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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by hellopi, Nov 14, 2010.
male female, can we all be gay if we want to?
Do you really think it's a matter of choice?
No. Not just anyone can be gay. It's a rare privilege, and you have to be approved by the Gay Mafia.
Straight men can turn a bit gay in prison but it's a compromise, for the lack of women. I'm straight and I can fantasize about another man's dick but only if it's put into the context of it fucking a woman.
Unfortunately anyone can be gay, if it were up to me I would have much higher entrance criteria. The Gay Mafia have it right.
No, not anyone can be gay, no more than I can be straight.
Believe me, if I could have chosen to be straight when I was younger I would have. I used to wish and pray that it was a choice.
Today however, I'm glad it wasn't. Since excepting myself for who I am, I have become so much more happy and lessed stressed, and have found the best partner in life that I could have ever dreamed for :biggrin1:
What this man said.
The only thing I might add is to ask why anyone would choose to be gay. I have gay friends and love them dearly, and it breaks my heart to hear about the discrimination and violence they suffer. Who would choose to be treated as second class? Who would choose the beatings, both emotional and physical, that these lovely people endure? Who would choose the rejection?
Depends on what's considered gay.
No its not a choice why would someone choose to be something that is hated so much people may think it is a fad but its not its a struggle that's really hard to handle
As sidebar - when I came out to my adult sons, the one closest emotionally said something like, "if you are gay than I could be gay."
Of course I understood then and I understand now. He is not gay
that I am aware of...
...and I guess it is about how you interpret the question. "Can anyone be gay" meaning "is it possible for any one individual to have a predisposition to homosexality..?" then I would still think yes, it is possible.
However, if, as is being interpreted in some posts, "can anyone be gay" meaning "could anybody choose to become sexually attracted to another person of the same sex..?" then I would have to agree with the above posters who said it is no more possible than I could "choose" to be straight.
Y'are what y'are and you got to make the most of it. Personally, if someone brought out a pill tomorrow that could make me straight, I would run a mile. Im happy with who I am, I wouldn't change for anything.
Don't you remember in 6th grade health class and the day you had to CHOOSE be str8 or gay. So the answer is yes.
That just about sums it up.
Or alternatively, you can shove a Gucci purse up yer ass and you'll be queerer than the Village People.
It's a real hard one. I'd love to have gone without the rejection, parental misunderstanding etc. And yet being at least 50 percent gay feels not just normal but necessary and fantastic when I get it. But if I could feel that about straight sex I would have gone for that any time. So long answer is I don't think anyone can be gay, it's the cards that are dealt to you but you might as well have the grace to love what you have.
Can we all be straight if we want to?
Are you an ex-con-tortionist?
Depends on what your definition of "is" is.
Alternatively, what if you shove the Village People up yer ass?
> Y'are what y'are <
p.s. and that's all what I yam. :biggrin2:
No, I don't think so.
I find girls hot all the time but it stops there for me. I can never think anything beyond thinking they are totally hot and how I am attracted to them.
My mom thinks I'm les sometimes because I get obsessed with hot celeb chicks because she can't seem to comprehend that attraction doesn't define sexual preference.
I'm pretty sure only gay people can be gay...
Granted, one can always hide who they really are, a gay guy could spend his whole life shagging women, but that doesn't make him straight any more than being faithful to my husband makes me straight.
It really isn't your actions that determine your sexuality, it's what's inside that counts.
You can lie to your friends, family and co-workers, but you can never hide the truth from yourself, no matter how hard you try.
Having sex with the same gender?
Well my definition of what gay is, might not be what your definition of gay is.
This. Sex with the same gender isn't gay if its only an action, if you don't feel gay inside then surely you're not gay. right?
Only if you promise to watch.
Practise makes perfect. I wasn't great at it when first coming out but after years of experience, I'm damn good. :wink: