depressed relationship that I thought was love. he was a "great guy" but eventually we got to the point where i was liable to say any thing to him. there was always something wrong no matter what he bought me or where he took me or how nice a time we were having. he was just kind of a loser even though he had money and a great future. I took a chance and broke up with him even though I'd grown up with catholic ideas of only fucking one man my whole life.

The dude I'm with now is 9 or 10" long and so thick I cant close my index and thumb around it. This man could do porn and i looked in the galleries section and nobody in there is really fucking with him except for this other black man. I can come in any position with him. i have orgasms so intense its like my whole body comes and we've been having sex for 12 years and it still feels like the first time, each time. You deserve that in ur life too, girl. Do u know how easy it is to put up with someone's day to day bullshit when he can make u come three and four times in a row?

And don't listen to the little dick liars with that size doesn't matter shit. When I talk to girls who fuck alot of dudes, they always tell you about how little dicks slip out all the time, you only feel like you came a little bit because u have a really shallow orgasm, if they get wet it doesn't feel like anything and you can't do it in every position because it doesn't reach. Ewww.

 

[socoken]

Sucks to be so shallow, but no one can ask more of you than to listen to your body and your heart. Ive broken up with a girl that would get so wet and so sloppy that i couldnt feel shit. i could pound her for hours and i always ended up jerking off. i asked her to do kegles, but she didnt stick to them, and it never helped. and yeah, when the sex sucks, it filters down into other areas and hurts a relationship deeply. sex matters more to some than others, and thats a compatability issue. shes not wrong for needing a different penis, but she better not say anything about it.

 

[Aplus]

and yeah, when the sex sucks, it filters down into other areas and hurts a relationship deeply. sex matters more to some than others, and thats a compatability issue.

This would be my true worry! When the sex isn't right, I suspect an otherwise great relationship would start to turn sour. As naive and green as he may be now, he's not gonna always be like that. Sooner or later he'll probably start realizing something isn't quite right. And as loving and caring as you may be towards him, another few months or years could make you not so nice with him. And you could also find yourselves both shying away from sex or anything intimate after awhile. Which could be especially tough on him, since us men tend to feel closeness and intimacy through sex.

Not sure I believe people can really remain friends after breaking up, especially over something as nerve-racking as incompatible sex. Would seem better than staying in a almost certain hostile relationship.

Not always as easy to just up and leave someboby, and certainly some can't be as non-chalant as others try to make it sound on here. May sound easy, but it's probably gonna hurt like hell...most likely on more than one level too.

 

[B_starinvestor]

Actually, 5' by 4.5" is slightly below average, not "tiny" If you can't even feel that, you could probably stick a forearm up your vagina. Why don't you ask your boyfriend to engage in intercourse with his forearm? He could pleasure himself with his other hand.

Also, Skull - what would you do if you had a small penis, hang yourself?

 

[feelingfine]

Let me see.....you joined a Large Penis support group today, to tell everyone that although you "love your boyfriend very much" he's too small. I'm not quite sure what the point of your post is and I believe that www.measurection.com is more what you're looking for.


I seriously believe that if you had any feelings for him you would discuss this matter privately and together, not in a large penis forum. I apologize if this comes across as aggressive, it's not meant to be. Just realistic.

I strongly disagree this isn't something you can discuss with a friend in case -as these things tend to do - it makes its way back to him.
I think by coming on here and discussing this matter with strangers who have no idea who she is or who her bf is she is being very discrete and sensitive.

 

[Skull Mason]

If I had a small penis I would make the best of what I got. Also do some PE. Its all in the mind, sometimes, most of the time, deep down I feel like I have a small penis (no matter what its all relative). So in my mind when I fuck I fuck as if I had a 10 inch cock. Its in the attitude.

This also allows me to make up for what I perceive in my mind as 'lacking' by fucking as well as I can and not relying on any size whatsoever or taking it for granted. I work hard to please a woman. I fully engage myself in it. I guess in this way I fuck as if I had a small penis as well. It can be a lethal combination.

 

[novice_btm]

If I had a small penis I would make the best of what I got. ... So in my mind when I fuck I fuck as if I had a 10 inch cock. Its in the attitude...

Well, I think it's good advice, but in some practical respects, only works within reason.

For example, drawing the hips back 10" on the out-stroke, when guy's only got 4.5" and constantly saying, "oops!" doesn't go over too well as being sexy. :wink:

 

[MidusCo.]

Ok so hows he go from being to small to to big?

 

[capcraz]

In my humble opinion... If you really love this person there are several things you should and several things you shouldn't do. Whatever you do, do NOT tell him or indicate to him that his penis is too small to please you, it could damage his psyche for life and has been known to lead to disorders like ED from lack of confidence. If he's never had anyone else he may already harbor deep insecurities about himself or how he compares to everyone else. You are probably a bit intimidating to him as an experienced person. You can use that to your advantage. Guide him into the positions you like the best and tell him what feels good, really let him know when it's working. And if you "cum" every time it can't be all that bad. It makes a man want to try harder if he knows he's pleasuring you, that's why a silent fuck is so annoying at times. It's also more arousing to know that what you're doing feels good... when my girlfriend moans and groans it gets me even harder and more enthusiastic, at times I've added up to about an extra quarter inch in girth from those thoughts. Communicate with him!! If you're really wanting more size tell him you have a fantasy of him working you with a dildo... but do it in a way that makes it sound like a fantasy, not "hey strap this on shrimpy and fuck me like a real man". Tell him it's something you never could get anyone else to do for you... If he thinks that doing this will pleasure you further he'll likely do it, and in his mind he'll have a One Up on the competition. By the way... have you ever heard of oral? It's a trick for many small sized men... or so I've heard. Instead of focusing on how he 'doesn't' please you focus on how he COULD please you and develop as a couple. Stroking his ego can go a long way...:wink:

 

[bakardi420]

5 pages of responses and not 1 from the OP yet. lol oh well

 

[rob_just_rob]

5 pages of responses and not 1 from the OP yet. lol oh well

It's possible that he's found better jack-off material elsewhere. :biggrin1:

 

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

99.9% of posters on this board talking about loose pussies are men.

 

[rob_just_rob]

You mean there are people out there who will post just to try and get us to innocently provide them with wank material?

I doubt it... I was just being facetious. :wink:

So... when are you putting some gallery pics up?:tongue:

 

[Mr. Snakey]

99.9% of posters on this board talking about loose pussies are men.

Thats the truth!

 

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

Thats the truth!

I know you love a big, stretched out, queefy gash as much as I do...and a loose pussy too.

 

[Mr. Snakey]

I know you love a big, stretched out, queefy gash as much as I do...and a loose pussy too.

Oh yes! You know that! The bigger the better!:wink: